I have been seeing this guy on my crew team (i'm the coxswain(only girl on the mens team) and he is the best rower on the team). We have been seeing each other for 4 weeks now, we mainly hang out weekends(espically in the early hours) we see each other every day at pratice and talk to each other about every day on AIM.
Here's the thing, because we are on crew and arn't supposed to technecally be together because teammates arn't supposed to be dating. (Yes I know i'm just asking for this to end bad) He was like my brother before and when we are around each other and the team we act like there is nothing between us, absoutly none of the other rowers know about us.
We have talked about how we both mutually care for each other and how we arnt insterested in others but it just sucks we are on crew together so it can never be offical. I always question myself weather he really cares for me as much as I do him.
If he dosn't get me anything for valentines day is that a sign?
2007-02-12 11:00:19 · 2 answers · asked by Coxie Megan 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
is that the day I want for to find out if he make any effort to show extra effection?
If not what could I do 2 find out if he really cares for me or if he is just using me...
2007-02-12 11:01:12 · update #1
every day counts as far as how he feels about u. u can't single out one day out of the year, and be sweet...and be a jerk the rest....4 weeks isn't that much time....dont' be too hard on him if he doesn't do anything all too special....give him credit for what he does do....and do a little something for him. =)
2007-02-12 11:04:54 · answer #1 · answered by Snki55ed Princess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is a sign. He should get you a card and send you flowers if he does nothing then i think hes playing you. I mean come on girl its the only day of the year that you can show it to your love (officially that is)
2007-02-12 19:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋