i have 2 bfs and 1 is always around me and wont give me space with my other bf but i dont want to say somthing and she thinks of it bad and gets her mother and her mother just gets mean and annoying soo wat do i do i already tried asking her and she got a huge attidude but my other bf isnt all over me and we have a lot in common but every time i get close to her or talk to my other bf my other bf makes up a stupid reason to come and listen and talk to us so the only time we can talk is on the phone at home all i want to do is talk to my other bf without my other bf coming all over us like she a cat and where the mouseso plz im desperate help plz
from trying to avoid my bf
2007-02-13 13:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by Juicy Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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what?
2007-02-13 13:07:57 · answer #1 · answered by Lawrence M. Enopee 2 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Well I Think That You Should Avoid The One Thats All Over You Try Going 2 Your Other Friend And Spend Time With Her.
2007-02-13 21:13:34 · answer #2 · answered by Miss LiL Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Back off slowly, not suddenly, and gradually lessen your time with her, while slowly increasing your time with the no-pressure friend. If your other friend wigs, be HONEST, and say that you're really feeling pressured.
You should not EVER maintain a friendship because they scream if you don't!! You deserve better than that. You already know the answer yourself...
One of the wisest men I ever met once gave me "permission" to fire a friend. I had made myself some unwritten rule that I needed to keep all of my friendships....why??
The high-pressure bf doesn't sound like a bf at all...more like a spoiled brat whose mother has control issues!!
You need to stop and evaluate that friendship for real, and if there isn't anything more positive than you have shared with us...it's time to clean house!! Your other friend is NOT going to wait around forever!!
Good luck!!
2007-02-13 21:10:49 · answer #3 · answered by sacanda_trina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the Octopus. Then give yourself a cussing for not respecting yourself. You don't need more than one BF! You'll be looked at as Easy. And that ain't you!
2007-02-13 21:12:58 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. Is it a he or a she? Either way it sounds slutty. Please learn how to make a sentence. Also learn where to put the dots. If you talk like you spell no wonder you can't get him off of you' He doesn't understand a damm thing you say!!!
2007-02-13 21:14:21 · answer #5 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry, but first of all you should only keep one boyfriend. And if you need your space, tell him to back away, if he's really intimate with being your gf you need to tell him the truth.
2007-02-13 21:25:12 · answer #6 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you shouldn't have 2 bfs
2007-02-13 21:06:50 · answer #7 · answered by silkpanties14 1 · 1⤊ 2⤋
marry the one that is always around, and he will leave you alone to be with the other BF.
2007-02-13 21:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PLEASE FOR GODSAKES USE PUNCTUATION!!!!!!!
IN THAT WHOLE MASS OF INCOHERANT RAMBLINGS YOU WROTE THERE IS NOT ONE TRACE OF PUNCTUATION. YOU HAVE STUPID PROBLEMS. IF YOU HAD A BRAIN YOU COULD FIND A WAY TO GET THE OTHER OFF OF YOU, BUT APPARENTLY YOU DON'T SO YOU ASKED A QUESTION THAT TAKE 2 HOURS TO MAKE OUT WHAT IT SAYS!!!!!
2007-02-13 21:10:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
in the first place you shouldn't have two "b/fs." your cheating on both. in the second place you kept calling one b/f "she" so I don't understand. is one of your b/fs a girl or both?
2007-02-13 21:11:24 · answer #10 · answered by Butch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her in a nice way that you don't want to be friends until she grows up!
2007-02-13 21:07:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋