How do you make a Guy that your Just Sexual with come forth and Tell you that he wants to Be with you as a Boyfriend....Do I tell him that someone Has asked me out today and Would that work? I guess I can read the signs when I tell him that to make him Jelious if he does react to it in a Jelious way! So the question is that I want this guy Im sexual with and I Sense he wants me too as a Girlfriend, he's Just not saying it, what do I do? *(Religion decisions on either he should date/ Continue to talk to me is on His end are on the line, My Heart and me getting my feelings broke are on the line).
2007-02-12 05:50:00 · 8 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I feel you I'm in the same situation. i was getting all the vibes that he wanted to be with me. and when i told him because i was so sure that he wanted to be my boyfriend he just stopped talking to me i would call he would answer. So honestly I would suggest you tell him that someone asked you out and wait for his reaction. or tell him where is this going because someone asked me out and i want to know your pint of view. Good Luck!!!!!
2007-02-12 06:04:58 · answer #1 · answered by *BooTz* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable enough to be sexual with him, you should be comfortable enough to talk to him about it. Tell him that you really like him and would like to take your relationship to the next level. You want to be his girlfriend. If you are already sensing that he wants the same thing, chances are he's too shy to do the asking. Guys love it when a girl makes a move. It takes some of the pressure off him. Don't play games to try to make him jealous. He might get the idea that you don't like him as much as he thought and it could just make him back off even more.
2007-02-12 13:59:11 · answer #2 · answered by Steph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let this guy know you would like to take this "relationship" a step further by being a couple. Let him know you are not interested in being with anyone else but him and want to know if he feels the same way. It is just a waste of both of your lives to be playing these games. Eventually you two will have to move on with your lives whether it is together or separate Better sooner or later to find out where this is leading. Good luck!
2007-02-12 13:59:47 · answer #3 · answered by blonde_chick1284 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off by trying to make him jealous is playing mind games and thats one reason why guys say they never understand women...would it hurt to just come out and say what your thinking...the only thing you would get is a stright up answer...no if ands or buts....no mind games that could go your way or against you....so sucks it up and tell him what you want and if you dont like the answer then you can make the desision if you want to keep doing what your doing or find someone that cares about you other than for sex.
2007-02-12 14:01:21 · answer #4 · answered by erica_42754 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First thin gyou need to do is go back to English class, then quit doing sexual things with somebody that's not your bf. It's wrong.
J e a l o u s. Jealous. Remember that.
2007-02-12 13:52:43 · answer #5 · answered by supertop 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop being sexual with him. tell him you are tired of sleeping around and want to be in a relationship someday. and you would like to be in a relationship with him whenever he is ready.
he has no reason to start a relationship as long as you are giving him no commitment sex. don't ever give your love to another person they will only step on it. you have to share a mutual love of something greater than you. diety, family, money, country. you have already tried sharing sex but it was unfulfilling spiritually.
2007-02-12 14:02:39 · answer #6 · answered by sodajerk50 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur being played for a fool dear.hes already getting sex with no commitment.you blew this one right up front.
2007-02-12 13:57:05 · answer #7 · answered by john K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just get really close to him and just see what happens
2007-02-12 13:54:10 · answer #8 · answered by tinks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋