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Me & my boyfriend have been together for 3 yrs we are 21. We have had some problems in the past but none too recently. We talk about getting married & having kids one day but he wants to wait longer than I do. I'm confident that one day we'll get married, I think that's why I don't understand why he doesn't want to sooner. Does he not feel the same way about me? or is it just a guy thing to be weary of marriage? He's going to law school after we graduate and we've already talked about how "we'll" have to decide where he's going to go b/c of course "we'll" have to move there. I'm the one that caused problems for us in the past so maybe he is just more afraid than I am? Why do I feel like I need to rush things? Also, we've already talked about it and don't want to have kids for 5 years or so (this is very logical) but I know I'll want one sooner. So I guess I'm just wanting your thoughts on the situation more than an actual question.

2007-02-12 10:14:35 · 2 answers · asked by Amanda 4 in Family & Relationships Other - Family & Relationships

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Sounds to me that you're not as confident that he feels about you the way you feel about him and the relationship.

If your relationship is meant to be, then it will still be going strong one year, three years, or five years from now. Also, given that he has other goals he's trying to accomplish (e.g. law school), perhaps he feels like he needs to put some of the other things on hold.

2007-02-12 10:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by ms_lain_iwakura 3 · 1 0

My friend was also in law school and his fiance agreed to wait until he's done with law school. When he finished they got married. See? It's simple...

I think your hormones are telling you that you're ready to have kids and so you're feeling that you're ready for the wedding now. Hence the need to rush things.

Or are you one of those girls that has dreamed of the perfect wedding you just need to find the perfect man hmmm? How much have you saved up for the wedding?

2007-02-12 18:47:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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