In high school I was once a fat nerd. Right now away at college I am the man I decided to lift weights and get big and ripped and dress more on the tough side right now all the girls want me. When I went back home some of the girls who picked on me and teased me now want me and they got sad and mad when I turned down their offer and cursed at them for being mean and bragged to them about how much women I have. Is that fair revenge?
2007-02-13 13:16:17 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you have to show off, you must still be a real nerd at heart. Remember not all nerds are fat.
2007-02-13 13:22:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't show off too much. Show that you have grown mentally too. Allow them to see the new you and drool. Just don't let them have the eye candy. You are still the same person. Just cause you're not fat anymore shouldn't matter. If they didn't want to know you then then they don't need you now either. Too bad for them. And I would tell them that. Just say I'm the same person on the inside. Only the outside has changed. That would be enough of a slap in the face. If they are mature enough they will understand. If not then you don't need them anyway. Nope. Stick with what you have now.
2007-02-13 13:25:27 · answer #2 · answered by Me2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think revenge is ever fair. If you are happy with yourself that is the best thing. I hope that you are lifting the weights and dressing well to please yourself. If you concentrate too much on what others think you become their slaves. I hope you can enjoy your new image and rejoice in the fact that those shallow folks from high school aren't a part of your life!
2007-02-13 13:21:02 · answer #3 · answered by hbern 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The girls saying it's unfair are wrong. You would have been just as upset/mad as they were when they got turned down by yourself. This is extremely fair. They need to realise that making fun of someone is totally wrong and can be very upsetting, so yeah, turning them down is also upsetting, thus being fair.
-Luke.
2007-02-13 13:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by - 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure, it's fair revenge- but since when did revenge actually help anyone? Rejecting them could actually be bad for you- maybe some of the girls changed as much as you did, and could have exactly want you want?
2007-02-13 13:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I say yeah get your revenge it is needed to keep balance in the universe....what goes around comes around !!! I feel it is only immature if you go out your way but if they are coming to you go ahead and make them feel what you did but in a smart and intelligent way. You should not lower yourself to their level by cursing but instead come off as in cocky but confident in yourself. This also might cause them to want you more, so the ball is in your court.
2007-02-13 13:36:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Living well is the best revenge."
-George Herbert
On the other hand; if you got it, flaunt it. What I would have done in your shoes is get a better girlfriend than the girls that dissed you and paraded her around for them. Better yet, just think about how much happier you are than them.
2007-02-13 13:29:20 · answer #7 · answered by wolfmankav 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I think there are state statutes on the books that ban former nerds from brushing off the affections of girls should said-nerd reform themselves into hot buff, studs. Sorry. Now fork over your lunch money before I stuff you back into your locker, you hot and buff nerd.
2016-05-24 07:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Mollie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what r u talking about?!?!?! ur doing the correct thing!!!!!! some girls r so mean, they need to learn what they missed out on!!!! u go dude!!!!!!! lol. neways, its fair revenge. u didnt deserve to b picked and teased at, so they should at least get a little taste of their medicine, dont u think???
2007-02-13 13:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by book worm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
PERFECT, couldn't have been done any better! Just remember some people do change. You did! You don't owe them an apology, but you can now forget the sleights and be an even bigger man (inside).
2007-02-13 13:20:50 · answer #10 · answered by T C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋