ok my boyfriend and i havn't had intercourse yet, and i'm not ready yet i don't think, so i think my boyfriend is sleeping with other girls while he's dating me, he still loves me, why would i not care if he sleeps with other girls if he did, why would i not get mad if he did? why would i forgive him? why would i stay with him? is something wrong with me?
2007-02-12 10:59:53 · 9 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actually, I wouldn't care if my girlfriend was cheating on me. Its only sex. I would only care if she dumped me for him.
2007-02-12 11:04:07 · answer #1 · answered by epbr123 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If it fairly is a genuine question, i do now no longer see what difference it makes that he's sixty 4. somebody, any age, any gender, any race can cheat. Now to boot, i'd desire to ask him approximately it. Getting a inn room and not affirming something approximately that's no longer any greater a small, petty, little project. Did he get caught interior the climate? replaced into he out previous due ingesting with pals? something diverse than that, i will no longer be able to think of of of a perfect clarification for paying for a inn room. i'd desire to easily ask him approximately this, and determine his tale sounds expert, diverse clever he's fairly cheating. to now no longer be rude even whether it style of seems such as you would be able to desire to return returned on your feet and initiate assisting your man or woman self, particularly of having him assist you- he sounds he's larger like your sugar daddy than your boyfriend.
2016-11-03 07:02:36 · answer #2 · answered by dewulf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah. I was the same way with my last boyfriend. There was another girl he liked. I'd even said that he should pursue her. But he never did. He's not the type to ever put forth intiative. Seems that, if you don't particularly care about him cheating, you may not particularly care about keeping your own thing going. Maybe, in your own way you have--subconsciously--given up on the relationship.
2007-02-12 12:23:20 · answer #3 · answered by filia_san 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off what you described is not a boyfriend. There is no sex and he dates other girls. That's just a friend or someone you've gone on dates with.
Secondly what do you mean by "stay with him?"
2007-02-12 11:04:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would care, because then he gets the idea from you that you will allow him to sleep with as many other women as he wants........and that's not right.
2007-02-12 11:05:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know...
Would you be upset if he left you for someone else ?
Or got another girl pregnant ?
Or got a sexually transmitted disease and passed it onto you ?
Or perhaps you just don't really care about this guy, so nothing he does really bothers you.
2007-02-12 11:06:38 · answer #6 · answered by midnight_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you are just trying to create some fantasy world where he is with you and gets his sex from other girls so you dont have to do it. i would not be having that when you are with somebody as bad as it may sounds but thats your man and you need to be sharing with other women.
2007-02-12 11:10:14 · answer #7 · answered by kaybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have a low self esteem
2007-02-12 11:03:54 · answer #8 · answered by Monet 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that you should just be friends.lol
2007-02-12 11:03:38 · answer #9 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋