I have a good job, I pay my bills, I’m not that bad looking and I’m pretty fun in bed. Drama is not part of my life and I pride myself on being loyal, honest and thoughtful. I am not irritating or smelly or something. Check out my 360, I don’t think I’m that bad. Most girls think I’m pretty funny at least the ones with a sense of humor. Why is it that girls seem to cling to guys who are my exact opposite while dudes like myself get kicked to the curb? I always hear the women saying they want a good guy, are they just full of b.s.? Come clean and tell me the truth.
2007-02-12 10:14:59 · 13 answers · asked by andy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only when they are too old, worn out, used up, screwed out and not wanted by others do women want and see the value in a good man. And at that point they have nothing to offer a good man anyway.
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2007-02-12 10:22:06 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. JW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because women want a good guy, but not someone who is too nice. Someone who can make their own decisions, stand up for themselves. and that they can feel safe with. So maybe you on the surface are a great guy, but maybe you come off soft. So with the next girl keep being the good guy, but make your own decisions, and don't be less of a man. Oh and I find that almost every guy thinks that they are a "good guy" and will pull that out when the girl they like picks someone else... but a lot of the times guys are wrong. my ex swore he was such a good guy, I think its because he would pay for things, yet he would only be a "good guy" when he wasn't being an a** hole!
2007-02-12 10:23:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you play a video game is it more fun to play the easy level you know you can beat in no time or do you prefer the challenge and feel a sense of achievement when you survived the struggles and beat a game at its toughest level. That's relationships, nice guys are doormats and don't challenge women. When it's too easy it's boring. Somebody equally boring will appreciate it tho but it's usually not the ones that would catch your interest
2007-02-12 10:27:33 · answer #3 · answered by menagainstamazoniammasterhood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We want a good guy. We just also want him to be interesting with an "adventurous" streak (be it riding motorcycles, playing in a rock band, skiing/snowboarding, etc) and a desire to experience and try out new things. And it doesn't hurt if they're into things that we are interested in, but never got a chance to try out. So yes, we actually want a good guy with a little bit of the bad boy in him (but not bad to us and the relationship).
2007-02-12 10:21:16 · answer #4 · answered by Tygirljojo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Checked out your 360. Looks fine to me. Apparently you haven't met the right woman yet.
2007-02-12 10:19:00 · answer #5 · answered by sassybree1979 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good girls like good guys.im sure alot of girls would like a guy like you.the kinda girls that date bad boys because they think that their all cool usually end up regretting it later on. I think ur a nice guy and there is probably someone out theur made for u:)
2007-02-12 10:28:19 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls like a little mystery,
im not saying u should be a total jerk,
but dont play easy
you have to make us feel like we could never get you
because ur that much of a catch....
girls also want a guy they can change
2007-02-12 10:21:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a relitavly good guy and i have the same problem. No girls are really intressteed in me
2007-02-12 10:33:23 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm... a lot of girls like good guys when they are thinking about friends..but when they are thinking of as boyfriends then they like someone who would be dangerous and stuff.
Personally, I don't go for the bad boys, but ya.
2007-02-12 10:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by em<3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No they are not interested. They say they are, but time and time again they choose the "bad boys" instead.
2007-02-12 10:23:21 · answer #10 · answered by S h ä r k G û m b ò 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋