Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

im soo confuse..dunno what is happening

A-24 y.o=my girlfriend since 8 yrs ago, ; hot tempered n always mad at me, expect me to be perfect, put all her problems to me, nag all the time, hurt my feeling everytime, always fight, ego, always abuse me emotionally, i dont think she respect me, dominant.
however; she is matured, confident, treat me good when she's in the mood, firm,love me.

B- 23y.o=another girl who comes to my life 3 mnths ago; bit childish-always cheerfully like a little girl, not firm in decision,
however, she seems to really understands me, accept me as i am, charming, cute, modest-but sometimes too humble, softhearted, love me,

i love them both,
i know i cant live with A as my wife, but i have so much beautiful memories with her, and i still love her.

should i continue with A although im hurt everyday and she become a queen ctrl?
or try new relation? what if im really miss my ex? would the feeling fade away with respect to time?

please help me

2007-02-12 15:19:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ive always been popular in highschool coz im smart,has a great leadership, very good personality and very friendly.i still am now. but for some reason, when i get to college, not one guy has ever courted me or asked me out. none of those matter.i even dress nice. is it because im fat?im 5'5 and 185. you think so?

2007-02-12 15:19:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should I do about my husbands x-wife? she has done nothing but caused trouble for us for over 15 years.He has two childern with her but they are grown now. She has been married 5 times and every time her marrage falls apart she takes it out on us.This is my first marrage and my husbands second.they were divorced for 2 years before I even met him.we even tried leaving the state,we were gone for 4 years but came back because we wanted to be with our familys. what should we do? HELP!

2007-02-12 15:18:41 · 14 answers · asked by tinamia 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm trying to avoid the "rental hall" or rec center. I'm looking for something other than just a room. Thanks

2007-02-12 15:18:07 · 10 answers · asked by g money 1 in Weddings

How do i get out of a 22 year marriage without losing out financially, my husband is self centered tight and is a bitter person about life in general. Please help me i dont love him anymore and forget marriage couseling he is to tight to pay for it.

2007-02-12 15:17:57 · 22 answers · asked by jojo 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like I said, my little sister is prettier than me and she's a blonde. (for some reason guys like blondes more than brunettes)
Anyways, she gets all the guys that I want. And guys always pay attention to her. I'm jealous of it. what should I do?

2007-02-12 15:17:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

The relationship ended many years ago badly, but she was my first love and I still think of her. Perhaps I feel guilt over the bad ending. I wish I could just forget her but I cannot. I have a great life now and a great family. Why does this person still enter my thoughts?

2007-02-12 15:16:53 · 9 answers · asked by Complexanot 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 15:16:48 · 32 answers · asked by can u ♥ moi? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a friend I've known since 5th grade, 21 now, and we have grown into very different people. We have exchanged some words and she has said some things that have offended and hurt me. I don't think it was her intention to do so, but we are very different from each other now. We have been emailing back and forth for a couple months now, trying to communicate with each other, pretty much fighting over the internet. I don't know if I should try to fix things with her or just let everything go. We have known each other for a very long time and I don't know where to take it now. I have known her for years and we have been pretty close, but also had times when we didn't see each other much.

2007-02-12 15:16:44 · 15 answers · asked by jbvo 2 in Friends

WHAT THE HECK?
my parents and i got in an argument and i was mad so i went upstairs and slammed the door (i know.. im a little ***** and diserved it..) but now my door is gone.. and showers are with a batheing suit on.. and i have no privacy AT ALL.. and theres 10 people that live in my house!!!!? i dont like it.. please dont tell me i diserved it because i know but...

any ideas on how to get it back? or how to ask for it back?

2007-02-12 15:15:21 · 16 answers · asked by bubbles m 1 in Family

There is a girl that goes to my skool that im in love with and she dont kno

2007-02-12 15:14:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does he like me? He is shorter than me and a year older. We are in middle school. We are both single. He staires at me all the time. When I walk by, he stops talking and whispers things to his friends. I smile at him to be nice and he looks like he is hard..(if u know what i mean!!) So do you think he likes me? He also was excited about the dance when he found out i turned down this guy.. Help!

2007-02-12 15:14:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey guys. i need ur help.. i just met a girl thats one year younger than me. shes 16 and i am 17 in uthaic h.s. she is in my music class.. i like her becasue of her persona.. i make her laugh. just recently i found out that she has a bf for 1 years already. even though it is heartbreaking to knwo this , i feel that i have to at least try. so is there any suggestions for me to do on v-day without being to obvious. i want to play the mysterious one.. is there any chance for me to suceed. by the way, is white rose better than a red rose when giving it to someone thats in my kind of situation. thanxs for all your help

2007-02-12 15:13:53 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 15:13:26 · 13 answers · asked by briggs0409@sbcglobal.net 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been taught in many churches that the Lord only allows a man once to marry unless his spouce id deceased. I have been divorced going on almost 9 years now and the single life is way OLD and I am a bit lonly, yet, am I wrong for desiring companionship? Sounds legalistic or is it holiness? Some even teach that if I remarry I will burn for it! Some say God is gracious and good and would allow me a second chance. What do you all think on the VERY HOT and much debated issue in the church over and concerning divorce and remarriage?

2007-02-12 15:13:08 · 12 answers · asked by John S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

im soo confuse..dunno what is happening

A-24 y.o=my girlfriend since 8 yrs ago, ; hot tempered n always mad at me, expect me to be perfect, put all her problems to me, nag all the time, hurt my feeling everytime, always fight, ego, always abuse me emotionally, i dont think she respect me, dominant.
however; she is matured, confident, treat me good when she's in the mood, firm,love me.

B- 23y.o=another girl who comes to my life 3 mnths ago; bit childish-always cheerfully like a little girl, not firm in decision,
however, she seems to really understands me, accept me as i am, charming, cute, modest-but sometimes too humble, softhearted, love me,

i love them both,
i know i cant live with A as my wife, but i have so much beautiful memories with her, and i still love her.

should i continue with A although im hurt everyday and she become a queen ctrl?
or try new relation? what if im really miss my ex? would the feeling fade away with respect to time?

please help me

2007-02-12 15:12:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 15:12:06 · 7 answers · asked by justme 1 in Singles & Dating

my fiance and his children moved up to arkansas b/c of a job well i have decided to wait intil my son gets out of his school instead of taking him and moving him into a new school,he s only in kinder. but during the summer we are moving up there. i mean i mad the choice of staying here intil he finished.

2007-02-12 15:11:48 · 10 answers · asked by happybunnyjg 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my husband, but I am sick of the drinking and wallowing. I have been the sole support of the home for 4 years and in that time have supported 3 of his boys and 1 niece.......I have my own son whom we raise together. My husband said that he would only take 6 months off and then find a job. That was in 2003. Last week, my employer asked my husband to submit his resume and he would look at finding him a job. My husband retired from the military and has issues and is usually inebriated when I get home. He told me that he "doesn't have to work or turn in his resume". I am working 60 hour weeks and coming home to have to clean and cook and care for the house and all of the bills. I am at my wits end and am ready to call it quits. Does anyone have any ideas?

2007-02-12 15:11:33 · 24 answers · asked by nursecandi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Man i dont know what 2 do all of my EXs friends want 2 go out with me its crazy i dont know what 2 do! haha what wood my ex think 2 about it all her friends dont want 2 hang out with her they want 2 hang out with me!! its crazy i dont know what 2 do!!..

2007-02-12 15:11:10 · 8 answers · asked by rusty_nguyen 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 15:10:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What I mean does it hurt less to be used by someone you don't care about than someone who you do care about?

2007-02-12 15:10:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 13 yr old son and I have always been close and able to talk about anything. He has always nagged his dad to stop chewing and his pap to stop smoking. He would bring home pictures of what it can do to you.....I trusted him knowing that he told me all of his friends either chew or smoke but swore he would never do it. YEP! you guessed it! I caught him chewing! broke my heart! then found out it wasn't the 1st.time. He said I just don't understand peer pressure.His friends would laugh at him and tease him so he tried it.He said it was embarrassing how they teased him. I gave him the lecture about not being real friends. My husband say's I can ground him 4ever but he WILL find a way if he wants to do it.(but he is not allowing it) just wondering what I can do to prevent it again????

2007-02-12 15:10:50 · 11 answers · asked by same girl/new name :) 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 15:10:21 · 4 answers · asked by lola 1 in Singles & Dating

How many other women and men are fifty (I will be in October) and currently single? Did you ever think at this age you would be?

Navigating the "single scene" at this age is laughable. If you don't hang out in bars and club and don't drink, don't want to be "fixed up" by well-meaning friends, family or co-workers, don't cruise churces, temples, synagoues, mosques, weddings or funerals, or don't subscribe to internet dating sites, then what are the options in meeting an emotionally, social, psychologially, spiritually, financially compatible equal?

For the women: Men in our age group are generally married or in a relationship, bitter and cynical following a divorce and child support payments, of questionable sexual orientation (on the "down low"), medicated with psychotropics, or looking for women much younger.

2007-02-12 15:10:15 · 7 answers · asked by Ebony Goddess 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 15:10:13 · 15 answers · asked by simmi_prayer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 15:10:12 · 13 answers · asked by frank zappa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-12 15:09:59 · 6 answers · asked by spunky 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I like my bf but just recently he cheated on me with my 11 y/o cuz and he is 15 almost 16 and he keeps pushing me to go farther with him even after I say no but we never do he just keeps begging thats all. And my friend, he is 18 will be 19 not to long from now and he kissed me Wednesday at church. I have liked him for quite a while and he told me that I should break up with my bf b/c of what he did. I also need help to decide what to get them both for V-Day. Any ideas? Well, you see that 18 y/o one has always been there for me when I have needed a friend and he has even helped me through a really rough time in my life losing one of my best friends ever. He called me at 1:00 a.m. when I asked him too and my bf doesn't even call me when he says he will or when I ask him to. So should I go for the older one? Please help me decide on which one and what to get them for V-Day! Thank you in advance!!

2007-02-12 15:09:47 · 7 answers · asked by picture_perfect 1 in Singles & Dating

My 14 year old sister has been talking about her boyfriend nonstop and her school gets off at 2:30 p.m at school but comes home at 4:00 p.m is this a good or bad thing.Because shes always been so nice but now shes being so secretive and doesn't tell anyone anything.With what i know about him I don't think shes safe with him what do you think?what should i do?do i leave it alone?do i do something?Can somebody tell me what I am supposed to do?

2007-02-12 15:09:46 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family