Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

I really like this girl(well, two, but one's in Austrailia, I shall talk about the one at my school), but I'm trying to figure out if I'm in love because right now I feel like I'm unsure about it. Could I be in love or am I just fooling myself?

2007-02-12 10:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by killercore007 1 in Singles & Dating

is it maybe because of the loyalty to the father. And since the father wants to meet with boyfriend should he be allowed to? It is Joint Legal and Joint Residential with no Primary Residence - should one parent seek custody and let the courts decide? Father wants flexibility and freedom to adjust and work things out as they come and discuss all issues together and that seems to be to difficult.

2007-02-12 10:15:30 · 6 answers · asked by RealEYES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where do i go for help? i need to do something about it before he thinks he can get away with it. he winds me in the stomach making me not breathe this isnt a normaly relationship but i love him.

2007-02-12 10:15:04 · 95 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a good job, I pay my bills, I’m not that bad looking and I’m pretty fun in bed. Drama is not part of my life and I pride myself on being loyal, honest and thoughtful. I am not irritating or smelly or something. Check out my 360, I don’t think I’m that bad. Most girls think I’m pretty funny at least the ones with a sense of humor. Why is it that girls seem to cling to guys who are my exact opposite while dudes like myself get kicked to the curb? I always hear the women saying they want a good guy, are they just full of b.s.? Come clean and tell me the truth.

2007-02-12 10:14:59 · 13 answers · asked by andy 2 in Singles & Dating

Me & my boyfriend have been together for 3 yrs we are 21. We have had some problems in the past but none too recently. We talk about getting married & having kids one day but he wants to wait longer than I do. I'm confident that one day we'll get married, I think that's why I don't understand why he doesn't want to sooner. Does he not feel the same way about me? or is it just a guy thing to be weary of marriage? He's going to law school after we graduate and we've already talked about how "we'll" have to decide where he's going to go b/c of course "we'll" have to move there. I'm the one that caused problems for us in the past so maybe he is just more afraid than I am? Why do I feel like I need to rush things? Also, we've already talked about it and don't want to have kids for 5 years or so (this is very logical) but I know I'll want one sooner. So I guess I'm just wanting your thoughts on the situation more than an actual question.

2007-02-12 10:14:35 · 2 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i had a boyfriend we have been talk seen we where in low school well will were talk i seen him talk to this other and i thought she was ttry to going with him. well one of my other friend a letter on the ground talk her and him in it. like have she want to do thing to him when i ask him about it him try to lie to me i really love him and he have ask me to be with him of the rest of my life i and 18 i am in the 12th last year i am glad. the next he told me the true so what should. should i move on and let this one miststack pass are no i dont not want this in our relationship

2007-02-12 10:14:28 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a love affair and I want to give a Valentine's Day card to him. I got a card. It says, "To my lover, to my close friend." I can't call him boyfriend or husband but I do really love him. I'm not a native English speaker, so I'm not sure, but if I use the word, "lover", can it mean "my sweatheart"? Can he feel how much I love him? My friend who is also a foreigher told me that "lover" has a strong meaning of sexual relationship. Yes, we have such a relationship, but I really want him to know that he is very special and mean to me. So, what's exactly "lover" mean?

2007-02-12 10:13:52 · 2 answers · asked by losamigos222 1 in Singles & Dating

she keeps reading my emails. my mom just lets her. what should i do?

2007-02-12 10:13:07 · 15 answers · asked by ohh babyyy 2 in Family

2007-02-12 10:12:41 · 5 answers · asked by Marti 2 in Singles & Dating

he has a girlfriend but he is sick of the way she treats him

2007-02-12 10:12:35 · 12 answers · asked by ♥hemakesmesmile♥ 2 in Singles & Dating

So... here's the story: i liked this guy and my friend told him (wasn't supposed to) and it turned out he didn't like me as more than a friend (we are friends... and by the way... he has a girl friend). Now, i don't flirt with him... but he flirts with me, and its NONSTOP!!! And i can't help myself but flirt back, i mean come on! i still like the guy... its hard not to flirt with him. But he also has a gf (like i told you before) and that makes me feel bad (not that bad....). But, i know i'm acting like a door mat.... because i keep letting him flirt with me and by the way, he touched my butt twice (I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE SIAD THAT IT WAS ONLY WITH A FOLDER... HE HIT MY BUTT WITH A FOLDER.. DON'T KNOW IF THAT MAKES IT ACCEPTABLE) and my face once (GENTLY)..... So.. how can i stop myself???

2007-02-12 10:12:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why is it when men **** they get more pleasure thinking about someone they dont no to some one they do

2007-02-12 10:12:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a city were to add more buses to it's routes that are very busy. Who would benefit from it and why?

2007-02-12 10:11:56 · 3 answers · asked by shadowcat_97008 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have an infant son who spent this past Saturday night at Grandma's. We both work F/T and i'm in school and have a class wed. night so I thought it would be good to go to dinner saturday night. due to last minute reservations, the earliest they could seat us was 9:15pm. He refused to go because of the time. Mind you, he was off work the next day AND today...I was so pissed I began to cry. He NEVER wants to do hardly anything on the weekend and acts like doing anything after 7pm is a crime. He has no friends and doesnt do anything but work , sleep, and watch tv. He just got a great promotion at work and makes good $$, but I am miserable because our social life SUCKS!! We don't do anything socially and I have fantasies about being with other men. We have not been intimate since last year - and when he attempts to, maybe once every 2 weeks, i reject his advances. This is my 2nd marriage and I feel like its headed toward divorce. Should I even be mad he didn't want to go to dinner?

2007-02-12 10:11:19 · 3 answers · asked by pumperola 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have a problem
a guy i reallyyy like..has told me he likes me back..
he lives far away so we couldnt go out until i come to vist..in agust..
but we talk..
he says he likes me..but idk..he doesnt show it..ive thought of makeing him jelous so he would..buttt that would be kinda stupid..
what can i do to make him care?! plz help

2007-02-12 10:10:13 · 6 answers · asked by Mckenzie 1 in Singles & Dating

I need some advice!I met this guy Chris we hooked up then he blew me off we then started talking again and we hooked up again and he blew me off again...we started talking again....for the past couple weeks I've been talking to this other guy Ryan who I have really gotten interested in. Chris and I are talking about meeting tomorrow night but I dotn know if he will show. Do you think I should go ahead and go see if if Chris meets me and everything or just blow him off for Ryan...I havent met Ryan in person yet. I'm just a lil confused!

2007-02-12 10:10:05 · 8 answers · asked by cute_aurora_gal 1 in Singles & Dating

ok. my grandmom died about 6 years ago. and my grandpop started seeing her best friend. now they are engaged and are getting married in june. they want me to be in the wedding. i really don't like this woman and i don't want them to get married. but i love my grandpop and don't want to hurt his feelings by not being in the wedding. what should i do?

2007-02-12 10:08:56 · 21 answers · asked by irockmyownworld04 1 in Weddings

Well i like this girl and i have gone out with her berore for ten months. She has a boyfriend and he isnt treating her right, he is too controling. I wish i could tell her how i feel but i would hate to ruin our friendship, but i want to be more than friend. Please Help !!!!!!

2007-02-12 10:08:56 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok. my grandmom died about 6 years ago. and my grandpop started seeing her best friend. now they are engaged and are getting married in june. they want me to be in the wedding. i really don't like this woman and i don't want them to get married. but i love my grandpop and don't want to hurt his feelings by not being in the wedding. what should i do?

2007-02-12 10:08:45 · 4 answers · asked by irockmyownworld04 1 in Weddings

Hi everyone,

There is this person I used to have strong feelings for. I just found out thruogh a friend that he has been engaged with this girl. Now, every morning when I would wake up, this guy was the first thing in my mind. I could not get him out of my heart and my mind for years, though I had a feeling that realistically, chances of us being together were close to impossible. He was my ray of hope someone I leaned on (in my head of course) when the dating scene was so dim..Now i found out that the hope has died..I understand that athis over, but any suggestions on how to get over this pain in my chest??? THankssss!! Any help would be appreciated...(Hopelessly Romantic)

2007-02-12 10:08:45 · 3 answers · asked by venus28 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'v been marreied for 13 years and she started cheating on me 8 months ago and now we ddon't talk at all and she wants a divorce with three kids involved and all i want is my wife and life back what should i do to help the situation she says i push to hard to get what i want in everything i do but i just cant let go of her

2007-02-12 10:07:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girl broke up with me last wednesday i am not sure what to do. She tells me there is some love there but when she is mad she tells me she doesnt love me. She left saying that she doesnt think she is coming back but she also tol dme needs time to think about to see how she really feels about me. She asked for a month she doesnt want to see me talk or anything, I am so depressed i dont want to work or anything. Why would she told me that doesnt she love me any more is just mad if i give her time you think she will talk to me again. I want 2 go and see her now but i dont want 2 brake the 1 month time she asked for . Please help!

should i go and talk to her and see what happens
she doesnt want 2 see me or talk over the phone but i need to let her know that i am here and want to figh for her love

2007-02-12 10:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and i are fighting again...lol..and we were doing so good. The other day i want to know why he wasnt talking much and always grumpy. And why the fun in the bedroom kinda faded away for almost a month. He wouldnt talk to me he wouldnt answer anything i asked...so i just left it and gave him time. last night i bought it up again and all he wants now is sex. which i wouldnt give him. i tried to talk to him again and he wouldnt answer me. today he texted me and said he has alot on his mind and that he is mad at me, but wont say why.ive tried every thing. should i be mad or him? what do i do? i could just leave and i have told him that already.

2007-02-12 10:07:40 · 8 answers · asked by twisted 3 in Singles & Dating

She was my friend since elementary school. Im in the 8th grade. I plan to give her an email on wensday in computer class since its private and since Im a little shy around her. I think she already knows cause she emailed me in class and asked if i needed to tell her something.I should have told her there but I freaked out and said "I dont have anthing to say but if I ever do ill tell you. thanks for asking." What the hell is wrong wit me!!!!!!!!!!!!!Please tell me how I can write her back.I have a plan but Im not sure it will work.

2007-02-12 10:07:39 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he has lately beeen calling me sexy and hot:P and he asked me if i wanted to go out with him and be his gf. but my mom said that guys are only after one thing, is she referring to sex?

now i meet him at a volunteer thing about a year ago and talked on and off. the reason why my mom doesnt like the sound of him is becuase what i have told her. i told her he meanted drugs before saying something abouut how there are alot of drugs at his school and asking if i ever had a bf but i think he might of been talking in convo. wdyt should i maybe go out with him or no, just to a mmovie ?

2007-02-12 10:07:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have recently had the opportunity to experience some great opinions from people on here. This channel has been my vice as I went through hell and high water with my husband. My husband and I are now separated due to him putting his hands on me and shuving me into the bedframe while I'm pregnant with our first child. He blames me for not wanting to be there because we just got married and I don't have all of my mail coming there and I'm too suspicious of him because he cheated in the past and still possesses some of those sneaky traits. Example: coming in at five o' clock in the morning and not answering his telephone. My question is are there any women out there or men who have already walked down this road and were pregnant? My husband was NEVER violent towards me until these last few weeks. He's 39 and now regresses at rates I can't even comprehend. He's fourteen years my senior. I can only come up with him treating me this way because he's still cheating & I keep movingon

2007-02-12 10:07:28 · 5 answers · asked by PEACHFACE 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My group have been rehearsing for weeks for a competion that we have been entering for 28 years.....one of our really important members have gone and the show can't run without him..............its terrible.....we have been practising til 2 in the morning and everything...we have a history of winning and now this year we cant even enter if we cant get this member on board.........how can we pursuade him to do it..........we have 24 hours to decide if we r gonna enter or not what should we do......im desperate for any suggestions......we need him for comedy and we really need him....or some one who is excellent to replace him......HELP..........THIS COULD BREAK OUR LONG TRADITION

2007-02-12 10:07:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-12 10:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by Jollypenguin 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright so here is the story. I am in college and I met this girl. She is fantastic and i really like her. Shehas a boyfriend though but its a long distance relationship. She flirts with me alot. I donn't want to come off as a the gut that steals girlfriends because I don't. I think she is thinking about breaking up with her boyfriend but wants to secure another one before she does. How do I play hard to get as to keep it interesting for the both of us. I know women play hard to get but how do guys do it?

2007-02-12 10:06:45 · 5 answers · asked by malcom1000 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 10:06:16 · 5 answers · asked by believe in yourself & the world believes with you 1 in Marriage & Divorce