Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

My fiance and I are both virgins, and I heard it hurts the first time a girl has sex. How do I make it more comfortable for her, and so it doesn't hurt as much?

2007-02-12 05:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by rockran 3 in Singles & Dating

People are humans. IS that reason enough to end a marriage?

2007-02-12 05:55:42 · 24 answers · asked by tiaburkeangry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

. Give me an idea if you think of something else, please!!!!

2007-02-12 05:55:26 · 6 answers · asked by ☼ utopia ☼ 1 in Family

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and ahalf. We got into this big fight because Im scared of my best friend trying to get with him. Lets call her Tammy she always is telling me in front of my boyfriend Tod how hott he is.... She will get up and dance in front of him.. She trys to get him to look at her any way she can. She is always at his house because she is datting my boyfriends brother... but she dont really like him that much.

ANYWAYS!

Im always on his back about this... and he tells me I dont love him like I used to. My question for all of you... is how to I get the thought of her trying to move in on him and start thinking more about what I can do to make this relationship better! Maybe some ideas on how to SHOW him I love him... WITHOUT sexual favors... What can I do or say? I have lost my touch at this mushy stuff.

2007-02-12 05:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As your cheating on your spouse; do you think at all about how you are hurting your spouse and your children? If not at that moment; do you think about it right afterwards or not at all until you are caught?

2007-02-12 05:55:21 · 8 answers · asked by Tgirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I have only been engaged for a couple of days and I am already totally overwhelmed. No one is putting any pressure on my I am totally doing it myself. My problem is that I have no idea how to plan a wedding and I have a very small budget. I want to it to be beautiful and unique, but I don't know how to make this happen. There is no way that I could afford a wedding planner.

2007-02-12 05:54:58 · 16 answers · asked by funnyhaha 2 in Weddings

2007-02-12 05:54:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well, today I had to go to the dentist, me n my bf share a car, my car, but he does his far share in helping me cover the expenses. He had to be at work at 10 am and the appointment was at 9 am. As you can guess, he was late. Well, as the clock was zoning in on 10 am, he said he had to leave, i told him i wasnt done and that he can either go with out me and ill walk or he better wait.
we had a lil play arguement, him tellng me to take him and i was sayn im not. then he was like i dont want you to walk. i was like its only two blocks, its ok. ill come get the car, then go to work. after ensuring him like 5 times..hes still warry. then he asks, r u gonna be mad, and i was like of course. So he didnt go
So, the doctor finishes up, but i still had to go deal with pricing and everything. Hes like, well im not waiting for anyone else. And I was like fine, just leave...so he left.
well, the other lady only took like 10 mins to go through everything..then i had to walk.
shouldnt he stayed?

2007-02-12 05:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by Bored Much 2 in Singles & Dating

i am 16 andmet this guy who is 24. i like his character but i dont think he's cute or sweet. my friends told me that i should build a relationship with him but i dont know what to do. what do you suggest pls? thanks.

2007-02-12 05:53:39 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think she may understand. this time I know its love, I realize sex may be a problem , I dont think she'd go for a three way. I walked by a mirror last nite, took one look and I was hooked I said "My God man you are a handsome dude. wanna hook up?" well today I sent myself some flowers and a real sweet card,but I really want to tell my gf but dont know how. she wont dump me but I dont want any jealousy

2007-02-12 05:52:14 · 12 answers · asked by molly 6 in Singles & Dating

What would you do? Have not gone there yet ,but want to.

2007-02-12 05:51:57 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 05:51:38 · 20 answers · asked by greeneyes 1 in Singles & Dating

This is going to be our first house together. We wouldn't have been able to do this without God and my fiancee's hard work. I just want to give him something that he will always remember. Any suggestions??

2007-02-12 05:51:33 · 5 answers · asked by katito30 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I need to meet some girls here. I just moved here and I broke up with all three of my girlfriends back home. Disaster. Just want an opinion.

2007-02-12 05:51:17 · 4 answers · asked by Patrick S 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that my fiance' loves me and is faithful. We have been together 6 years and are now just one month away from the wedding. However, I have found myself getting nervious and being bitchier than usual and accusing him of not being ready and possibly wanting someone else. What is wrong with me.

2007-02-12 05:50:39 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do you make a Guy that your Just Sexual with come forth and Tell you that he wants to Be with you as a Boyfriend....Do I tell him that someone Has asked me out today and Would that work? I guess I can read the signs when I tell him that to make him Jelious if he does react to it in a Jelious way! So the question is that I want this guy Im sexual with and I Sense he wants me too as a Girlfriend, he's Just not saying it, what do I do? *(Religion decisions on either he should date/ Continue to talk to me is on His end are on the line, My Heart and me getting my feelings broke are on the line).

2007-02-12 05:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 05:49:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I took this girl's virginity about 6 years ago. We had about a year of good relations, then we started cheating back and forth. It got ugly I broke up a couple of times, but we always ended up getting back together, we just figured thats how it was. Then one time she left me for somebody (like I had done to her twice, but got back to her while she didn't to me). Then after a couple of years we came back into contact, fooled around, but I kept my distance and ended up goin out with somebody else. Then fairly recently we were both single (and lonely) and got back together and moved in with each other. Bout 4 months later, I started getting bad feelings bout her again, and decided to cut it off, and moved out. I've been lonely lately, and I got my brain twisted or somethin, I think of this chick too damn much. She's no good (lies, no job and drugs), however sometimes we hit it off great and we feel comfortable. I NEED TO GET OVER IT, I feel like i'm stuck with her forever. HOW?

2007-02-12 05:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by maneone22 2 in Singles & Dating

I dont know if it supposed to feel like this but I do...something other than the drama is missing and I dont know what....I know that I trust this one so that may make it different?!?!?

2007-02-12 05:48:55 · 2 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am having an outdoor wedding and just plan on a BBQ setting for dinner. I plan hotdogs, hamburgers and chicken plus the normal salads, relish tray and fruit tray and such. I cannot for the life of me figure out how much food to prepare. Any help out there that will assist me in this matter???

2007-02-12 05:48:26 · 7 answers · asked by Jenny M 1 in Weddings

I once was involved with this man years ago, we broke up then later on we hooked back up while he was married, things between us started to get steamy. He wanted to persue his carrer in the ministry, what him and I started to do every night was a sin( now keep in mind he is still legaly married). I have even had keys to his house for a short time. I love him so much that I just left really without saying anything because I didn't want to hurt him and I wanted to see him happy in the church, even if that meant without me. These years has went by without me seeing or talking to him, and about a week ago I found him on line. Check thid out he's divorced from his first wife and now remarried. I didn't leave for him to have found a different person I just thought that maybe by him going to church that he and his first wife might have stayed together, but I was wrong. I can't stop thinking about this man, even though I am in a relationship now, I want him back, I truly love this man.HELP ME

2007-02-12 05:47:31 · 13 answers · asked by meme32 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When my girl is hiding "text" messages from me , and possible calls from this one guy. She deletes her text messages and calls. She says it because she doesn't want me to "get mad over it" but yet I told her I wouldn't be mad, as long as she showed me the text. She doesn't. She sleeps by her phone too.

It's a guy I don't care for and when I say stuff about him, she defends him. Yet she says nothing is going on.

I've talked to her about it and she says nothing is going on at all. I told her I would like it if she didn't talk to him and she said thats fine. She makes remarks like, "I won't cuz I am not allowed to talk to him" and she accused me of being controlling, yet he's the ONLY guy I don't want her talking to. She has guy friends but he I don't trust.

What's this mean? Girl of 8 years too, I've been with her, 8 years

2007-02-12 05:47:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

You are left by your spouse for another man or woman but the left behind spouse is not supposed to have any physical needs but sit home and hold his or her hands? Come on people. Suppose the left behind spouse finds somone who also needs this sort of companionship. What is wrong with that? No effect on the kids.

2007-02-12 05:45:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend said he was gonna give me a promis ring on valentines day, and now he says he wants to give it to me on our 6th month anniversary instead, wich is gonna be in may 2007. why does he want to give it to me in may instead of february?

2007-02-12 05:44:46 · 20 answers · asked by US 1 in Singles & Dating

how many of you have fought for years with your ex and then things have kind of change and now you get a long. Any of you often wish that you could be with your ex again?

2007-02-12 05:44:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 05:43:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im almost 16
and well
im still a virgin
but theres this boy
and he likes me alot, and i like him..and we've had talks about if we ever wanna do it, and i just dont know

im so confused

please help

2007-02-12 05:43:18 · 25 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

WHat do i do? I wanna ask her out but im afraid of being turned down. But she even told me she wanted to be with me but she told me once that she had a boyfriend. Please i need advice.

2007-02-12 05:43:08 · 4 answers · asked by headz2ray 1 in Singles & Dating

if some one has slept with more than 20 men, and now they have changed, do they tell this to there partner or do you lie?

will they understand?
will they see you differently?
will they be turned off?
will they break up with you?
will they be less trusting?

2007-02-12 05:43:04 · 5 answers · asked by LostMyMind 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is 16 years my senior - and we have met some people that find it strange that such an age difference wouldn't hidder us. (I'm in my thirties, he's in his forties).

I'm curious how many women are out there with an significantly older husband/boyfriend (more then 5 years her senior) and your thoughts about age differences. What attracted you to your partner? Was it his age and that he was older and seemed more mature? Or were you attracted before the two of you ever realized there was such a gap?

2007-02-12 05:41:59 · 16 answers · asked by noncrazed 4 in Marriage & Divorce