I have friends who treat me badly in public, yet in private they are ok, however in public I was virtually invisible. They did not acknowledge me publicly as a friend. And in addition, they also get along well with a lot of ppl, managing to put up a good impression in front of them. It's very difficult to get other ppl to see their hypocrisy. How can I deal with them?
2007-02-13 13:52:48 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
THESE PEOPLE DO NOT SOUND MUCH LIKE FRIENDS TO ME. A REAL FRIEND WOULD NOT NOT MAKE YOU FEEL LIKE AN OUTCAST AND WOULD NOT FIND PLEASURE IN PUTTING YOU DOWN. REALIZE YOUR OWN SELFWORTH AND TRY TO FIND SOME REAL FRIENDS. FRIENDSHIPS SHOULD BE CONSTANT AND UNWAVERING. THEY SHOULD BE BUILDING US UP AND NOT TEARING US DOWN. THEY SHOULD MAKE US FEEL MORE COMPLETE AND HAPPY.GOOD LUCK!
2007-02-19 04:06:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can ditch them quietly, like being busy all the time when they want to hang out. Or just ask them why they don't hang with you when they are in public. It would put them on the spot and they have to answer you. You would be able to tell if they are lying.
But First
Take a sniff though, do you smell? Do you brush your teeth regularly? Got a nice hair cut? Wear clean clothes?
All that makes a difference. Check yourself out and see why they wouldn't want others to think you guys hang out. All the stuff I listed can be fixed and is forgivable. Lots of people are ok with positive change.
Not saying you are any of that stuff but then again I don't know.
2007-02-20 19:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I tell you toxic people don't belong in your life. Make them aware that they are treating you that way in confidence. I know it's hard, but if they don't change their ways, let them go. Then, they will see the value of a friend they had in you and watch them come flocking back. Trust me!!!!
2007-02-13 14:00:03 · answer #3 · answered by LT 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These are not your friends sweetie. Find you a new group of friends who will pay attention to you all the time and not just in private.
2007-02-21 11:26:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them straight up that if they don't treat you kindly in public, then you can't be friends. If they continue to act this way,don't be friends, and find people who respect you.
2007-02-20 06:51:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
listen u don,t need friends like that who are hipocrites.find better friends who will appreciate u for who u are.loose them and stay away from them thats your best bet,lots luck to u.
2007-02-20 07:58:56 · answer #6 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They may think of you as ''the loser'',but you're no loser. They are losers because the lost a goos friend. Be a winner,get new friends.
2007-02-13 14:04:40 · answer #7 · answered by Ericqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump them!! Their losers.
2007-02-20 03:20:39 · answer #8 · answered by sandnickel2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋