Ok... well heres the deal, you see i went out with this girl i really liked back then and i still do. The problem is that she dumped me a day after we hooked up, because she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend.(this was in OCTOER 12 when i got dumped)
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4 Months later i still find myself to like her even more and yeah love her now. She says lets just be friends for now and lets see wat happens. So yeah we've been closer and closer ever since... but im getting no where. I really love this girl and i cant get her out of my mind. What can or should i do now? Because im about ready to give up because of all this drama. It really hurt to now the girk you love doesnt think you can ever be together and that theres no hope for me. She says she thinks she falling for me but yeah, she says she doesnt know. Again this is tearing me apart, what should or can i do?
2007-02-13 13:04:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have to agree with Tiffany. If she were really interested in you, she'd be all over you.
Think about it.... she still had feelings for her ex-boyfriend in Oct and broke up with you. She made a definite decision, there was no wavering back and forth, right?
Now.....she MIGHT be falling for you?? It sounds more like she's trying to protect your feelings and give you false hope rather than be honest with you and risk this friendship that you've developed. She may really enjoy your friendship or the attention that you give her. Unfortunately, it does you no good and only ends up hurting you. If you can, I say move on. Who knows how this will end up?? Women tend to not realize how great a guy really is until they see another woman happy with him.
Good luck
2007-02-13 13:26:11 · answer #1 · answered by Jennie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is leading you on. The only way she will be interested is if you are no longer interested. Girls don't fall for a guy over time if they are really going to fall for him. Seriously. She might want to love you since it sounds like you are so nice, but she is just not attracted. No fireworks. No chemistry. Keep looking. You'll find the one.
2007-02-13 21:08:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋