So... here's the story: i liked this guy and my friend told him (wasn't supposed to) and it turned out he didn't like me as more than a friend (we are friends... and by the way... he has a girl friend). Now, i don't flirt with him... but he flirts with me, and its NONSTOP!!! And i can't help myself but flirt back, i mean come on! i still like the guy... its hard not to flirt with him. But he also has a gf (like i told you before) and that makes me feel bad (not that bad....). But, i know i'm acting like a door mat.... because i keep letting him flirt with me and by the way, he touched my butt twice (I CONFRONTED HIM AND HE SIAD THAT IT WAS ONLY WITH A FOLDER... HE HIT MY BUTT WITH A FOLDER.. DON'T KNOW IF THAT MAKES IT ACCEPTABLE) and my face once (GENTLY)..... So.. how can i stop myself???
2007-02-12 10:12:17 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sweetie, take a deep breath. Calm down. In a month, you'll wonder why you were ever stressing over this. If I was in your situation, I would tell the guy that he can't have it both ways. If he wants to go out with you, he needs to break up with his girl friend. It's disrespectful to both you and her to be playing around like you are. Remember, a person can be mentally unfaithful even if they're not physically. And if he isn't interested, then he's just playing with you b/c he knows you have a thing for him. Some sort of power trip, and he needs to back off.
Of course, you do need to keep in mind that some people just flirt for fun, and it doesn't mean a thing. If this is the case, then just take it for what it is: playful, friendly, conversation. Have fun with it.
2007-02-12 10:22:32 · answer #1 · answered by claire5star 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This happened to me and me and the guy are still good friends. Just go with the flow and eventually you will get over him. Even if you have the little-est feeling for him, it won't matter because he doesn't like you back. My sister says I keep flirting with him, but I don't mean to either. Just go with it and don't worry about what other people think. Follow your heart. You have the potential to keep flirting with him or stop. It won't matter. Whatever floats your boat!! Good luck girl!!
2007-02-12 10:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is a jerk for flirting with you while he has a girlfriend, and he is likely to flirt with other girls if YOU were his girlfriend; is that the type of guy you want?
Tell him to back off and stop flirting with you - he is treating both you and his girlfriend with great disrespect. If he really wants you, he ought to be honest and break up with her first.
And yes, it is sexual harassment, whether it is with his hand or a folder, or just crowding you or staring at you - if it is sexual in nature and makes you uncomfortable, you have every right to tell him to stop, and he ought to respect that.
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2016-10-02 01:03:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy is using the info that you like him as a way to manipulate you. Tell him to knock it off. He's trying to make an idiot out of you..and probably figures he can get a friend with benefits. Act like your not interested and make some more friends.
2007-02-12 10:17:53 · answer #5 · answered by Franklymydear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right now he's playing with your emotions. he knows that you like him so he's torturing you right now cause he knows he has you wrapped around him. my suggestion is to back off, stop flirting with him. your wasting you time flirting back cause he has a girl but if you want to play dirty you can play his game. flip the script make him want you. you can do that by stop showing that you like him. when he seems that your not giving him the attention you used to thats going to drive his mind wild and all he's gonna do is think about you. find a new guy thats attractive to you and flirt with him.. thats going to make him really jealous. your a female you know how to scheme lol. good luck.
2007-02-12 10:20:55 · answer #6 · answered by Blake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to remember...even if you end up being his girl...he'll do the same thing to you. And you'll be in the shoes of the girl that "you didn't that feel that bad about". What goes around comes around. Beware.
2007-02-12 10:20:12 · answer #7 · answered by sassy_395 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend (boy) is doing the same thing and he says he doesnt like me and he has a gf (but he told one of his friends he likes me), so probably he likes you, or he just likes to flirt with girls, and he might not know that he is flirting...
2007-02-12 10:18:47 · answer #8 · answered by rebel5689 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
seems like hes playing both of you. think about it. if he'll flirt with you while he has a girl friend what will he do if you two date. he might be cute but seems worthless
2007-02-12 10:16:23 · answer #9 · answered by sufreshman14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's on an ego trip because of what ur friend told him- tell him u were so wrong- he's not as hot as u thought. That should get him to back of
2007-02-12 10:18:14 · answer #10 · answered by fchick_78 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋