You are left by your spouse for another man or woman but the left behind spouse is not supposed to have any physical needs but sit home and hold his or her hands? Come on people. Suppose the left behind spouse finds somone who also needs this sort of companionship. What is wrong with that? No effect on the kids.
2007-02-12 05:45:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Nothing wrong, Go get you freak on!
2007-02-12 05:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you have the right to move on. To heck with what some say. Why should you be miserable because your spouse left you? Its your Life, so Live it.. Just use good Judgement...
2007-02-12 06:07:54 · answer #2 · answered by donna_honeycutt47 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, who says anything about "needs"? Once you two are separated, you're free to do what you feel is right, regardless of who left whom behind. No one's making anyone "sit home", it's a free country. If you want to sit home, it's your own personal choice, not something that someone is imposing on you. Get over it, and take control of your life.
2007-02-12 06:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes the one left behind has every right to go out and start living again, just make sure your taking the steps to legalize the divorce.
2007-02-12 05:49:12 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your spouse leaves you for someone else then you should file for divorce and move on with your own life.
2007-02-12 05:55:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't understand why you feel the one left behind can't have needs. I got left, had needs, full filled them. Now am happily married, there was never a time I felt I couldn't have it.
2007-02-12 05:50:10 · answer #6 · answered by Lovebug123 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like you're saying if you are neglected by your spouse then you are within your right to seek fulfillment elsewhere.
Sound fine.
2007-02-12 05:49:11 · answer #7 · answered by JRSK007 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if a spouse leaves u for another i would think you would be free to be with someone else, although they say one should get a divorce first, if u meet someone i think it is okay since they did leave u for someone else.
2007-02-12 07:36:16 · answer #8 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't know who expects you to sit around. You are free to go do whomever you want.
2007-02-12 05:50:24 · answer #9 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There isn't such a word in my vocabulary as " Can't or Can not or would or if or could or could of..these are excuse words don't you know?
2007-02-12 05:50:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋