He said he moved out due to the stress...but still wants me to tell him everything that is going on...he calles every day and asks how i am and if everything is ok...and still helps me with everything...I dont understand any of it...
2007-02-13 13:45:17 · 7 answers · asked by hurtalloveragainks 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes...I am his wife.....
2007-02-13 13:57:45 · update #1
If he moved out due to stress he is NOT ALLOWED to know all the comings and goings of your life tell him he is either in or out!
If hes out keep him out of the loop and your information!
2007-02-13 13:50:03 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Tom 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could it be that he moved out because he didn't want to be responsible for what goes on in your home? Or tired of it? If he was stressed, you could have helped him as well, if he let you. He still will have stress by even talking on the phone if you are dealing with the same problems before. How is it different? He may be not ready to take on that responsibility to be a husband and the whole package with it. Or, it could be that he sees himself as a failure. So, it could be many things. You just need to sit down and ask him.
2007-02-13 21:51:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he seeing a doctor for his stress? It sounds to me that he still loves and cares about you alot and that he really wants to know what is going on with you on a daily basis... This tell me that there is hope for you and your marriage. Talk with him about seeing a doctor for his stress and that you are willing to go to the appointment with him if he would like. Also see if he is open to going to counseling with you. I wish you and your husband the best and i hope and pray that you will be back together soon. Hugs to you today.
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2007-02-13 22:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guestion if the stress is so great why is he in contact with the the stress problem .This dosen't seem to be the answer. He has issues, Find out what they are as he is not telling you the truth?????
2007-02-13 22:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he can't handle the responsibility, but still wants a say in all the work he wants you to do alone... Tell him goodbye and mean it hun... You're his wife (?) not his mom. He sounds too immature to bother with any longer.
2007-02-13 21:56:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say if you were married. If not, just dump the guy and get on with your life.
2007-02-13 21:48:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone goes through that .....everyone don't be depressed just live your life have fun don't mourn!
2007-02-13 21:51:13 · answer #7 · answered by me!!!!!!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋