my husband & i have been married for 6 years. i was diagnosed with crohn's disease 3 years ago, & in the beginning he was very supportive of me & was willing to do everything to help me get better. but things have changed over the past couple of years & he has become very distant. all the meds i take have killed my libido, so i try really hard to take care of him in other ways & show him i love him, like working & taking care of his meals, cleaning & the sort. i am there for him when he needs a shoulder, but things are getting worse. i have suspisions that he has been cheating on me & have found eveidence that could prove it. however, he denighs it 100%. i want so badly to believe him, but it is very hard. on top of it, he has a major spending problem, even though we are going into debt consolodation and have 1 car repo'd, he still keeps buying things. i feel that 6 years is too much to throw away, but i am at the end of my rope! his communication skills suck. how can we ever work?
2007-02-13
14:35:51
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shiningstar1313
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Marriage & Divorce