Well, today I had to go to the dentist, me n my bf share a car, my car, but he does his far share in helping me cover the expenses. He had to be at work at 10 am and the appointment was at 9 am. As you can guess, he was late. Well, as the clock was zoning in on 10 am, he said he had to leave, i told him i wasnt done and that he can either go with out me and ill walk or he better wait.
we had a lil play arguement, him tellng me to take him and i was sayn im not. then he was like i dont want you to walk. i was like its only two blocks, its ok. ill come get the car, then go to work. after ensuring him like 5 times..hes still warry. then he asks, r u gonna be mad, and i was like of course. So he didnt go
So, the doctor finishes up, but i still had to go deal with pricing and everything. Hes like, well im not waiting for anyone else. And I was like fine, just leave...so he left.
well, the other lady only took like 10 mins to go through everything..then i had to walk.
shouldnt he stayed?
2007-02-12 05:53:57 · 15 answers · asked by Bored Much 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thanks everyone, getting opinions from people looking outside instead of in always helps.
I owe my man an apology.
2007-02-12 06:11:23 · update #1
Don't be mad about it, silly thing to get worked up about, it's better that he feels compelled to be at work on time! It would be different if you were having a major surgery or something. Do something completely opposite of what you are feeling, do something special for him tonight....it will feel a heck of a lot better than yelling and arguing.
2007-02-12 05:58:38 · answer #1 · answered by reddevilbloodymary 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't be mad, battle fireplace with fireplace. Yes, you will not be competent to have a good time new yr's such as you desired however he demands to peer what it appears like. I say that on day after today you go away the condo dressed to the nines approximately 8pm. Even in the event you simply cross to the films on your own. Go experience your self. Do what you wish. Try to meet up with a few of your fiends. Leave him there with the child till you come residence...something time that can be..
2016-09-05 08:14:17 · answer #2 · answered by golden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, he shouldn't have stayed. He had to get to work. How is he going to help you out with covering the expenses on your car if he looses his job for being late? I suggest you look into either him getting his own vehicle or a bicycle, or public transportation. Hopefully your car insurance covers drivers besides yourself otherwise if anything happens you could wind up loosing the car anyway.
2007-02-12 06:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
He should have stayed, and you should have told him to stay, or you could have dropped him off at work early. You two need to figure out a way to work through scheduling problems like these if you're going t o share a car............otherwise the two of you will have alot of animosity towards each other due to issues like these!
2007-02-12 06:01:44 · answer #4 · answered by honeygirlc 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you both don't communicate well . It should have been prepared ahead of time for him to go into to work at least 30 minutes later than normal so that no one had to walk & that he could have stayed with you . Chalk it up to bad communication & give him a big kiss later on when you see him
2007-02-12 06:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
No wonder he was still wary, You assured him 5 times it was ok that you had no problem walking the 2 blocks so that he would be able to make it to work on time. Then you are mad because he left. I bet he is really confused. He sounds really responsible by trying to be on work on time. He was taking your assurances that it would be ok.
2007-02-12 06:01:00 · answer #6 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it is ur fault because he was in a catch 22. u told him he could leave, but then u get mad at him. what was he supposed to do? either he went to work, or was at risk of losing his job. sorry babe, but i'd do the same thing.
2007-02-12 06:01:52 · answer #7 · answered by ashley 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No. He had to go to work, so he had to leave. Don't put yourself between him and his job. That's not fair. Next time, arrange it with him first and give him enough time. I think you owe him some sex
2007-02-12 05:58:08 · answer #8 · answered by Big Momma Carnivore 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why the hell should tou be mad when he is the one that was late for work....pa-lease!! give ma a break
2007-02-12 06:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your man should have left and kept on going. You are very childish and immature. Grow up and stop taking advantage of people who try to help you out in life. Thanks.
2007-02-12 06:06:02 · answer #10 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋