My fiance and I are both virgins, and I heard it hurts the first time a girl has sex. How do I make it more comfortable for her, and so it doesn't hurt as much?
2007-02-12 05:56:08 · 10 answers · asked by rockran 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Easy, slow, and lots of lube. Watch her face and pull back if you make her uncomfortable.
Almost as important is making her comfortable before you start. From the sound of it, you two are saving it for marriage, which is good. Don't feel the need to get 'er dun the first second you are alone and wed--let that be a long night of making her feel good before you get to intercourse--the more comfortable and turned on she is before you start, the better she'll feel while you are having sex. Also important: don't worry about everything (or being 'good'), you'll have plenty of time to practice later--your expectations can be your worst enemy your first time.
2007-02-12 06:03:27 · answer #1 · answered by wayfaroutthere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 01:22:30 · answer #2 · answered by Victoria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will hurt at first, of course! But, you just have to take things slow with her so it calms her down. You dont want her being all tensed up because that just makes things worse. & talk her through it a little bit so she knows whats going on!
2007-02-12 06:00:16 · answer #3 · answered by girlofyourdreams_6905 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's going to hurt no matter what, but try some foreplay before you have sex and that should help you some.
2007-02-12 05:59:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't really just be nice and slow.. Make sure she is comfortable and communicate with her.
2007-02-12 05:59:49 · answer #5 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take your time dont slam it in eas it a little bit at a timetake smoth slow strokes
2007-02-12 06:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by bornfree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remember these two words and you'll do fine "BE GENTLE". That's it. Good Luck!
2007-02-12 05:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by makeitclap23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be gentle and make sure she is as relaxed as possible... make sure you take your ques from her... have her tell you what feels good and what is too much... good for you guys!
2007-02-12 06:01:33 · answer #8 · answered by B-Diddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do everything slowly.put your beep into her asshole slowly and do it i.e. take your beep first inside then outside slowly .I think you know how to do it .if u do it can u plz give me the photographs of what u did . i will verify and i will put marks. anyway good luck
2007-02-12 06:35:56 · answer #9 · answered by nirash 1 · 0⤊ 5⤋
use lots of ky jelly
2007-02-12 06:01:18 · answer #10 · answered by girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋