I'm still madly in love with my ex, but she doesn't feel anything for me. We used to be madly in love but she lost interest and said she just didn't feel that spark anymore and that we just didn't have the right chemistry anymore and little in common. That was awhile ago and because of her inspiration in my life I have changed alot since then, and I feel like we deserve a second chance. I feel like now we have alot in common and that everything could be better than before but she's calling it a closed chapter. It didn't work out, the end. I absolutely adore her in every way, WHAT SHOULD I DO?
2007-02-13 14:22:59 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am sorry man, but you have to move on. No means no, you could potentially drive her even further away if you continue to push. Or even worse you could get a restraining order. That's bad news across the board. The best thing you can do is try to remain friends (no hidden agenda) and who knows maybe she will appreciate that and then who knows what comes next.
Good luck.
2007-02-13 14:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by John P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-27 21:50:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go. Once a chick makes up her mind on something like that, theres no changing it. Any further efforts to change her mind would be viewed as anywhere between annoying, and stalking. Theres plenty more of them out there man. Impress a new one.
2007-02-13 14:29:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the same position you are. Keep holding your head up high and believing its for the best. I know its really hard to accept something like this. But if she's not gonna give anything back to you than your best bet is to let it go and move on.
2007-02-13 14:43:50 · answer #4 · answered by letmedanse4u 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As cruel and harsh as it may sound, forget her and move on with your life. The positive changes you have made in your life as a result of the relationship will help you in the next. It like my daddy used to say "There's no point in flogging a dead horse".
2007-02-13 14:29:08 · answer #5 · answered by Trail Hiker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should accept that she doesn't feel as you do, and move on. Sometimes no matter how much we think we're a great match for someone, it's just not so...if they don't feel the same then it's NOT a good match.
Put your effort into making your life great, and in time someone will cross your path who digs you as much as you dig them.
2007-02-13 14:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Explain to her how you changed since all this occurred. Tell her that you are still in love with her and that you think your relationship with each other deserves another chance, same thing you are telling in your question, tell it to her. I think she will at least consider being with you after she hears all that.
2007-02-13 14:32:25 · answer #7 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with most people. You have to accept that its over. You're love for that person will never die but it doesn't reflect good on you if you're pleading this person to love you. Someone is out there for you. You just need to realize you're panicing and forget who you were before this person. Embrace what they taught you but realize someone can make you feel better and maybe you won't have to struggle for their love.
2007-02-13 14:30:03 · answer #8 · answered by ccas2200 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like this is your first heartbreak in time your heart will mend. If I was in love with a person and they didn't love me i would stop trying and show them I don't need them anymore. I wouldn't chase after them. GET OVER HER she's not worth it.
2007-02-13 14:35:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seriously...just move on before she thinks your stalking...which would be a bad thing... try to do other things to entertain yourself so your not thinking about "her"... after a while someone else might come along... just takes some people longer then others to get over someone...
2007-02-13 14:27:09 · answer #10 · answered by garrwing 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋