14 year old sister?

Question

My 14 year old sister has been talking about her boyfriend nonstop and her school gets off at 2:30 p.m at school but comes home at 4:00 p.m is this a good or bad thing.Because shes always been so nice but now shes being so secretive and doesn't tell anyone anything.With what i know about him I don't think shes safe with him what do you think?what should i do?do i leave it alone?do i do something?Can somebody tell me what I am supposed to do?

Answer 1

I was in a similar situation with my 15 year old sister...but I got to her when she was younger, so she knows about STD's and what to expect from guys her age..Now I often hear her say " you were soo right about guys!" Every now and then I just give her the same talk, to respect herself, and that it's okay to say no to guys even if you'll be labelled as stuck up. I tried so hard to be a positive teen, now it's works out great for my younger sister having a positive role model. I worry sometimes that I'm too strict with her, but she knows its for her own good. She's completely honest with me so much that she's given me her passwords to her messenger, occasionally I'll check it out and make sure the perverts aren't on there. Just let your sister know that she can talk to you about anything. They assume that because we're older we don't know anything, so often times I'll tell her a few of my stories or incidents from when I was her age, so that she knows that I know what I'm talking about. I don't trust my sisters boyfriend, but I told him and her that if he ever hurts her I'd kick his *** =) anything to protect my baby sister. Just trust her, and be honest with her, tell her that you worry, remind her that you were once 14, everything should be okay, eventually she'll come to you for advice

Good Luck
-.-'

Answer 2

Let us 14 year olds be 14 year olds. Try talking to her about what is going on if you feel she is doing bad stuff

Answer 3

You are suppose to discuss it with her parents. And you are suppose to talk with her about the facts of "boyfriends" and how she needs to get smart in school or by high school she will only be able to choose from the loser - but exciting - guys. All you girls know the score, why do you try to be liked by every girlfriend or sister or whoever. Help someone once in a while.