My girl broke up with me last wednesday i am not sure what to do. She tells me there is some love there but when she is mad she tells me she doesnt love me. She left saying that she doesnt think she is coming back but she also tol dme needs time to think about to see how she really feels about me. She asked for a month she doesnt want to see me talk or anything, I am so depressed i dont want to work or anything. Why would she told me that doesnt she love me any more is just mad if i give her time you think she will talk to me again. I want 2 go and see her now but i dont want 2 brake the 1 month time she asked for . Please help!
should i go and talk to her and see what happens
she doesnt want 2 see me or talk over the phone but i need to let her know that i am here and want to figh for her love
2007-02-12 10:07:54 · 9 answers · asked by leomebaby 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I feel for you ... you sound young ... I hate to say this, but honestly, it doens't seem like this is worth you wasting your time or energy. If she needs time ... fine ... go on with your life. Why? What if she doesn't come back ... you've just wasted a precious month of YOUR LIFE. There are so many girls out there ... you need to find the one that you can relate to and not have HER put limitations or make the rules of the relationship.
I know it is difficult ... heartache is never easy. But remember that something as good or better comes out of disappointment, failure and heartache. Just give it some time and you may find that you actually don't want to be with her. Don't force the issue ... Good Luck and always smile ... there isn't any relationship worth crying over for too long. The only important relationship is the one you have with yourself ... Be yourself and never compromise ... you won't be truly happy if you do.
2007-02-12 10:14:53 · answer #1 · answered by neilmood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to let her have time to think what she wants and by going to see her you will make things worst than they are. Let her miss you and she might call before the month is over. Let her work out her feelings and if she is smart she will go back to you she likely has been treated like a queen and took you for granted thats what happened. Dont be a fatal attraction give her space. lol
2007-02-12 18:16:33 · answer #2 · answered by sweetpea 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you should do is go out with your friends see other girls look around. What your girl wants right know is for you to be misserable. If you keep up the way your going even if she does come back your in for an abusive relationship. Make her want to come back by showing her you can live without her. Make her see that your worth having by being attractive to other women.
2007-02-12 18:13:54 · answer #3 · answered by David Q 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yer a hopeless romantic arent cha
fell hopelessly in love didnt ya
well go over to her house and tell her how ya feel.
youll thank youre self in the future
gooooood...luck...........
2007-02-12 18:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by outlaw64 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart
2007-02-12 18:11:09 · answer #5 · answered by Jack 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask the doctor to give you so zoloft pill , jest wait one mouth and go fond a nother girl at this time. you will not heal if you wait at the phone .i know i tryed it dosn,t work.
2007-02-12 18:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
DON"T call her!!!!! DON"T see her!!!!!! Don't in ANY WAY let her know you miss her!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Then she'll come back.....BUT YOU MUST WAIT, try to be patient (occupy yourself w'other things as much as possible), even if she tries to contact you in the next month, REFUSE to talk to her.......she'll grovel her way back to you then still make her earn her way back slowly.
2007-02-12 18:21:26 · answer #7 · answered by maimatt7 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her space give a bit of time maybe she can think about what she said so wait till the due date of what she tells u..
2007-02-12 18:14:37 · answer #8 · answered by lene 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she is playing yo yo with you move on and find a better girl
2007-02-12 18:11:32 · answer #9 · answered by wildirishrose19522000 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋