ok...well there is a guy my friend introduced me to and my friend dident tell me everything about the guy i guess cause he dident think i would like the guy so i started to talking to the guy alot like texting and the computer and stuff and i ended up really,really likeing the guy and the guy likes me too but then i found out alot of stuff about him like bad stuff im still a teenager so the stufff is bad to me like not being a vergin,almost getting his gf pregnant,fingering,arested just alot of bad stuff i dident know about when i started to like him and then my friend told me about it after i met the guy so now i can see that the guy i likes was a lie,but i still cant get him out of my head i stilll like him alot and i just dont know what to do?
i really like the guy so should i go for it?
or should i say away from him
2007-02-12 11:01:28 · 19 answers · asked by tiny&proud 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
stay away. go find other guy. it's for your own good.. you never know whats going to happen.
2007-02-12 11:06:11 · answer #1 · answered by justanickname 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't really like the guy, you like who he says he is. Move on, that's the best thing you can do to get him out of your mind. He might put you in a bad situation, or give you a bad reputation. If you are positive these things said to you about him are true, just go with what you think. Would you be making a wise choice? Maybe confront him in person, instead of over the im and email. Have a conversation with him, and if you think you are really interested in him, go for it!
2007-02-12 19:10:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that you should stay away from him. This guy kind of sounds like bad news. If you date him, chances are he might want more from you than you are willing to give--and all that stuff about being arrested and everything? It's just not a good idea to get mixed up with a guy like that, unless you are willing to take some risks and see if there's more to him than what your friend says. If you hesitate, don't go for it.
2007-02-12 19:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by M*A*R*A L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people get into trouble at a young age but they learn from their problems and turn out to be great citizens. A lot depends on his "attitude". If he is sorry for the things he did, he has a chance to change. The problem is, you might not think he's so hot if he is no longer a "bad boy."
2007-02-12 19:06:52 · answer #4 · answered by dreamgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh god...well i fall for the bad guys every time. When i like somebody i know they are doing at least something illegal, or have. Well my friends always told me to stay away from the guys i like because they would hurt me (emotionally) and they did. So yea take my friends advice stay away from him. Plus i still havnt gotton over my x bf either. And he was rilly bad...anyways yea stay away from him. He will just hurt you, and get you in the same trouble..take this advice from someone who knows what you are going through
2007-02-12 19:11:36 · answer #5 · answered by babygurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, in 20 years will he change or will he be the one being put on trial. I say STAY AWAY. You ever heard of the law ONE HAND ALL HANDS? If you get caught with him while he is doing something bad then you can get arrested. I would just tell him that we cant go out unless you change your ways!!
2007-02-12 19:06:07 · answer #6 · answered by Kayley M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't sound like great boyfriend material. You deserve better. Of course it's not your fault that you didn't know that before, and it's understandable that you still might be attracted to him, but really you can find better. I wouldn't recommend being more than friends with a guy with that kind of reputation.
2007-02-12 19:05:44 · answer #7 · answered by mrs. vader 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from him, you have been warned. You need to live, not get caught up in a whole lot of mess. Enjoy life, and have fun. Keep an open mind, and you can forget him, since you know he not any good for you, and you want to be good to yourself, so you do not want to end up with a loser!
2007-02-12 19:08:03 · answer #8 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would stay away from him, you said ur self ur not into the stuff that he's done. Ya never know he may and try and pull u down with him. if u want to protect ur self than i wouldnt go with a guy like that. You can do better.
2007-02-12 19:06:56 · answer #9 · answered by babygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old is he? I say if he lied to you, he isn't worth it, and your friend should have been a bit more forward with you. Especially if he's like forty. Or just a lot older. Think about whatever you decide, but take into consideration he wasn't honest with you.
2007-02-12 19:07:19 · answer #10 · answered by poetess17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bing young we all have a need to attracted to the BAD BOYS but it is not worth it stay away from him you will meet someone nice and who you can take home to mommy.lol
2007-02-12 19:07:18 · answer #11 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋