my lil sister gets all the attention from guys. im jealous... help?

Question

Like I said, my little sister is prettier than me and she's a blonde. (for some reason guys like blondes more than brunettes)
Anyways, she gets all the guys that I want. And guys always pay attention to her. I'm jealous of it. what should I do?

Answer 1

i kind of felt that way too , cause my sister looks thinner than me, i mean were both good looking but she is way skinnier, well i dont like to get skinny just so men could like me so i dont think of that . but for you just remember this " she is your sister, your blood" she is way more important than those guys that you like but dont pay attention to you" why the heck would you even want someone who also has the hots for your sister" and is not completely in to you
its normal to feel jealous alright, but your her sister, what you should be thinking right now is how to protect her from all those men who could only break her heart, your older,just tell her to choose wisely, i know its really hard if you really like to be noticed and youre not the center of attention, but be mature and face that not all types of men would prefer you, the right man and the better man for you has not arrived yet, the man who would fall head over heels only for you and would not even consider dating your little sister

for now think mature, be mature and guide your sister, leave those shallow men alone, if all they can see is blonde, then they are all about the physical, id rather want men who want me because they see something more to me rather than my hair, butt or breast

Answer 2

I have that same problem... like I recently went to a party and everyone was checking her out. I wouldn't say that I'm ugly but compared to her: She's tan, blonde, got a great body. And she's only like 15 years old. And I have dark brown hair, light skinned, and have an OK body. I'm 17 years old, and guys like her way more than me. It's really not fair. >.< I guess sometimes thing don't work out for us, older siblings huh. I guess people expect us to be taller or older looking. Think of the bright side at least we'll look less aged than them lol... It gets better! :)

Answer 3

Trust me when I say, I have been in the same boat as you! Are any of these said "interested" guys that talk to your sister really worth it? And do they stick around?

I don't know how old you are, but if a guy is only interested in talking to you because of how you look, they are not worth your breath in a response.

There really isn't anything that you can do. Just let it pass and soon the boys will be trying to talk to you....really.....*trust* me on this. I know. :)