Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

Friends with benefits?
we have been like this for 9 months we talk everyday his job is 24hours training recruits to be marines so i don't see him that much we've talked about being official but my friends keep interfering with us and he dosn't like it they have done alot of damage so he doesn't feel comfortable with me. my friends will call him and cuss him out saying things that i never said starting all kinds of drama and then say that they are playing with him and i want him to forgive me for my friends actions they get very childish sometimes one of my friends ruined my 4 year relationship because of their actions i don't want it to happen again. he tells me all the time how i am perfect for him and how i'm wife material but my friends are in the way he's afraid that it will rub off on me. no rude comments please this situation is soo frustrating for me i'm ready to make it official even though his job keeps him busy. how can i get him to trust me and make it official?

2007-02-13 14:32:25 · 8 answers · asked by mrs. MJ 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 14:31:50 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Just want to know i'm not the only one

2007-02-13 14:31:10 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I just broke up with my boyfriend because we got into a dumb arguement. He called me and said "I wanna break up". So I hung up on him because i didn't want him to finish what he was saying. And tomorrow is Valentine's Day!

2007-02-13 14:31:05 · 15 answers · asked by spirit22poet 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I are having problems because if it isnt 1 of them it is another and we have no time to be alone. Also we seperated earlier this week so he could have time out as he is close to breaking and I cant help but feel he is financially providing to much for these grown children and things wont improve untill we let them fend for themselves. Do you think we should move far away? I am considering Cairns, Australia.

2007-02-13 14:30:57 · 8 answers · asked by karena k 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, if a guy liked you, and you said you liked him back, and you didn't think it would work becuase of other issues and you frequently acknowlegde the fact that you like him, and he flirts with you, would you excpect a gift ofr vday?

2007-02-13 14:30:54 · 19 answers · asked by monkeyluver13 2 in Friends

A girl has been flirting with a guy for two years but I'm trying to warn him it's going to get into trouble.... He insists she's just being friendly...

2007-02-13 14:29:50 · 5 answers · asked by fnguy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 14:29:29 · 4 answers · asked by laker_lalaland_81 1 in Friends

HOW are all the russians? ♥

2007-02-13 14:29:21 · 7 answers · asked by Ryskaya♥Devchenka 2 in Friends

We got a new seating chart in reading and I have to sit next to a boy named Andy. While we were in class, my hand was on my thigh when i was listening. He grabed my hand and held it for like 10 seconds. I didn't say anything I just pulled my hand back. He did it again like 10 minutes later. Then at the end of class he asked me what my name was for like the 3rd time. Does he like me? I've been thinking about it all day, and I noticed how much I like him :)

PS. Should I ask him out? What if he already has a girlfriend?

2007-02-13 14:29:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is new at school and we talk once. We talk about our school history and religion. She told me she lives with her grandmother and she goes to this big church. She told me she used to go to private school and she had to wear a dress and she didn't like it. So she now goes to the public school. She also said that our class feels like it's summer school. Are conversation ended when are 10 min break was over and back to work. I was leaving early right when break was over. She told me she was leaving in 2 hours. Anyways She said she was a loser and she walk back to class and I told her no your not. And that was it we both walk away and headed in different directions. I thought the conversation was going good, but she was doing most of the talking. Why do you think she called her self a loser for? She sound kinda serious when she called her self a loser. Maybe she thought I was bored with our conversation. Next day in class I was doing my work and this girl ask for a piece of gum and the girl im interested was sittin behind me and she ask for a piece too. I gave both of them a piece and the girl i'm interested said i'm sorry for bothering you and I said that's alright. I was going to say something than she puts her head down and goes back to work. She didn't have any friends when she was new now she has 4-5 friends, but 1 that's really her true friend which he's gay btw. Anyways when she walks past me she won't even look at me. I hate when a girl ignores you like that. I'm not gonna talk to her unless she looks at me because to me that just seems like she doesn't want anything to do with me. I don't really know her that well, but i think she been acting weird. The class was on break so almost everyone goes outside and gets some fresh air and some stay inside by the door and waits for break to be over. The guys and I stay inside and wait for break to be over while the girls go outside and get some fresh air. I saw her talking to this guy outside and she anyways break was just about over and the girl comes inside and she kinda shouts to the guys if the door was lock. The guys said yea and than she seem like she had an attitude sayin in a rude way i'm going right back outside and goes right back and talks to the guy. Then I went outside and told her the door is now open and she ignore me like she didn't hear me. She was still talking to the guy. And few minutes later she comes inside and im right there and she didn't look at me. Then she goes back in the class and im still in the hall. So she gets out of class takes out her cell phone and calls her mother. And she goes outside and talks. The guy that she was talkin to was still out there. As soon as there conversation was over she said peace out to him. She could of ask me if the door was lock. I mean I was right next to her when she said it. What is up with her?

2007-02-13 14:28:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 14:28:37 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

she's one of my good friend and her Sweet 16 is comming up. what should i wrote on the b-day card. something meaningful, not too short, not too long...PLEASE HELP!

2007-02-13 14:27:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We had a long, nice relationship, but her brother hated me. He sent me hate mail every day, threatening me to break up with her, or else. He's 2 years younger than me. He stopped e-mailing me for a while. Then he began to say how she doesn't like me anymore, how they both hate me. I asked her every day is she still loved me, and she said yes. THEN her little brother started saying how she's already with somebody else, and they've been together for days. I ask her still, continuously, and she says yes. One day, I meet up with her. She's with her brother, and another guy. Im there, confused. I ask what's going on, and she says "Didn't my brother tell you?"

I was pretty shocked.
I was mortified every day after that happened.

I said "But I asked you every day if you still love me..."
She says "Oh, I thought you meant love, as in friends."
...
I try to talk to her.
When I ask why she suddenly just left me, she NEVER gives me a straight answer...

What are your opinions on this?
Thanks...

2007-02-13 14:27:51 · 16 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Singles & Dating

or have you ever tried anything similar and had something creepy happen?

2007-02-13 14:27:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 14:26:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So Im in a relationship now. My GF and I are very happy. I hear that if a guy is too nice...then girls get bored of them and leave. Is that true? I mean...Im the kind that I dont see women as sex material, u noe...and i definately hate 1 night stand. Im really nice and my GF noes...im just scared she would leave me becos of that?

2007-02-13 14:26:30 · 14 answers · asked by Marty 2 in Singles & Dating

do you know other places, cities... ;-))

2007-02-13 14:25:37 · 2 answers · asked by FaZ 6 in Singles & Dating

next month mar. i have to parctice to be in the schools prom fashion show and im very nervous just thinking about. how do i get over this.

2007-02-13 14:25:26 · 8 answers · asked by Ms vanilla light skin thick chix 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing a girl who I love for a month now and I'm sure I love her but have not dared to tell her. Would this, being Vallentines' Day be a good time to tell her? Are you sure?

2007-02-13 14:24:38 · 12 answers · asked by Martin B 3 in Singles & Dating

OMG i don't have school tomorrow!!!!!!!! Tomorrow is Valentine's Day and i don't get to see my boyfriend!!!! I really was hoping we would have school tomorrow so i could see him but no b/c of the stupid weather!!!! It isn't fair!!!! I wish that it didn't have to snow!!!!

2007-02-13 14:24:22 · 11 answers · asked by iloveyou.<3. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Steven Steven Steven I want you to know i love you i love you. I am so sorry what i did to you to get you mad i know it wasnt fab. Cause i knew i knew i`d loose you youll always be speacial to me speacial me. you will never see the chirstmas tree glow the chirstmas tree glow. I knew I knew I`dd loose you I knew I knew I`dd loose you youll never see the thanks giving turkey coming out the oven. I will miss you I will I will miss you.

STEVEN I LOVE YOU YOU BETTER KNOW NO MATTER WHAT HOW MUCH WE ARGURE BARELY WE WILL STILL BE LOVING BROTHER AND SISTER THANK YOU FOR FIGHING TO THE MARINES.

2007-02-13 14:24:03 · 2 answers · asked by sucideisablast 2 in Family

see i have this friend is like mybest friend. she has this friend and i think they toke behinde my back. im so scared. see that girl was saying stuff that like this guy likes me and then i said that u like thisguy. and she really did like that guy and didnt tell me about it. she got mad and thought that my friend told her. then when i was talking to my friend today on im i saod that that girl was mad at me and then it felt like she was mad at me what should i do?

2007-02-13 14:23:39 · 1 answers · asked by i luv peace 1 in Friends

I don't get it. I'm clearly not. I'm overweight (a little, not that much) I'm taller than almost every toehr girl i know, I have scruffy hair, I dress like a stupid emo kid, I wear a lot of eyeliner, and HE STILL TELLS ME I'M BEAUTIFUL. Nobody else does except people that have to like my family and it's getting freaking irritating. I'll even post a picture if you want, just PROVE HIM WRONG!

2007-02-13 14:23:35 · 26 answers · asked by pookie 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm in the early planning stages of my wedding but my budget is really low. Any ideas on cheap flowers, caterers, places to hold my wedding, cheap cakes, etc?
Thank you.

2007-02-13 14:23:21 · 5 answers · asked by roxy 4 in Weddings

why is it better to talk to a guy friend rather than with girls?

2007-02-13 14:23:15 · 6 answers · asked by zolsmor 1 in Friends

What would you think if a married man (coworker) asked you out for lunch.

2007-02-13 14:23:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm still madly in love with my ex, but she doesn't feel anything for me. We used to be madly in love but she lost interest and said she just didn't feel that spark anymore and that we just didn't have the right chemistry anymore and little in common. That was awhile ago and because of her inspiration in my life I have changed alot since then, and I feel like we deserve a second chance. I feel like now we have alot in common and that everything could be better than before but she's calling it a closed chapter. It didn't work out, the end. I absolutely adore her in every way, WHAT SHOULD I DO?

2007-02-13 14:22:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 14:21:57 · 1 answers · asked by Dal3y 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im sorry but i just dont get it. lol

2007-02-13 14:21:45 · 18 answers · asked by Wee-Wah 3 in Other - Family & Relationships