Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

whats the youngest legal age you'd date in a man? Whats the oldest?

What would you set as a "must" have in a partner?

2007-02-12 11:03:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 11:03:31 · 2 answers · asked by caraghmcgrath 1 in Weddings

I have a girlfriend and she is now 17 and I am 19. I am dating with her since Feb 1st, 2006. I proposed her in June, 2006 and she also told me that she loves me as beloved and she also wants relationship with me. Well, she and I have already decided for marriage in future. Well, I have 1st valentine Day with her so let me how should I celebrate with her? One problem is that she and live far about 2200 kms. But, we really love to one another a lot.

2007-02-12 11:03:07 · 2 answers · asked by Pushpendra C 1 in Singles & Dating

ok well i'm getting my license in like 2 days and my parents have been hinting around that they are getting me a car... ok well before all this hinting around and junk, they flat out told me i wasn't getting a car, so my hopes were like on zero, but after hearing all the talk about cars, they've like shot through the roof, well tonight they're like...yeah we don't have the money for a car...so i'm like on this roller coaster... and i flat out told my mom that I'm not getting a job unless i can drive myself, which i dont think is too unreasonable, because i believe that a major part of getting a job is the freedom of driving yourself there... she thinks I'm totally crazy, because the money i could make having a job could EVENTUALLY get me a car....we are totally not in any form of agreement...what do you think???

2007-02-12 11:02:36 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A friend of mine says she hopes I find someone to share my dreams with because I have no one, but she also keeps trying to get me to talk about them in conversation. Why does she want to know so badly? I did tell her I like her, but we both thought it best to be friends only.

2007-02-12 11:02:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

ok...well there is a guy my friend introduced me to and my friend dident tell me everything about the guy i guess cause he dident think i would like the guy so i started to talking to the guy alot like texting and the computer and stuff and i ended up really,really likeing the guy and the guy likes me too but then i found out alot of stuff about him like bad stuff im still a teenager so the stufff is bad to me like not being a vergin,almost getting his gf pregnant,fingering,arested just alot of bad stuff i dident know about when i started to like him and then my friend told me about it after i met the guy so now i can see that the guy i likes was a lie,but i still cant get him out of my head i stilll like him alot and i just dont know what to do?

i really like the guy so should i go for it?
or should i say away from him

2007-02-12 11:01:28 · 19 answers · asked by tiny&proud 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a lady who has moved in recently next doors and she is also recently divorced. She came and introduced herself one day. Since then almost everyday she has something to ask my husband to do for her via me. I have always happily told her I will tell him and he has done those things for her as well. Nothing has been left out like picking up her parcel from the post office or dropping and picking up her kids from school or elsewhere and recently she has given a list of shopping goods and money in an envelope to do the shopping for her. She always says that she is a very capable person and she never needed her husband to do anything for her. However, I have also seen other people with cars coming to her house to drop things or take them out etc. So, I know it is not only me she takes help from. I know that if I were an unmarried women I would hesitate to ask my neighbor to always tell her husband to do things for me. Please tell me if I am wrong and what I can do about it

2007-02-12 11:01:12 · 13 answers · asked by love 2008 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I see alot of people those dark hearts
NOT THESE:
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2007-02-12 11:00:29 · 4 answers · asked by Kayle 1 in Singles & Dating

ok so all my friends got dates to the formal already and no one has asked me and they are ALWAYS talking about there dates or dresses or the afterparty thats planned and it always makes me feel soooooo bad!! and i ask them to please not talk about it around me cause it upsets me but they still do!! what should i do??

2007-02-12 11:00:22 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been seeing this guy on my crew team (i'm the coxswain(only girl on the mens team) and he is the best rower on the team). We have been seeing each other for 4 weeks now, we mainly hang out weekends(espically in the early hours) we see each other every day at pratice and talk to each other about every day on AIM.

Here's the thing, because we are on crew and arn't supposed to technecally be together because teammates arn't supposed to be dating. (Yes I know i'm just asking for this to end bad) He was like my brother before and when we are around each other and the team we act like there is nothing between us, absoutly none of the other rowers know about us.

We have talked about how we both mutually care for each other and how we arnt insterested in others but it just sucks we are on crew together so it can never be offical. I always question myself weather he really cares for me as much as I do him.

If he dosn't get me anything for valentines day is that a sign?

2007-02-12 11:00:19 · 2 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm married and my new husband pays support for 3 children form two different mothers. One of the moms who has 1 child wants more money because he is married to me. I have 2 children of my own and i support my kids. Can my income be used to increase the child support he is paying for?

2007-02-12 11:00:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well I met a guy at this a dance the other night. Usually you just dance with a guy and then just go back to dancing with your friends. I danced with him for a few minutes and then I said I was just going to go get a drink. Just as I was about to say goodbye he followed me. I did not want to be rude and reject him. I said I needed a little break thinking maybe he would want to stay in the party room but he followed me outside. We sat and talked for a few hours. He kept complimenting me on my looks and he had his arm around me. I was flattered. He also gave me his number and then he kissed me. He said he would promise to call me. When he left I went back inside again to dance with my friends and they told me he was weird and I just said oh. I was so happy someone liked me to think past that I really was not that attracted to him. He text messaged me sweet things and he called me it was really awkward. I dont know what to do. I just want to be friends but I don't know how to tell him.

2007-02-12 11:00:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have dated girls, I see girls, I want to have a relationship with a girl who is beautiful, smart, proactive, but at the same time, the girls I see everyday, or the girls my friends think I should go out with; I just don't seem to want them, like they are hot and all, but for some reason I don't want to date them, but I do want a relationship with a girl, just not the one's I kno so far. Help me.............. please

2007-02-12 10:59:57 · 5 answers · asked by aditz_2005 1 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend and i havn't had intercourse yet, and i'm not ready yet i don't think, so i think my boyfriend is sleeping with other girls while he's dating me, he still loves me, why would i not care if he sleeps with other girls if he did, why would i not get mad if he did? why would i forgive him? why would i stay with him? is something wrong with me?

2007-02-12 10:59:53 · 9 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 10:59:42 · 18 answers · asked by Jersey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this girl and I think she likes me, and we've been friends for 5 years. The thing is, i'm only 13, and I don't know if I should tell her how I feel, but possibly ruin our friendship early, or not tell her, and wait till i'm old enough to actually do something big for her, but risk her thinking that I don't like her if i wait too long to tell her. so... plz answer.

2007-02-12 10:59:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so i finally told sum1 about my cutting...(shes a close friend) and now shes going to tell the counselor bout it im so scared! is this 4 the better?

2007-02-12 10:58:59 · 4 answers · asked by Kentucky Girl 1 in Friends

2007-02-12 10:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by momma 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

So... here's the story: i liked this guy and my friend told him (wasn't supposed to) and it turned out he didn't like me as more than a friend (we are friends... and by the way... he has a girl friend). Now, i don't flirt with him... but he flirts with me, and its NONSTOP!!! And i can't help myself but flirt back, i mean come on! i still like the guy... its hard not to flirt with him. But he also has a gf (like i told you before) and that makes me feel bad (not that bad....). But, i know i'm acting like a door mat.... because i keep letting him flirt with me and by the way, he touched my butt twice (I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE SIAD THAT IT WAS ONLY WITH A FOLDER... HE HIT MY BUTT WITH A FOLDER.. DON'T KNOW IF THAT MAKES IT ACCEPTABLE) and my face once (GENTLY)..... So.. how can i stop myself???

LISTEN! I ASKED THIS QUESTION BEFORE!!! AND I HAVE GOTTEN GOOD ANSWERS... I DECIDED TO PLAY HARD TO GET (LIKE NOT PAY AS MUCH ATTEN. TO HIM AND FLRT/W OTHER GUYS). I NEED TIPS ON HOW TO DO THIS!

2007-02-12 10:58:06 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, im dating this guy. we've been dating for almost 8 months. my parents dont like him. they think he's too old for me, and that all he wants me foris to "get in my pants". he's 16, and im 13. i really love him, and i know thats not him. but, my parents say as soon as he turns 17, they're going to take him to court. i couldnt let that happen. but, i really dont know what to do. he's really nice. he would give his life for me. and, he has stayed by when i was sick, when my mom went out to dinner with my dad. because she felt like it. nothing special, because she felt like it was all. i had strep! i was sick for like a week and a half. he was there everyday. she was there for like 3 hours the who time. so, should i break up with him? try to get my parents to understand? (which i've already tried. it's not working out too well.) or any other suggestions? im basically desperate. help. please?

2007-02-12 10:57:50 · 10 answers · asked by danielle m 2 in Singles & Dating

One of the girls in the office is so bossy and bitchy all the time..She always trys to make everyone feel stupid.

2007-02-12 10:57:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is a man that I know and he's been flirting with me. My friends say he wants me because they've seen him look at me. He has this certain look in his eye, bedroom eyes.

He's been staring, always talking to me, rubbing my shoulders, arms, back and we've hugged. He saw me wearing really short shorts and he tapped me, smiling. When my friend and I were waiting for something, he ignored her and asked me what we were waiting for. I get jealous when he's talking to other females. I've been kind of ignoring him (looking away from him and not starting conversation) and I can see him looking at me out of the corner of my eyes. Today, I almost ran into him and I apologized. He rubbed my back and watched me walk away.

He invited me to be alone with him for lunch detention (months ago) so I could clean the classroom. That's not what LD is. My friends thought that he was planning to make a move on me so I didn't go. He seemed visibly upset with me afterwards.

I HAD a crush on him.

2007-02-12 10:57:42 · 8 answers · asked by darkskinnedxbeauty 3 in Singles & Dating

There is this blonde teacher that I like and I was wondering. She's hot!

2007-02-12 10:56:49 · 41 answers · asked by The_Red_Bishop 1 in Singles & Dating

He's a bit of a player,and for 5 years he's been trying to get with me.I have a boyfriend,and he doesn't care.He says he'll do anything to have a relationship with me.I told him to get over it,cause it's not going to happen.He got all these women,but he wants me.How can I tell this jerk to give it up man?

2007-02-12 10:56:45 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How does it work?

2007-02-12 10:56:18 · 5 answers · asked by lets talk 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this friend I have known since 6th grade. I asked her out freshman year in high school but she said no because she didn't want to ruin the friendship. The next year, she switched high schools and I didn't see her for a long time. I recently started working at a bank and she happens to be a customer there. She was really happy to see me. After working there for 7 months she always comes to me when she comes in. She has also quite a few times come in just to talk to me, with no banking to do. Then I moved and she works at the gas station I go to by my house. She is always happy to see me and always has a smile on when I see her. I often go out of my way to see her there. I'm just wondering if maybe she likes me now. What do you guys think? My cousin came in there with me and when we left he said she totally likes me. Thanks in advance guys!

2007-02-12 10:56:14 · 3 answers · asked by Urban Informer 3 in Singles & Dating

I started high school this year and I met this girl and we became friends because she was in 4 of my classes. Lately, though, she's always been clinging to me, which is really annoying because I have lots of other friends I'd like to spend time with too. She always follows me around, and talks to me as much as possible. It doesn't matter where I go- she will follow. I know I'm just such an amazing person (sarcasm) that people want to be with me all the time, but how can I tell her to please stop stalking me without hurting her feelings? I still want us to be friends, just not joined at the hip.

2007-02-12 10:55:36 · 6 answers · asked by spottedzebra13 2 in Friends

i'm in high school adn there's a girl who has a locker close to mine and i'd really like to ask her out for valentine's day but i'm not sure how on such short notice...is it still a good idea? i don't know her name or anything about her, and she's a year younger than me, so waht's a good way to break the ice and make conversation? thansk...

2007-02-12 10:55:19 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been playing guitar for a little more than 2 year now. I'm in a band and we have some killer tunes(classic/hard rock mostly). People have told me that I'm really good and that my bands really good. Do girls find or think this is attratctive

2007-02-12 10:55:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

or at least getting sh@gged!!!!!

2007-02-12 10:55:00 · 25 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Weddings