I have been with my boyfriend for a year and ahalf. We got into this big fight because Im scared of my best friend trying to get with him. Lets call her Tammy she always is telling me in front of my boyfriend Tod how hott he is.... She will get up and dance in front of him.. She trys to get him to look at her any way she can. She is always at his house because she is datting my boyfriends brother... but she dont really like him that much.
ANYWAYS!
Im always on his back about this... and he tells me I dont love him like I used to. My question for all of you... is how to I get the thought of her trying to move in on him and start thinking more about what I can do to make this relationship better! Maybe some ideas on how to SHOW him I love him... WITHOUT sexual favors... What can I do or say? I have lost my touch at this mushy stuff.
2007-02-12 05:55:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why do you call tammy a friend in the first place...focus on your boyfriend and if you still call her a friend remind her that friends don't do what she's doing before you drop her like a bad habit.
2007-02-12 06:10:18 · answer #1 · answered by fate_n83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you're boyfriends fault that you're so called friend is acting the way she is.You need to talk bluntly with her&let her know what you'r going to do to her if she does'nt stop.
Whenever you're with him you need to give him you're undivided attention.Buy some tickets to a game or concert,whatever he likes&take him out&make it all about him.Don't even think about who wants him if you want to keep him,just remember he's with you,so he obviously wants to be.
Hope this helps.Good luck!
2007-02-12 14:11:24 · answer #2 · answered by lisa m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try taking him on a trip,go cammping or something away from home. And spend a night or two with him...without your so called best friend.
2007-02-12 14:03:59 · answer #3 · answered by leon V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why don't you try to get his attention on you more. try giving him a massage sometime, maybe dance for him (nothign sexual intended). instead of looking over at what your friend is doing why not pay more attention to what he is doing and then try and do that with him
2007-02-12 14:03:00 · answer #4 · answered by MATTHEW B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since u have been with him for 1and half yr, you should have trust and faith in him. voice it out to him that u love him a lot and you believe he will treat you the same as u treat him. at the same time be more thoughtful to him . cook something he like or keep him company when he is doing wat he like eg. if you dun like gaming , ask him to teach and go gaming with him.
2007-02-12 14:04:09 · answer #5 · answered by scarlet 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to Tammy about it and tell her to back off
2007-02-12 13:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by STEFF 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best friend? No best friend of MINE would be hitting on my man!
2007-02-12 14:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question...why is she your best friend????.......
2007-02-12 13:58:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋