Well I'm 17 almost 18 and he's 13 almost 14, he's an 8th grader and I'm graduating high school in a few months
I'm going to college nearby so we can continue the relationship
we've been dating about 4 months
no sex, havent even kissed yet because hes not ready
i dont believe in premartial sex
2007-02-13 13:14:46 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SOUNDS Like trouble.
the poor guy is only 13............he has a hopeless crush on you.
you are toying with his mind.
Let him date or be with girls that are closer to his own age.
YOU honestly can be charged with Sexual Abuse!!!!
even is you kiss or fondle!!
WHEN YOU TURN 18 YOU WILL BE CLASSIFIED AS A PETIFILE.
think!!
it's a big thing to him, and you can get LABELED AS A PERV FOR LIFE!!!!
i'm not posting this to be mean!
i want you to know the emotional affects you are ruining this boy for life. and you will be his first heart break.
can you handle that?
2007-02-13 13:20:46 · answer #1 · answered by Lilly 5 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I'm sorry, but right now I find this relationship a little inappropriate. If by chance you guys have sex you can get in just as much trouble as an 18 year old man with a 14 year old girl. Kind of gross. I say it's only been 4 months, find someone new. You are going to be in college dating an 8th grader, very strange.
2007-02-13 13:19:31 · answer #2 · answered by Happy 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
GIRL WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU! i have a child who is fixing to be 15 and if i caught a woman messing with him i would open up a can of old fashion red neck whop A-s-s on her. he is just a baby. you need to grow up or at least weight till he is 18 after that age it doesnt matter how old you are, let this child be a child while he still has some child hood left. this isnt like the old days when my grandmother was 14 she was married but a 14 year old in the 1930's was the same as a 25 yr old of today. today a 14 yr old has the mind of maybe a 7 yr old
2007-02-13 13:29:59 · answer #3 · answered by 99half 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of my best friend's is 14 and dating an 18-year old. He's a senior and she's in 8th grade. They have been going strong for a while, and they are in love. I hope ths helps, and if you really like him I think you should keep seeing each other, who cares what anyone else says.
2007-02-13 13:28:46 · answer #4 · answered by Caitlin A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A 4 year difference its not bad, but hes too young. Common most guys are not mature enough yet at 16. Hes too young, Id say if you REALLY want to be with him, stay friends and see what happens in a year or two....you'll probabbly change your mind.
2007-02-15 03:36:02 · answer #5 · answered by someChick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you doing with a young boy. Girl you need to go for a older, more intelligent, ready man not a boy. You are going to college and he is not even in High School not even a freshman. I wouldn't even date him and i am fifteen years old. That sick!!!!! I think when you are going to college it should be a new start of your life. New beginning. You need therapy. Really!
2007-02-13 13:22:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'M an 8 grader and i wouldnt wanna go out with a guy who is 18.but as long as he loves u and u love hime then maybe u should keep him
2007-02-13 13:48:43 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I seriously don't believe that you haven't even kissed yet. I do think he's a little young. If you go to college, that will pretty much be the end of a "high schooler" for you though.
2007-02-13 13:18:25 · answer #8 · answered by tamlovinlife2 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have to be honest with you, aren't there any boys your own age you could date. I mean don't you think he's alittle young, of course he's not ready he doesn;t have the first idea of how to please a girl,much less get involved with someone that is to old for him.I say let him go and enjoy his childhood, your going off to college, I'm quite sure you will be coming into contact with guys your own age,is it that you feel safe with someone that young.Do him a favor and let him go,after awhile you'll forget about him anyway, once you start college trust me.
2007-02-13 13:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by glorene b 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Careful...
The minute you turn 18, and because of the age difference, someone will be screaming that you are molesting a child.
Stuff like your situation happens every day.
Does his parents know?
You're going to college anyway, so, it probably won't last.
2007-02-13 13:18:57 · answer #10 · answered by tabulator32 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋