Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

the thing is i met my first boyfriend when he saw me somewhere, he fell in love and we became an item.but i get to know my ex boyfriend through the telephone when he keeps calling me eventhough he has never met before at that time. (he is a friend of my elder sister). i have known him for almost 4 years.my boyfriend of 3 years is the one i have always loved no matter how bad he treated me sometimes. the ex boyfriend is the one i would always remember because he likes me because of the inner me and not just about my looks.
now i missed him and the times we use to have when we were friends.once i became his girlfriend, i just argue a lot with him to the point that we stopped talking to each other.
its been 6 months since i broke up with my ex and i kept having dreams about him.
i found out from a friend of mine that he is trying to find my number.
the worse part is i am still dating my current boyfriend and we love each other very much. what would you do?
i think i love both?????

2007-02-12 14:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by simarvld 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Canada, hes got another kid who he pays support to at $200, now hes got one with me and wants to pay $200. We live in different provinces so I have her all the time, and I dont know if I should be going after more or not. He makes about $3000-$4000 a month

2007-02-12 14:40:35 · 6 answers · asked by Candy C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

So, im in middle school and - how should i say this - im not exactly popular. I have friends, but out of that group almost noone knows me. I am a straight A student, trying to be nice to everyone but noone pays attention to me. i'm kinda poor so i cant afford grerat clothes and perfume, my parents don't let me make-up and i dont have a boyfriend. Got any tips for me? I need more friends! And im willing to do anything about it!

2007-02-12 14:40:31 · 5 answers · asked by __ 2 in Friends

I like this boy at school and i've told many different people i trust and i hear all of them say he like me back but...idk because im not that pretty but he seems to like me but idk should i aproach him, like go to his house because he's my friend's younger brother,say it to him at school with no one around,or just wait 'til he says it himself?Please give me some advice.

2007-02-12 14:40:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently told my fiance that we could have other women join in for fun sex .Do you think that's a good decision or is it a bad decison.I want real feed back please.

2007-02-12 14:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by keunnjr 1 in Singles & Dating

i think i love my teacher. he is smart funny nice sweet witty...etc. he is also the football coach and he tapes my ankles 4 basketball games and he flirts. its not just my imagination he really flirts.

2007-02-12 14:40:01 · 11 answers · asked by rocker_chick 4 in Singles & Dating

So there's this guy I like and I visit his Myspace like once a day. It's not like it's the first thing I do in the morning or anything juss when I really can't think of anything else to do. I have briefly talk to him and ppl know that I like him. Am I a stalker?

This has been going on for like a couple weeks, but not EVERY single day.

2007-02-12 14:39:53 · 7 answers · asked by C-baby 1 in Singles & Dating

My girl says that she searched looking for my name in this public marrige records for the county and she found my moms marrige date and brides and grooms name and i don't know if this is cool or not she says there public so should i have a problem with this

PLEASE HELP

2007-02-12 14:38:50 · 12 answers · asked by The Wired Computer Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

ima gurl hesa pretty hot guy!!!!!!!! and its stupid hes the kind of macho, nothin will make me cry sort of guy!!

2007-02-12 14:38:36 · 4 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Friends

my dad can't do much around the house, I dont want to skip out on them what should I do??

2007-02-12 14:37:58 · 9 answers · asked by ANDREW B 2 in Family

soa ya....
theres this guy. i met him this school year coz we have a math class together.
after he helped me with some things after school a couple of times. we walked home together too and we had the best time together.
after a while he told me he liked me and i told him that i liked him too. one time he asked me to go to this church dance with him (hes mormon) and i said i might go but i ended up not going coz my dad was DJing it and i knew it would have made me uncomfortable to dance with my dad watching. well we still talk at school and theres still this something between us but he never asked me out again and we never even hung out or anything. i still like him so much but i think hes over me. its so hard to forget about him because i see him every day at school....help?

2007-02-12 14:37:45 · 8 answers · asked by dang-duh! 2 in Singles & Dating

A few years ago me and my girlfriend broke up, which was my first love. We had everything first loves had and more. Supposedly, we were made for one another. We broke up during college.

Fast forward to a few years later. We don't speak anymore because I didnt make time to call her when she needed me when I was going through my mom's cancer period. It's been almost 2 years since that. I have tried multiple times of calling and emailing with no avail.

I really miss her, and I would love to try to rekindle what we had.

What should I do?

2007-02-12 14:37:42 · 7 answers · asked by MrPodpechan 1 in Singles & Dating

My son is 16 yrs old and our neighbor is a divorced woman in her late 30s. I just caught them on the act yesterday, when they weren't expecting me. What should I do?

2007-02-12 14:36:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

13-year girl doesnt not want to see her dad, who just got out of prison, but he is forcing her into seeing him, he has weekend visitation before prison, he is behind 13,000 in child support, she doesnt want to see him. any thoughts

2007-02-12 14:36:16 · 32 answers · asked by smackdown50501 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We used to be friends but now he thinks that everyone is inferior to him. He drives me nuts sometimes and takes advantage of people. How should i deal with this guy?

2007-02-12 14:36:14 · 5 answers · asked by sandman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-12 14:35:50 · 1 answers · asked by gotabedifferent 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 14:35:39 · 17 answers · asked by Nikki 1 in Friends

I don't want to ask him out because I am shy???????????? Help

2007-02-12 14:35:31 · 8 answers · asked by goldy_lox_rox 1 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for almost 2 years, but we've known each other for almost 5. He is getting an apartment, and he says because I don't pay the bill, I don't get a key. But if I was in his position I would give him a key. I don't know... I feel kind of hurt, because it's not like we're in a casual relationship, we're in it for the long hall (supposedly)

2007-02-12 14:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by Chenielle 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 14:35:02 · 2 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

Well im just wondering if I should give this girl I know and like flowers. The thing is though the girl I like might have a boyfriend so Im not queit sure but I dont think she does. If she does have a boyfriend and I give her flowers without knowing she has a boyfriend do you think she might think im wierd for just giving her flowers.

2007-02-12 14:34:28 · 30 answers · asked by Simmons 1 in Singles & Dating

I have always had trouble talking to people. When I enter a group discussion with somebody outside of class, I feel really awkward. I often run out of things to say to people and I assume that they see me as a snob or wierd. I try to set things up with other people but they don't seem to want to do things with me. Comming up with some excuse or something which makes me think that they don't like me. People that I talk to will ask others if they want to do something and go out with them however, they never ask me. When people do that I think that they are not interested. I NEED HELP!

2007-02-12 14:34:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Yeah Im a very outgoing , smart , comedical and generous guy im a gentlemen. Im very friendly but seems like people are turned off by that or something. They proceed to think Im "weird" or whatever its called in todays society. Im in college , and I thought college would be an ideal place to meet people. So I dunno I just thought id put it out there for every one and see what other people think.

Thanks in advance for all comments.

2007-02-12 14:33:31 · 1 answers · asked by Q Ross 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 21 now and since I was 19, my father has been trying to reconnect with me periodically. However, he also yells at me, sometimes for no reason. But I feel like (a) it's a charade b/c he doesn't like me and (b) it was too late at 18 when he ruined my high school graduation. I also feel as though I don't need him and I may have never needed him.

2007-02-12 14:33:26 · 8 answers · asked by harpylady85 4 in Family

Just really curious. I thought they went for that big booty look.

2007-02-12 14:33:21 · 3 answers · asked by Mara D 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 14:33:00 · 6 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 13 and i've liked this guy thats 3 years older then me for 4 years. we've been friends for 2 years now. but he knows i like him and i know he doesn't like me. (we;ve talked about it.) but resently, i told him the bad things i've done. and i lied to him meny times in one of our fights and later started another fight by comfessing my lies. now he says he doesn't trust me and doesn't want to have anything to do with me anymore. i know i did it and i regret it. so don't just tell me that i did it to myself and that i deserve it. anyway, now i feel like i've been broken up with, even though we wore never togeather. i even super cleaned my room, and i havent cleaned it before that in 7 months. all i do is lay on my bed and listen to music. why do i feel this way, how do i stop felling it, and how do i get him to trust me and be my friend again? i've asked him, but he only says he doesn't care. ( i'm not to young eather!)

2007-02-12 14:32:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

To be more specific, my wife and I have been seperated since Feb. of 2005, though we have not yet filed for divorce. Her and her new partner are expecting a child in a few months and I was trying to figure out if, because she is legally my wife, I would then become financially responsible for her child. She does not expect me to support her child, but I was wondering about the legallities of the situation.

2007-02-12 14:32:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I really like this one guy in my class! He is so cute! and smart and funny! Well, I dont think he likes me, but I want him to! We NEVER talk! He plays around with ALL the other girls BUT ME! And I know that he likes REALLY pretty girls and yea, i am pretty but I don't I'm the kinda pretty he wants and I'm just a little bit over wieght but not a lot. I don't think he would ever go out with a girl like that which means he would never go out with me.

He said that he wants a girl thats pretty, funny and smart. And if your answer to this is to just tell him my real feelings for him then dont bother cause I just can't do that! I did that once and things DID NOT work out! PLEASE HELP!

2007-02-12 14:32:51 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm really hot and sometimes i can't help but to talk about it and you guys are terrible the first u say is oh u must be dumb or stupid well what if i tell u i speak 5 languages? and... what if i tell u i volunteer all the time? and i counsil other people? and i've always been first in class? what will u say now? can't u see i'm just bragging? so many people brag about themselves i want u to be proud and stop whining and complaining and pay your respect; eventually you'll be paying to get into the movies to watch my movie. it's in different languages though you may not understand it but u'll love looking at it and from that u can tell what's going on. there's nothing wrong with me saying this but there is something wrong if u feel u have to respond something silly or rude then u know what u have to work on, otherwise you'll just go to the next question.

2007-02-12 14:32:14 · 3 answers · asked by la virgen 2 in Singles & Dating