Theres this girls that i like and i rhink she lies me caze shes always messin it me
But shes had a bf ever since i met her in Augest
I asked her out before but she said that she couldnt becaue she had a bf
I know she likes me cuze of the way she acts
And i know that she knows i like her
we always talk and mess around and stuff but weve never done anything seriuos because she dosent want to cheat on her bf wit any1
I mean i really love her but i dont know if i can take this any longer
Its like she gives me hope and then lets me done kindda like shes playin a gane wit me
Shoud i wait untill she breaks up wit her bf or should i find somebody else?
2007-02-13 13:36:07 · 9 answers · asked by Chris M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sometimes we like the attentions from the other sex and there really isn't anything there other than the attention. If the girl doesn't want to cheat then that's a positive because if she cheats on him then she will you. How other people treat others will stand for anyone. Just because being friends doesn't mean they won't hurt you too. We are human and make mistakes. Our spirit is willing but our flesh is weak. If God isn't in our lives ;then it's even worse in trying to control our actions and thoughts. It's said that if we lust after another we've already cheated in our hearts. Give it time and just be friends. That's what it takes to make a strong relationship. Love is a choice not a feeling. Think about it--we love our parents, kids, pets etc. but maybe we can't live with them. So loving someone doesn't mean it's a good thing to tie down too. Enjoy life one day at a time and always be there for others who need help or just someone to talk too. Don't keep worrying about if your suppose to be with this one or that one. Just let life work itself out. Good luck
2007-02-13 13:44:21 · answer #1 · answered by nannasducky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not in love with her. You're infatuated with her and the possibility of what might happen with her. If she insists on messin with you while she has a bf then you don't want her for two reasons. 1.) she won't break up with her bf to go out with you so something is obviously up.2.) why would you want a woman who is obviously not serious about her relationships?
2007-02-13 21:40:37 · answer #2 · answered by Fletcher 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all. You will probably get beter information from her if you learn to communicate properly! Trust me, if you talk the way you write, then not only is she not interested, but you have no future as a husband. Time to grow up and ditch the adolescent attempt at looking and sounding cool!
Next, if she likes you, but stays with her boyfriend, then there you have your answer. She is still with him. Yes she likes the attention you give her and she is a flirt. But that is all. Time to grow up and be a man and move on with your life.
2007-02-13 21:41:39 · answer #3 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are girls like this that play this game all the time move on there someone better out there that's not going to play games with you and is for you only don't be a side kick waiting for something that may never happen get her out of your head and find a new girl good luck
2007-02-13 21:44:36 · answer #4 · answered by ken m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to say you don't love her, but how do you know you love her if you've never dated her? I think you should move on, don' get hurt. I know you probably wanted to hear the exact opposite and get some advice for how to win her over, but there is no way. She just wants to mess with you. I did this once to a guy who did it to me, and it's bogus! So move on. OK?!?!
2007-02-13 21:48:31 · answer #5 · answered by Caitlin A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its been going on this long seriously i think you should move on! you may love her, but it seems right now that she's interested about in her boyfriend and really confused about things. any girl who's that confused about her boyfriend and leads you on like that isnt really worth your time, and if you just sit and wait for her she will begin to think she has you wipped and whenever things arent going well with her boyfriend she can just fall back on you. you need to start hanging out with different girls to show her you dont depend on her, and maybe one day soon when she breaks up with her boyfriend you and her will be able to get together. good luck hunny!
2007-02-13 21:41:02 · answer #6 · answered by peace and love ;) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sorta the same with me.I like a boy at school,and he seems to like me,and he is always staring at me and such.He is really good at math,and he is in my grade.Im not sure if he is single,but supposedly he told me friend,to tell me he likes me,but she told me he said that last year.I still like him,but im also trying to find someone else,and still moniter and see if she breaks up with her boyfriend.Maybe you could try the same?hope I helped,and get best answer.
2007-02-13 21:41:07 · answer #7 · answered by Brittany F D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude move on. there are plenty of girls out there. dont waste your time waiting. if she wanted you she would have already broken up with him.
2007-02-13 21:40:38 · answer #8 · answered by mr_right_66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really talk 2 her set her down and tell her how u feel and if she wont leave him call me
2007-02-13 21:42:34 · answer #9 · answered by Jewellz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋