why is it better to talk to a guy friend rather than with girls?
2007-02-13 14:23:15 · 6 answers · asked by zolsmor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Yes i do. They aren't as judgmental.
2007-02-13 14:26:51 · answer #1 · answered by besitos2610 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I am a woman and I am extremely more satisfied with male friends than with female friends (I don't even really have a close female friend anymore, actually). It's better to talk to guys because they are supportive, they have a sense of humor, they are there for you when they say they'll be, they tend to be more confident and less competitive than women (who are insecure), and they are more laid back (like I think I am). Girls are competitive, insecure, and uptight. They don't listen or have patience when you need to talk if their guys come around. They ditch you when it's convenient for them and use you to tell you all about their problems. But the best reason why guy friends are better than girl friends is because guys don't hold grudges. Women get upset at each other for ANYthing. You make the wrong facial expression, say the wrong thing, etc. and they freak out and withdraw. A man will be cool and talk out problems with you, then move on and be laughing with you 5 minutes later. Women over-analyze everything and misjudge you.
Despite all this, I'd love to have a best female friend. It's nice to have a girl to share with, but maybe a non-typical woman. Someone more laid back, but still sensitive, who likes to laugh and talk. Ah well, I love my guy friends. Maybe someday I'll have girlfriends.
2007-02-14 00:53:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes and No...Your guy friend will give you insight on just how guys think..But female friends will teach you how about "Caty-ness"..And by that I mean facetiousness. But always remember, never tell anyone other than a sister/brother all your thoughts b/c if a person knows everything you know and all they know,,then they're twice as smart as you.
2007-02-13 22:30:55 · answer #3 · answered by Nu Nu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes because guys arent as sensative and we tend to mess around in a rough way. Like we can sock eachother and call eachother names and crap and still be best friends, its in our nature. Plus guys tend to just forget the bad stuff that happend between us. Girls tend to keep it with him and remember them all the time. And girls are sensitive so they get mad easier and its harder for them to forgive and they are usually judgemental.
2007-02-13 22:34:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tenzo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are a guy and you are more comfortable with them. No, girls can be wonderful friends. It just depends on their individual personality.
2007-02-13 22:29:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i agree theyre easier 2 tlak wit cuz they understand and could be sensative and dont make it a big deal like girls
2007-02-13 22:28:09 · answer #6 · answered by beautifulgirl♥ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋