Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

i am currently in a relationship which i have been in for the last 19 moths. now i work in highschools and im 19 years old and have already graduated from high school but did not go to my prom due to finacial reasons now there is a nice lookin girl who asked me to go to the prom with her wat should i do

2007-02-12 10:36:07 · 5 answers · asked by undersmoke86 3 in Singles & Dating

Pro lifer’s have made the case that because it’s legal, it’s not wrong to do so. That's great. I think I'll go cheat on my girlfriend now. It's legal, correct? So that makes it right? you're confusing legality with morality. There are lots of things that are legal that aren't really moral. It's perfectly legal for corporate america to ship your job overseas to save money on labor, but does that make it right? It was perfectly legal for the oil industry to continue to raise oil prices while also reaping record profits, but I bet you were one of those that screamed bloody murder and claimed a lack of ethics and moral sensibility was being practiced (all the while you went and filled up at the nearest gas station). It is immoral of business owners to legally oppose the rasing of minimum wage. And yet, it's moral for you to go ahead and kill human life because the Courts said it was legal. That's an interesting contradiction. It's even more interesting that science says biological life begins during prophase, the initial stage of mitosis. But the kicker is how the pro choicers scream that the pro lifers base their definition of life on their faith. Yet, many pro lifers cite the scientific argument of mitosis, just as I have. Pro choicers say that life begins at birth. Based on what? Faith? It certainly isn't science. Look, I'm not here to argue if you do or don't have the legal right to have an abortion. The Courts have ruled that you do. What I'm saying is that you don't have the moral right to do so, just as I don't have the moral authority to cheat on my girlfriend. To believe otherwise is only placating your own state of moral unconsciousness.

2007-02-12 10:36:04 · 32 answers · asked by Dark Helmet 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-bf got me a ring for V-Day. He was going to use it on V-day as a ask out. And he was going to give me a rose, viking hoodie, chocolates, and a huge teddy bear. But, I was going to ask out this other boy. Oh and the reason I know this is, my ex's bffl told me. But, what do I do? Should I keep my boy or should I take the other guy. I am so confused. He is so sweet but the other boy makes me happy too.

2007-02-12 10:35:50 · 10 answers · asked by Kayle 1 in Singles & Dating

I am trying to help a friend out.... He is Catholic and his soon to be wife is Jewish. We found a Rabbi for her faith easily but it is almost impossible to find a Catholic Priest who will do an interfaith marriage esp. outside of a church. Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-12 10:35:10 · 3 answers · asked by BIGLEE 1 in Weddings

well i like this kid in my hall hes one of ym best friends and we have a lot of fun togteher and we hang a lot during the summer n talk a lot ins chool n stuff i really like him a lot but today i asked him do you liek someone he said no and in school he said you got my text right and i said yes when i got home from school i checked my phone and i got a text from him its said who do you liek i said ill tell you if you tel me cuz i knew he had to liek someone and he said _______ and then i said ______ who? he said ____ _______ and then i cried a lot becuz he ddint like me.... then he said yur turn and i just made up a name and said i didnt liek him anymore tho im so sad and he told me hes gana ask he rout of wed, for v-day what ahould i do? hes one of my bffs but i REALLY like him and hes asking out another girl?

2007-02-12 10:35:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have to ask her on v-day (no option there)
and what i plan to do is tell her i need to talk with her after class
and then say
"there is a few of us going to a movie next saturday
would you like to join us"

how is that?
any suggestions?
please help
i have another couple who is ready to go on the 24th

2007-02-12 10:34:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok there is this guy that i really like but one of my friends like him to. The thing is that she never started to like him until she found out i did. And another thing is that he has a g/f. But a couple of months ago he asked me if him and his g/f breaks up if I will go out with him. I just don't think he still likes me. What should I do?

2007-02-12 10:34:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so this is my first dance ever (I'm in middle school) and I'm super nervous! I've got a couple of specific questions below. PLEASE help me!!!!
1. I really like this guy, but if another guy asks me to dance should I say yes?
2. I'm not the best dancer, so what do I do to improve on my dancing skills?
3. What do you do at a dance besides dance?
4. Should I ask the guy I like to dance? (Please see my other question that I have about him!)
5. How can I turn down a guy (kindly) that I don't really like if he asks me to dance?
And any other helpful tips would be GREAT!

2007-02-12 10:33:44 · 1 answers · asked by Soccer Lover 3 in Singles & Dating

what does unconditional love mean?

2007-02-12 10:33:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife has recently informed me that she would like to see if we could get back together again. We have been divorced for 8 years. We have a 12 yr old son. We have remained friends since the divorce and have had very few disagreements. I still have love in my heart for her. She still has love in her heart for me. But here is the onion ...I am scared to death to open my heart back up to her because she utterly destroyed it with her infidelity during our marriage. Can a person change? If she cheated once, will she not cheat again? Can a person truly change what they consider to be morally acceptable? Now here is the garlic to go with the onion; I am in a relationship now with a wonderful lady who loves me dearly. But there are two problems with that. First, she lives in another state, and second I love her but not nearly to the point I once loved my Ex. I am very confused. My ex keeps pressing and I keep side stepping. What is a poor fool to do?

2007-02-12 10:33:09 · 17 answers · asked by badsanta40 1 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, why? And how did they get you to go back out with them?

2007-02-12 10:32:08 · 12 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Wives - if you were writing a "How To" guide explaining to your husband what he should or could do for you while you are sick (cold, flu, etc.) what is the most important thing you would mention?

2007-02-12 10:31:50 · 9 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I told a good girl friend of many years that I like her, but I cannot date anyone at the moment. She said she just wanted to be friends anyway, but she wants our friendship to grow. Well...we have tremendous "chemistry", and we have are now really close as friends. I feel like I cannot live without her in my life, and I am considering asking her out. Did she want this??

2007-02-12 10:31:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to ask my b/f of 5 yrs. to marry me.He is 22 and i 'am almost 20...young i know,but very much in love.So im wondering if it's okay to pop the quest. to him...we live together and have for about a yr. we have talked about getting married and when I ask him he always replys with a "yea" but then changes the subject. Not that he does intentially,everyone is telling me i should wait on him to ask me but im a very anxiouse girl and if someone doesn't do something then i make sure i get it done! So do you think it's a bad idea? i was going to wait till this summer....but i guess im just afraid of being turned down...and i dont know if its okay? we do argue like everyone but we have our ups too. so how would i pop the quest.while letting him know that we dont have to get started on a family right now and everything? im soo confused on how, where, and when to do it....thanks for your help!

2007-02-12 10:31:06 · 15 answers · asked by krissy b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am crazy for this guy,and know that I should be cause he is taken. However, I think he likes me too! I can't ask him, so what do I do?

2007-02-12 10:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Sugarplum 1 in Singles & Dating

hi i am 19 years old and i have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost a year..and while he is my best friend and i would never be unfaithful to him. is it wrong to meet other guys and want to be friends with them?

2007-02-12 10:31:03 · 1 answers · asked by jaysangel040106 3 in Singles & Dating

Are girls feeling the chin hair or should it go?

2007-02-12 10:30:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 10:30:05 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have had this friend since 4 grade and she hates one of my friends she hasnt talked to me in like 2 weeks and told me she wont be my friend unless i leave my new friend and just leave her alone but my nw friend doesnt have alot of friend as it is and i have more in common with my new friend then i do with my old one please help me out i have no idea what to do and i am totally worried about losing one of my friends and dont know how to get past this.

2007-02-12 10:30:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

besides sexual stuff

2007-02-12 10:29:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 10:29:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ever since i broke up with him he wont talk to me even though he dumped me he is now goin out with an old frind of mine and i want to know why he is ignorin me and how do i ge him to talk to me cos i dont know what i've done to him?

2007-02-12 10:29:25 · 1 answers · asked by Rupert 1 in Singles & Dating

and i know she likes me she told me, but i know she has one just by seeing and hearing things why would she say she dont have one.........i can tell she means that she like me by the way she acts around me it diffrent from other people shes around.

2007-02-12 10:29:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-12 10:29:10 · 6 answers · asked by haley d 1 in Singles & Dating

What do girls look for in guys and how do girls like to be asked out? And do girls like shy guys???

2007-02-12 10:29:07 · 3 answers · asked by wassup 4 in Singles & Dating

whats your plan for very special day , romance in the air already ,
what do you think

2007-02-12 10:28:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my ex and i broke up almost 9 months ago, but had been seeing each other throughout that whole time. i initially said it was over because he started playin' games. avoided me for like a week, then i overhear a chic on his vm. he claims it was his dike friend setting up the call to see my reaction. my reaction for....? just childish. anyway, we still were being intimate and hanging out from time to time. i had started working at his moms business, being there i discovered he was kickin it with a customer that i had been suspicious of when we were together. anyway, he tried to "work it out" with me after all that, telling me he was trying to get money from her for us. that disgusted me...i told him that's triflin' and weak as a man. and he needs to get a job. his character is lazy and pathetic in my eyes now. that's why i'm pissed i have an ocassional thought or dream about the bastard. i do things, i date other people, but i think of him sometimes. I hate that i think of him

2007-02-12 10:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by just me 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl and even though she probably knows that I like her, I never told her in person. Should I tell her how I feel about her or should I just hope that our friendship will evolve into a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. We hang out and always have a good time we laugh a lot and talk a lot to each other. would it be awkward for her to hear that I like her. I think she likes me too but I'm not sure, how should I ask her if she likes me more than a friend???. With valentines coming up I was thinking about getting her something not very expensive but something like a message gift certificate, if I do get her something how should I tell her? we go to different schools, so I don't see her that often so do you think it would be a good idea to tell her how I feel about her over the phone, or should I just wait to see if we ever hang out again to tell her in person????

thanks

2007-02-12 10:28:35 · 14 answers · asked by BAS 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 10:28:01 · 12 answers · asked by soccer player 1 in Singles & Dating

well i like this guy and im pretty sure he likes me. but i don't know how to like get close to him. i mean there are times when he is all alone and that is the perfect time for me to talk to him. but i don't bc i don't know what to say. so what are some ways that i can talk to him?

2007-02-12 10:27:19 · 3 answers · asked by Nicole 3 in Singles & Dating