I know that my fiance' loves me and is faithful. We have been together 6 years and are now just one month away from the wedding. However, I have found myself getting nervious and being bitchier than usual and accusing him of not being ready and possibly wanting someone else. What is wrong with me.
2007-02-12 05:50:39 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie W 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
This is typical cold feet syndrome - fear of your own shortcomings and if you can make it go right. When you feel that feeling mounting - take a time-out to meditate on it and see what you are REALLY feeling, get very quiet and go inside yourself. Then you can dismantle the disempowering, automatic thoughts.
2007-02-12 06:00:25 · answer #1 · answered by justbeingher 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Planning weddings can be very stressful. This could be the reason you are snippy with your fiance.
Also, you are about to make a life-long commitment. That's bound to make anyone nervous. This is completely normal.
However, you shouldn't take these things out on the man you love. That's no way to start a marriage. Sit down and talk to him, and make sure you do it in a loving way. You might be amazed at the results.
2007-02-12 05:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by mommyofmegaboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already have some great advice. Sit down and talk to him - communication and openness are essential! If you need to, postpone the wedding, if you both agree. It's embarrasing, but it's YOUR life and YOUR committment. Counseling is highly recommended - it's an investment in your marriage and relationship. Don't go into marriage with an attitude of "we can just get divorced if it doesn't work out." Divorce is awlful.
2007-02-12 06:34:17 · answer #3 · answered by jimmyjohn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a fear of commitment or the wedding jitters, try to relax and get some marriage counseling from your minister that can help with pre marital jitters.
2007-02-12 05:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Prewedding jitters. It's normal. You may have a bit of a phobia about maybe wanting to get married.
2007-02-12 06:01:14 · answer #5 · answered by H.B.K. 2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cold feet, normal jitters. Everyone goes through this, regardless of how ready you are. Careful - he may have ground for divorce before you're married!!!
2007-02-12 05:55:12 · answer #6 · answered by Bondgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like 13 but i already know that alot of people get nervous before a wedding. if you ask a strager that is already married they will tell you that they where like you.
2007-02-12 06:02:21 · answer #7 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you said it best..your nervous..don't be. if things don't work out you can always get divorced
2007-02-12 05:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Bad Mood 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋