I've been seeing a girl who I love for a month now and I'm sure I love her but have not dared to tell her. Would this, being Vallentines' Day be a good time to tell her? Are you sure?
2007-02-13 14:24:38 · 12 answers · asked by Martin B 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
contrary to popular opinion, it IS possible to fall in love quite quickly.
you should know in your own mind if it is love or maybe just the "nice slushy feeling" of feeling really good in someones company.
if u feel you want to tell her you love her now then St Vals Day is one of the best times you can do so.
good luck and i wish you both well in 2007. hope it works out for u.
xxxx
2007-02-13 20:35:26 · answer #1 · answered by Cubangirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know this wont sound very nice, but to be honest ithink you should NOT tell her, leave it off for as long as you can.. sometimes we all think we are in love when actually its not love, but just a strong fondness, things aleways go really well for a few months or even years but in the end its not real love......you must make sure you REALLY love her b4 u say anything, and 1 month is way too soon....
2007-02-13 22:36:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her then tell her. You don't necessarily have to tell her on Valentine's day. Valentine's day is very commercialized now, and it isn't really as symbolic. But it would almost be cliche to tell her on Valentine's Day. Do something romantic one night, and then tell her, it will be more meaningful for the both of you. Plus being Valentine's day, she may not know if you really love her, and may think you are just under pressure to say you love her because it is Valentine's day.
2007-02-14 00:25:09 · answer #3 · answered by amcs 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It would great time to tell her! It is the biggest sweetheart day of the year. I gotta feeling she alreadys knows how you feel but is waiting on you to say the words. Make her day special.
2007-02-13 22:32:06 · answer #4 · answered by JJ J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
after only a month of dating absolutely not! you may think you love her but y'all barely know each other, for all you know it is just puppy love. give her a special valentines but don't say the words i love you. that is unless you are trying to run her off.
2007-02-13 22:29:20 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Martin, if you don't tell her now she may never know. She may reject you, but you are best to express love whilst it's fresh. If she rejects you, then you can move on before an obsession becomes a sickness. Go for it .. But never expect too much! Good luck young man.
DO IT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-13 22:45:36 · answer #6 · answered by I'm Sparticus 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should wait and see if you really DO love her first...I dont want anyone to get hurt!
2007-02-13 22:40:39 · answer #7 · answered by Pink 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes tell her on v day
2007-02-13 22:28:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will be a wonderful day to tell her! i bet she is waiting on that!
2007-02-13 22:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by kat_luvr2003 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEs, OR sooner! Why wait! If you haven't noticed life, " is no dress rehearsal".
2007-02-13 22:27:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋