We had a long, nice relationship, but her brother hated me. He sent me hate mail every day, threatening me to break up with her, or else. He's 2 years younger than me. He stopped e-mailing me for a while. Then he began to say how she doesn't like me anymore, how they both hate me. I asked her every day is she still loved me, and she said yes. THEN her little brother started saying how she's already with somebody else, and they've been together for days. I ask her still, continuously, and she says yes. One day, I meet up with her. She's with her brother, and another guy. Im there, confused. I ask what's going on, and she says "Didn't my brother tell you?"
I was pretty shocked.
I was mortified every day after that happened.
I said "But I asked you every day if you still love me..."
She says "Oh, I thought you meant love, as in friends."
...
I try to talk to her.
When I ask why she suddenly just left me, she NEVER gives me a straight answer...
What are your opinions on this?
Thanks...
2007-02-13 14:27:51 · 16 answers · asked by JJ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems that she is not woman enough to be straight with you and avoids confrontation. It seems you may never get the answer you are looking for... an honest, heartfelt response. The best thing for you is to move on and be okay with never knowing or it will eat you up inside forever. Believe you are better than someone who treats you that way. Besides, how immature to use her brother to do her dirty work.
2007-02-13 14:32:13 · answer #1 · answered by sadmom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heartbreaking story! I'm so sorry! :( I think she knew what you meant when you asked her if she loved you. Maybe she's to embarrassed to give you a straight answer. I'm sorry to say this, but I would recommend leaving her alone. Try forgetting about her. This may make her wonder why you stopped talking to her. Then, she could start up talking to you truthfully again.
Her brother was pretty dumb to send you emails like that. If he does that again, tell him to stop. If he doesn't, then talk to someone you trust about the whole thing.
Hope everything works out for you! :)
2007-02-13 22:37:53 · answer #2 · answered by angelfromabove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally, I don't say this but what a witch and I don't mean witch.... Look, you got screwed. I can't really apologize for others, but I'm sorry for what happened to you. You asked for honesty, she gave you bull manure. If she can't give you a straight or definite answer, in my opinion she's not worth your time or your thoughts. I hate to say I know something, but I'd say she knows why she did what she did, she just doesn't have the maturity to tell you why she did what she did. Good luck.
2007-02-13 22:30:31 · answer #3 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people are deceiving....and not worth your time. The trouble is that sometimes its hard, nearly impossible, to pick them out of a crowd. I dated a total loser for 2 years before I realized it....but the best thing I ever did was leave him for good. Don't stress out over her and why she dumped you. It sounds to me like this is a problem she has within herself, not a problem that you created. Don't let yourself get down....start fresh with someone else. Someone who deserves you!
2007-02-13 22:33:22 · answer #4 · answered by krystiinkay 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that it hard for you to let go but you have to move on i know you gonna have that ice box where ur heart use to be but you got to get over it she played you like a dog you not and you should make her regret and find someone who you like dearly and work it like you never work it before
2007-02-13 22:33:36 · answer #5 · answered by MIZZAMERICAOF2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she played you because she is shy and doesn't want to hurt you herself so she uses her brother to talk to you .just move on there will be other girls--i have met some 32+girls that are of commendable status, there is always a girl... well get on eit ur life while u r still young
2007-02-13 22:32:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it is one of two things. either she was using you and wanted her brother to send you those messages so that you wouldn't want to stay with her. or maybe her family got involved and told her she had too. how old is this girl? either way you are better off without her. she obviously didn't care about you if she didn't have the common decency to tell you herself.
2007-02-13 22:33:16 · answer #7 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is the sadest break up i have ever heard of. There is nothing wrong with you, this girl has issues. Don't waste your love on her. move on and find someone else who can care for u as much as u care about them.
2007-02-13 22:31:54 · answer #8 · answered by Alexis's Love Potion #9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-13 22:40:03 · answer #9 · answered by ken m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. There are more fishes in the sea.
The Best is yet to come. It is not the end of the world.
Move on.
2007-02-13 22:35:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋