Well, I met this girl on myspace. She's perfect. We get along great, we love each other and things are great. We just started to talk on the phone and there are SOME awkward pauses. We've managed to laugh about it but I'd rather we didn't have awkward pauses. Any advice?????
And don't give me that "be yourself" stuff because I already know that.
2007-02-13 13:36:35 · 16 answers · asked by slowhand6780 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
maybe you do love her, i mean, only you know for sure. don't listen to these people. not saying you should listen to me. the akward pauses do make you feel stupid alot on the phone like you should say something but just let them go. they will pay off later. those pauses could have saved you from saying something really stupid.
best of luck to you.
2007-02-13 13:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by avril louise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those Awkward Pauses Are Somewhat Normal Because When Both Of You Run Out Of Things To Say, Then What? Oh Yeah, That's Right, Here Comes That Pause. I Suggest That You Don't Try To Break The Silence Because You Might Say Something Like..Really Dorky!! Just Let It Pass And When It's Time For Conversation To Start Back Up, It Will.
2007-02-13 13:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by ILY♥!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The signs can be there. I think you can be tricked into falling in love with someone over the internet. But being in love in my opinion comes from a mixture of things. I met my fiance on myspace, we've been together 4 years. We were going to the same college and she messaged me one day. We started talking through myspace messages, then we moved on to aol aim. She had similar taste in music, food and a bunch of other stuff. She was a fun girl and we both made each other laigh over the internet. Before I knew it, a month had gone by of us chatting on aim and I wanted to meet the girl. Asked her on a date to the movies, 3 days later she was my girlfriend, and 4 years later we're engaged. So is it possible to fall in love on myspace, no. But you can meet a person and get to know them without physically meeting them and then decide where to go from there. And after that it's definitely possible to fall in love if they're the right match. Take my warning though, talking to someone online can provide a false sense of comfort. You'll only ever know when you meet them in person. If the conversations flow just as easily and it's comfortable then you've made the right choice. Good luck and be careful.
2016-05-24 08:05:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awkward pauses? man u got it easy
alright well u mite say im 2 young but trust me on this 1...i knew this girl in 1st grade and i never thought anything of her she was just 'that girl in the class tht sits in the 3rd row' or whatever she left around 5th grade and i completley 4got about her...now i remet her on myspace at like the end of august, beginning of september and we started talkin on the computer and stuff but then we decided 2 talk on the phone 1 day pretty late at nite....we literally sat there like 'so......' "yea so uh......" and it was like tht 4 an hr...1 of our phones ended up dyin but thts not the point...now we're bf/gf and we've been goin out since november 28th and we have plenty of good conversations without those awkward pauses...it takes a lil time i mean she lives far enough away where i c her onyl once evry couple weeks so the phone really helps...well srry 4 boring u wit my story but wat im sayin is dont worry it'll get alot better jus give it time
2007-02-13 13:45:53 · answer #4 · answered by robertthejetsfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ah, the classic falling in love on myspace lol. Tell me what is the point in "falling in love" with someone on that site when there's a possible chance that you won't meet them at all? Internet dating is based on pure fantasy and sometimes you just get tired of it and would rather actually SEE someone than see their picture on a screen. Don't you think reality is better than something through a screen?
On the flip side I could be wrong, maybe she does live near you. In that case, yall could meet up somewhere and make it a reality.. see how she REALLY is!
2007-02-13 13:45:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's no big deal. There are always going to be pauses. They are only awkward because it's the beginning. Chill. It's doesn't mean anything.
2007-02-13 13:40:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward pauses are a part of life get use to it.
2007-02-13 13:40:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give it time dont rush things. TO me awkard pauses seem to happen when 2 people feel incomfortable talking perhaps you dont know enough about eachother (I mean you did meet online) maybe Im wrong but thats my 2 cents.
Make her feel comfortable dont be hard pressuring demanding answers be more laid back and dont worry about it so much and importantly give it time.
2007-02-13 13:45:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe if u really don't know this 'girl' then don't be with her. maybe u 2 should meet in real life in order to know each other better. And u should just be nice and like the things she likes and she will like u and then u 2 can be 'together' hope this works
2007-02-13 13:41:50 · answer #9 · answered by Sara R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it slow. You don't know this person yet. You can be anyone on the internet. When you are talking you will be able to get to know each other better. Relax.
2007-02-13 13:55:30 · answer #10 · answered by NKB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋