I took this girl's virginity about 6 years ago. We had about a year of good relations, then we started cheating back and forth. It got ugly I broke up a couple of times, but we always ended up getting back together, we just figured thats how it was. Then one time she left me for somebody (like I had done to her twice, but got back to her while she didn't to me). Then after a couple of years we came back into contact, fooled around, but I kept my distance and ended up goin out with somebody else. Then fairly recently we were both single (and lonely) and got back together and moved in with each other. Bout 4 months later, I started getting bad feelings bout her again, and decided to cut it off, and moved out. I've been lonely lately, and I got my brain twisted or somethin, I think of this chick too damn much. She's no good (lies, no job and drugs), however sometimes we hit it off great and we feel comfortable. I NEED TO GET OVER IT, I feel like i'm stuck with her forever. HOW?
2007-02-12 05:49:10 · 10 answers · asked by maneone22 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to get out more and start seeing other people. You don't need to be with someone that tells lies, does drugs, and has no job. They will only bring you down with them! You need to cut things off now. Start going to different clubs and make new girl friends. You'll forget about her in no time!
2007-02-12 05:57:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shes no good for you honey unless you like that stuff too I mean? Lies, drugs.. but if not you should look around for some other girl that is not like that drugs and lies just bring way too many problems. Imagine if she would get pregnant? What would you do then? I think you should look for someone who doesn't do drugs. Good luck! Btw, I don't think anyone could change a person unless that person wants to change on their own, so just find someone you don't have to change at all and be happy..
2007-02-12 13:55:52 · answer #2 · answered by Momof2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you probably have to much time on your hands. If you can try getting into a club. I'm not sure what you are into but consider anything from Kick boxing to golf. If you have family try dedicating more time to them. The point is to keep yourself busy. Enjoy life, it is too short to go crazy over a relationship that is based on flesh cravings. Another thing I highly recommend you is to go to Church. God is the answer to any problem. The people at the church will be there to help you and guide you to Him. He will heal your spirit and protect you from future bad relationships. God Bless You
2007-02-12 14:05:07 · answer #3 · answered by mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know she is bad news,,,you need to run. You have to cut it clean. If you keep getting together when you are lonely,,,then you'll always be stuck with her. You shouldn't have to be stuck with anyone. Find someone you love and trust.
2007-02-12 13:55:47 · answer #4 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One day at a time first go one minute without thinking of her then two and so on and so forth.
2007-02-12 13:54:23 · answer #5 · answered by winnerfull-1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the Hell, dude?!
You know she is bad news. You know its a bad idea to associate with her. You know she'll screw around...or you will.
Break it off for good. Lose her phone #. Lose her address and get some blood work done, cripes!
2007-02-12 13:55:22 · answer #6 · answered by Slimslimmer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is no good why can't you make her good and help her out for herself and that u may end up with her sometimes you jast can't help it, the same for what is happening with me your first won't ever be forgotten or if you got soo into another gurl that she is good enough for a lifetime may give you the chance to forget this one
2007-02-12 13:55:23 · answer #7 · answered by simply_me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa i think you could have a love hate relationship. i think you be Friends and like try to date some other girls but if you think those arn;t working out then you =should get back together
2007-02-12 13:57:44 · answer #8 · answered by andy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to go out more and meet more girls. Force yourself to go out at least twice a week, and talk to cute girls. Then you'll have other ones to think about and not her. That's what I do.
2007-02-12 13:57:01 · answer #9 · answered by Atousa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit some place really quiet and just clear your mind of thoughts and take deep breaths and meditate, you can get plenty of other hot girls.
2007-02-12 13:54:57 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋