Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

In high school I was once a fat nerd. Right now away at college I am the man I decided to lift weights and get big and ripped and dress more on the tough side right now all the girls want me. When I went back home some of the girls who picked on me and teased me now want me and they got sad and mad when I turned down their offer and cursed at them for being mean and bragged to them about how much women I have. Is that fair revenge?

2007-02-13 13:16:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's 12pm on Valentine's Day here, and yet again, my husband has neglected to do anything for us. It's not that he's forgotten, he just hasn't bothered. It's the 3rd year in a row this has happened. I usually do something for him, but this year I'm not going to because he won't do anything for me, and I know that he hasn't got anything planned for later on. I don't expect or want much, just some flowers or chocolate, hell even a card will do, just something nice, from the heart. But it's the one day of the year that I do expect something, no matter what. I'm really upset and feel neglected. I want him to understand how I'm feeling, but I don't know what to say. Any suggestions?

2007-02-13 13:15:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been a horrible boyfriend to her and i want to prove to her i am a better person now. i had this epiphany and i know she is the one. i need her in my life and i'll do anything.

2007-02-13 13:15:25 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you want to be right?

2007-02-13 13:15:24 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's 12pm on Valentine's Day here, and yet again, my husband has neglected to do anything for us. It's not that he's forgotten, he just hasn't bothered. It's the 3rd year in a row this has happened. I usually do something for him, but this year I'm not going to because he won't do anything for me, and I know that he hasn't got anything planned for later on. I don't expect or want much, just some flowers or chocolate, hell even a card will do, just something nice, from the heart. But it's the one day of the year that I do expect something, no matter what. I'm really upset and feel neglected. I want him to understand how I'm feeling, but I don't know what to say. Any suggestions?

2007-02-13 13:15:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I'm 17 almost 18 and he's 13 almost 14, he's an 8th grader and I'm graduating high school in a few months

I'm going to college nearby so we can continue the relationship

we've been dating about 4 months

no sex, havent even kissed yet because hes not ready

i dont believe in premartial sex

2007-02-13 13:14:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a couple goes to marriage counseling for reasons that don involve unfaithfulness, if one of them has been unfaithful will it come out in the counseling?

2007-02-13 13:14:37 · 9 answers · asked by chefbill 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My favorite is Gerber Daisies...I know I spelt it wrong. Its easier to remember what they are that way!

Do you expect to get them for Valentines Day?

2007-02-13 13:13:43 · 29 answers · asked by Whos your mama? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I been thinking about this question alot lately and wanted to see what some women actually thought. Realistically, equality would take alot of emphasis off of sex and completly destroy gender roles. People would be involved in relationships without feeling obligated to buy this or do that simply because you are a man or a woman. By no means do I think that men don't still promote gender roles for women but I'm personally not into it. So tell me do women want equality or equality when it's going to get them a better job, house, position etc but want to be treated like a "lady" (as offensive as that sounds) in other situations. Equality when it's convenient?

2007-02-13 13:13:39 · 7 answers · asked by Vince R 5 in Singles & Dating

there is this boy i've liked since 4th grade. i have a good feeling that he feels the same way, seeing how he acts around me. i'm trying to find a way to tell him that i like him. but there is one problem- we both go to different schools. ANYONE WITH ADVICE-PLEASE HELP!!!

2007-02-13 13:12:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in an elevator with this guy, I had a sweat shirt on that said Port Susan with a picture of oars and the wheel that you turn on a boat, this guy winks at me and goes, "Hi Susan"....of course I am sure he knew I would reply, that's not my name to which he starts rattling off guessing names through the alphabet, starting with Anna, working up to B for Bridget.....I laughed, got off at my stop and stated...not even close.

2007-02-13 13:11:06 · 12 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

Its for a guy...so answers for guys would be ideal....but fellow ladies can contribute too. Thnx!!!

2007-02-13 13:11:00 · 12 answers · asked by NCA 1 in Singles & Dating

i have tried to save my marriage but my husband wont talk to me to work things out. what do i do? how can i make him see I Love him?

2007-02-13 13:10:33 · 27 answers · asked by Shelby 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl on the internet and we chat for hours and it turns out that I have her for a class in school, but the problem is that once we are in the classroom she would not talk to me we act like complete stranger, plus she's always with her friends and I'm a shy guy so I can't talk to her when she's always with her friends but she does look at me and smiles with me and I smile back and sometimes we just say Hi to each other but that's about it I've tried but everytime I get close to her she ignores me and walks away, I noticed that she talks to other guys but she would not shy away and with me she shies away, but it's weird because once we get home we start chatting that's the only thing she does with me, can anyone tell me why? and can someone tell me if she likes me or not? Thanks I appreciate your help

2007-02-13 13:10:00 · 6 answers · asked by Vicz101 5 in Singles & Dating

Is Valentine's Day this Month?

2007-02-13 13:09:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we try too be romantic but i just dont be interested and then our relationship is just so boring what shouldi do

2007-02-13 13:09:32 · 7 answers · asked by nicole 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My best friend told someone that I like him. All he said was I don't know....so does that mean I don't know if I like her or was that his way of dodging the question...because to me its a yes or no question.

2007-02-13 13:09:01 · 10 answers · asked by Luvtonurse 2 in Singles & Dating

all my life i have caused **** for her. see parent trap i was ten times worse id beat the fella up. so i try to sort things n go out on the piss (day before me mums interview) me mam aint had an unterview for job 4 ova 2years. so i go out that night with me cousin she causees **** and i have 2 ring me mam 2 pick me up athalf 1 ! SHES up for 7 for her interview. she does it n e way and is now in bed. HOW CAN I MAKE IT UP 2 HER?

2007-02-13 13:09:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

mine was umm 3rd grade im in 4th lol we broke up :(

2007-02-13 13:07:37 · 15 answers · asked by person or alien 2 in Singles & Dating

ok,theres this guy in my class that i like and i told him.he told me no he didnt like and that he alreadi had a girlfriend.but lately hes gona out of his way to talk to me and hes been flirting.my emotions are jacked up enough w/out him toying w/them.should i think that he likes me or give up?!HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-02-13 13:07:21 · 10 answers · asked by evildukys93 1 in Singles & Dating

Theres this girl I really like but I'm not sure if she feels the same. The first time I asked her out she said someone already asked her out. The second time she told me she had dance classes. The third she told me she had a tutor. This was one year ago now when I talk to her she smiles at me, speaks in a nice tone, and always greets me first when she sees me.

I know for a fact she didn't lie because she kept bragging about her dance classes and our class was so hard you needed a tutor. But thats besides the point.

2007-02-13 13:06:41 · 12 answers · asked by .......... 4 in Singles & Dating

ok the 3rd girl i have been talking about. i was going to give her a valentines card. but it says your the best valentine eeeeeever!!. the problem is, is its a wwf wrestling card. should i give it to her???

2007-02-13 13:05:48 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am going to surprise him for Valentines Day tomorrow and I have everything ready but I am SO nervous and I don't want it to show!! I have the clothes, the heels, the music, the wine, even the handcuffs! But I am scared to let myself go and I don't even think I know how!

2007-02-13 13:05:30 · 21 answers · asked by nillachica 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do people assume that if you are an unmarried couple your home is unstable? And if you are married your home is stable?

2007-02-13 13:05:07 · 10 answers · asked by Chica Creole 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I planned a brief, but romantic trip (Our first) to the Bahamas with my wife.
Paid for the cruise, arranged for someone to watch the boys, parking, lodging, transportation, everything is taken care of.
Today she made a comment she was dissapointed about not getting to go to a club in Miami since we will be on the cruise. I guess she is not all that excited about it like I am. What can I do? I can't seem to win, ladies are you like this with your husbands also?

2007-02-13 13:04:44 · 2 answers · asked by Indiana Jones 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i asked him to sadies hawkins by leaving balloons by his door and a note and everything asking him to it and i rang the doorbell and ran away. it was pretty fun. but yeah, how long should it take before he calls me with his answer? are guys awkward with that kind of stuff?

2007-02-13 13:04:43 · 6 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

i have 2 bfs and 1 is always around me and wont give me space with my other bf but i dont want to say somthing and she thinks of it bad and gets her mother and her mother just gets mean and annoying soo wat do i do i already tried asking her and she got a huge attidude but my other bf isnt all over me and we have a lot in common but every time i get close to her or talk to my other bf my other bf makes up a stupid reason to come and listen and talk to us so the only time we can talk is on the phone at home all i want to do is talk to my other bf without my other bf coming all over us like she a cat and where the mouseso plz im desperate help plz
from trying to avoid my bf

2007-02-13 13:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by Juicy Princess 2 in Friends

Ok... well heres the deal, you see i went out with this girl i really liked back then and i still do. The problem is that she dumped me a day after we hooked up, because she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend.(this was in OCTOER 12 when i got dumped)
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4 Months later i still find myself to like her even more and yeah love her now. She says lets just be friends for now and lets see wat happens. So yeah we've been closer and closer ever since... but im getting no where. I really love this girl and i cant get her out of my mind. What can or should i do now? Because im about ready to give up because of all this drama. It really hurt to now the girk you love doesnt think you can ever be together and that theres no hope for me. She says she thinks she falling for me but yeah, she says she doesnt know. Again this is tearing me apart, what should or can i do?

2007-02-13 13:04:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

???

2007-02-13 13:03:38 · 38 answers · asked by Chef boyardee 1 in Singles & Dating

some 1 tell me some thing fun to do i'm 18 and live in Auburn Hills MI if u live close tell me some thing that is fun to do i'm bum'd out right now and want some thing to right now but don't know what to do HELP

2007-02-13 13:03:34 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating