If there is no physical relationship at all but the feelings are there, is it still cheating?
2007-02-13 14:33:03 · 12 answers · asked by LuLu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If it takes away from your primary relationship at all, it's a form of cheating.
It's okay to love your friends, have close relationships, etc. But the moment that it infringes on the time, energy or emotions that you have to invest in your primary relationship, it's gone too far.
2007-02-13 14:37:07 · answer #1 · answered by Jarien 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes this is still cheating and wanting to be unfaithful to your spouse. I feel this is wrong and just as bad as doing the actual act and or deed. If it is in your heart long enough you cannot tell me that if you had the opportunity that you would never give in and actually give in to your lust and desires and do the physical act. We are what we think.
2007-02-13 22:37:29 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, yes, yes. An emotional attraction is dangerous - you are pulling your attention away from where it belongs (your spouse) and focusing it on someone else. Also, what's to stop the emotional attraction from becoming physical??
2007-02-13 22:38:52 · answer #3 · answered by mommy1103 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that's even more dangerous than just having a physical relationship with someone.
If feelings are involved that's very bad.
2007-02-13 23:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well technically no your not cheating..but you need to figure out who you are in love with because if you have some major feelings towards someone else..its not fair to your husband to stay with him...just a thought....everyone has curiosities about people...but make sure what you are feeling is real towards this other person
2007-02-13 22:37:34 · answer #5 · answered by blondemom133 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I look at it this way. If all is right, you wouldn't be attracted like that.
You know that one day you will be on your own..not due to divorce..
and you aren't looking..but one day..that wonderful person is in your face..what do you do? Pretend he isn't there? No, I believe things happen at the right time.
2007-02-13 23:07:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is worse, because you are sharing your emotions, feelings, love with someone else.
2007-02-13 23:08:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would it hurt you if your partner were involved in a relationship of that depth outside of your relationship?
There is your answer.
2007-02-13 23:16:27 · answer #8 · answered by Karen? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are giving them emotions you should be sharing wit hyour spouse.
2007-02-13 22:48:10 · answer #9 · answered by Muslimah 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God yes I believe that is cheating.Hurts just as bad.
2007-02-13 23:03:08 · answer #10 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋