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I recently told my fiance that we could have other women join in for fun sex .Do you think that's a good decision or is it a bad decison.I want real feed back please.

2007-02-12 14:40:09 · 14 answers · asked by keunnjr 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If everybody thats participating in the act is mature and ok with this decision, then I see no problem with it.

2007-02-12 14:43:53 · answer #1 · answered by gloried 3 · 0 1

If your relationship isn't so healthy, you need to either fix it or end it. Those are the only options that are fair to everyone involved. So, choose now, either commit yourself to making the effort to have a real relationship- with honesty, compromise, and respect- or let them move on. Realize that bringing any more people into an unsteady partnership will only complicate things and eventually destroy the relationship. Why would you think bringing in another person, who has feelings and problems of their own, would in any way improve what should be an intimate and special bond between two people? Fulfilling a fantasy like this should only be tackled with a lot of thought and when you two are standing on steady ground.

2007-02-12 14:47:26 · answer #2 · answered by KyLeth 4 · 0 0

It really isn't a good or bad decision, it is a matter of personal choice. The thing that you have to ask yourself is will your fiance' be happy watching you husband have sex with other women and is she secure enough in your relationship to not worry that you will like some other woman better than her after having sex with them. If you are confident that you will not like them better and she is not at all jealous of other women sleeping with you, then have fun.

2007-02-12 14:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0 0

If your fiance is an open and fun-loving girl, it's a good decision.

If she is someone who gets jealous even seeing an unfamiliar sms from a female in your mobile, you may get killed! Hahaha...

You should know her enough before you decide whether to be honest with her on this issue. : )

And how would you feel if she tells you she wants other men to join in for fun sex?

2007-02-12 14:45:51 · answer #4 · answered by Ashley 2 · 0 0

I think you are being a horn dog, be happy with your fiance, this is the women you wanted to be with for your life. I joke about threesomes etc, but I think it's more fun in your mind than what it really will be. Being physical with another women could be very devestating for your fiance.

2007-02-12 14:43:38 · answer #5 · answered by trigunmarksman 6 · 2 0

If you and your lady have a great sex relationship, why would you want to take the chance of messing that up. You never know what might happen if you bring in an outsider. You could really screw up your relationship forever!!!!

2007-02-12 14:45:06 · answer #6 · answered by iluvstrawberryshakes 2 · 0 0

Definitely good idea. You should be all over that if she's up to it.

All right....Seriously, do you think you will be more committed to her by being involved with others? Why are you looking outside of your relationship for "fun sex."

But, what do i know.

2007-02-12 14:44:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

If your fiance's okay with the idea, then there's no problem. Just make sure to pay more attention to HER than the other women.

2007-02-12 14:43:20 · answer #8 · answered by sarah 2 · 0 1

Bad decision. You might make other women pregnant.

2007-02-12 14:44:42 · answer #9 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0 0

You came to the right place. what a dumb Idea.what has sex got to do with a good relationship.you do not deserve the woman in your life.she needs a real man.

2007-02-12 14:47:59 · answer #10 · answered by miraclehand2020 5 · 0 0

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