So, I guess thats it, he blew me off?
I went out for 4 hours Saturday with this guy just to get to know eachother. We emailed eachother once on Sunday and he called me later that night, but the conversation wasnt very long maybe 40 min. Monday came and went. Now Tuesday evening I emailed him early this afternoon asked how is day was going. You know small chit chat. I have not heard from him at all, not even an email. Part of my family has met him. He thought they were great and was happy to meet them. The only thing is, is I dont wait around for no guy if I dont hear from them. But my family is telling me to just wait and see. I have not heard back from him since Sunday. Not even an email today or a voice message. Valenties day is tomorrow and nothing he doesnt have my address, but I cant help but feel I have been blown off and now I sit here on V-day with no guy. Am I reading to much into this to fast? Or do you think he really blew me off? I mean come on a guy cant take a minute to
2007-02-13 13:43:43 · 12 answers · asked by Beth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send an email or call me to see how I am doing? I am 25 he is 30.
2007-02-13 13:44:27 · update #1
THANKS EVERYONE YOU MADE ME FEEL BETTER.
2007-02-13 13:53:14 · update #2
Ok, I think he may still be interested.(he did call you the next day) Remember that guys sometimes act like they don't care just to get you to think about them (just like you're doing right now). On the other hand, I don't know what your intentions are . . . isn't it too soon to want to spend Valentine's day with him? You said you met on Saturday . . . it just sounds like you want someone to spend Valentine's day with . . . If this isn't the case, then I think you should give a couple more days.
2007-02-13 14:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh give me a break. He does have a life you know. Maybe he is busy. You need to back off. You didn't talk long on the phone, well I personally think 40 minutes is a long call. You don't want to sit around and wait, it only has been two days. Give the guy some breathing room. It was a date not a wedding. You need a dog that will be at your beck and call not a guy. geesh.
2007-02-13 13:50:23 · answer #2 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, anything is possible. But before you come to a conclusion, WAIT.....Monday started a new work week, and he may be very busy during the week. From the other info you gave, I think he is probably busy or maybe some kind of emergency came up.... wait til you get the facts.......but dont wait forever. Good luck and Happy Valentines Day
2007-02-13 13:49:53 · answer #3 · answered by Heath B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women will do the same thing. I went out with a woman from yahoo personals emailed her later on asking if she was interested & the answer was a short no. Ask for a direct answer if he wants to get together again yes or no & forget about the chit chat.
2007-02-13 13:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by myrtle1beach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-04 03:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe hes busy with some other stuff. its all up to you if you wanted to wait for him but i think you should go out with some other guys instead of wasting your time thimking of a guy who doesnt reply with your email. If he really like you he will get an extra mile to be with you or to contact you.
2007-02-13 13:49:35 · answer #6 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is your beginning to a friendship you need to slow down and lower your expectations of this. Moving to fast can scare some people off. Give him some time and space and if he's interested he'll be back.
2007-02-13 13:51:19 · answer #7 · answered by Thomas S 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldnt hold my breath waiting, or put all my eggs in one basket.
So dont worrie about him and do what you have to do. Dont give up on him. Just slowly start to move on... and 40 MIN CONVO thats long for MOST men!!! be lucky you get/got that!!!
2007-02-13 13:51:01 · answer #8 · answered by SARAH D 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't blame yourself. He's checked out who you are. Ans decided that you weren't who he was looking for. You'll find someone. Be patient. Listen to your Heart. It'll tell you when and where. Happy Valentines Day, to ya!
2007-02-13 13:48:49 · answer #9 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
40 minutes is a very long conversation. Maybe he doesn't like it that you talk so much. Maybe he just likes beign with you without talking too much.
2007-02-13 13:47:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anpadh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋