Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

I've been with my boyfriend 3 years. Lately a few of my friends are talking about getting married, and with valentines day coming around.....well...I got to talking with my boyfriend about marriage, and he's flat out against getting married. He said the ceremony was a waste of time and money, and getting married legally doesn't change anything..so why get married?? Well I want a wedding, I'm kinda the traditional one in the relationship. I don't want a big one but I still want one.....The kicker is that a while back (maybe a year), he was telling me what kind of ring he was going to buy me, and what the ceremony would be like and who would be invited....So I want to know...WHY the change in heart??? And WHAT do I do about it?? He said he loves me and wants to be with me forever, so WHAT gives????

2007-02-12 14:22:43 · 13 answers · asked by Princess 3 in Marriage & Divorce

you in the driver's seat? in the back seat? in the trunk? on the roof? under the front wheels? other?

2007-02-12 14:22:08 · 9 answers · asked by lowroad 2 in Singles & Dating

Well see, I had this situation that caused my mom not to trust me anymore but i dont know why. she said i lied to her for not telling her about how i really get to and from school. and i tried everything to earned her trust back but some of the thing aren't really working. so i kinda in a bind and looking for help. becuase i like begin trusted.

2007-02-12 14:21:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

so yeah, i've known ever since we've been together that my girlfriend is no dime .. in fact I would describe her as a fat-and-fugly FIVE, but it dont matter cause i dont go out with her in public and she craves the "D" like a crack addict craves a hit. But yeah, lately my girls face has been looking greasier than a grilled cheese sandwich, and it is really starting to bother me. It feels like it should squeegie her face and use the grease as cooking oil, ya know, make the stuff usefull. Anyway, does anyone have any advice?

2007-02-12 14:21:20 · 20 answers · asked by AndrewT.LEYKIS101 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey, I'm a freshman in college and I recently fell head over heels for my ex-girlfriends best friend. I have spent the last month getting my ex ok with the idea so shes not a problem in that aspect. However, my ex says I don't stand a chance partially due to the fact that she bad mouthed me a lot during our break up. So anyways I am currently trying to prove to my ex-girlfriends friend that I am a decent guy and worth going out with. This is a problem to some extent because I don't see her very often, I'm not very good with conversation, and this chick makes me nervous. So basically I am in a pickle.... I like a chick that is friend of my ex, she doesn't seem to have any feelings for me at this time, and I lack the conversational skills to change her image of me. Any advice? ......please?

2007-02-12 14:20:34 · 4 answers · asked by popo 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 14:20:29 · 10 answers · asked by Francaise 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I found out that my boyfriend has had a personals page that says has been active within 24hours. He said that he hasn't gone onto the site for years, but that he checks his yahoo EMAIL daily and that is why it says ''active within 24 hours" on his personals page. I think he is lying, but is this possible?

2007-02-12 14:19:47 · 17 answers · asked by Ria 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I don't know what to do I've tryed to move on.... I went out with other people but I feel real bad... HELP

2007-02-12 14:19:45 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has asked her, they have talked about it, she knows he's interested, she used to really enjoy it. Now, for the last 6 or more months she has refused. She is not cheating, she claims she loves him, but that life is so stressful, she's too tired. He's the one who works 2 jobs to keep up with her shopping habit, she takes care of their one child.
Now, he has an opporunity to sleep with someone who is also married and has a bad sex life, too. The other woman knows his situation and wants the same as he does, and doesn't want to harm his family or hers. He loves his wife, he loves his child, he's so torn about what to do. He's also only been married just over a year. A lifetime without ever having sex again seems like a long time.

2007-02-12 14:19:43 · 24 answers · asked by meh 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I really really really like this guy!!!!!!!!?
I have liked this guy for a long time. We don't talk much but he is very sweet, cute, and nice. Whenever we talk it is casual, and I know that he used to like me, but I am pretty sure he doesn't now. My friend mentioned to me a couple of months ago that he randomly mentioned me to her on the bus and asked her whether or not I liked him. She told him I used to but now she wasn't sure. I told her I still liked him and then she told him and she said he seemed pleased but she wasn't positive. Whenever we talk it is about random things. We do have a lot in common, so how do I use that to my advantage? We don't have any classes together, so I can only talk to him before school and during lunch and we sit faraway from each other. What should I do? I am 14 years old, in 8th grade, and have liked him since 5th grade. We were really good friends. He said I was someone he could always talk to and that I was a good listener.He said this when I was li

2007-02-12 14:19:42 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Personally, I love massages better

2007-02-12 14:19:17 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its a long distance sort of thing..but we've been together for over a year... and we both love eachother mucho mucho...... but ever since he got the xbox 360..he plays it 24/7. even when he's on the phone with me.. and it irritates the hell out of me.. it would be ok if he could hold a convo & play at the same time..but its not like that.. and he acts differently around his friends.... what do ya'll think about this?

2007-02-12 14:18:47 · 15 answers · asked by lolomgwtf 3 in Singles & Dating

my son is 19 months i feel as if im struggling taking care of our son alone for the past 2 years, with his father being in the military and all . I feel as if i am being pulled in two different directions, i miss my husband, and trying to care for our son, not to metion i took up an extra shift a work so that i wouldn't sit at home and think about when my husband was coming home. Then i worry if im a good mother to my son what should i do? Please help......

2007-02-12 14:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by tray_trevon 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean wen ur some one's valentine????????????

2007-02-12 14:18:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok there this boy that goes to my school that looks soooo good but he has a girl. He still flirts w/ me though and came in my house to use the bathroom today and asked if I wanted to do it. I did but I told him naw I couldnt. Me and some friends(him included) are going to meet up at the movies friday. Would it be wrong to make-out with him in the movies? Hes soooo sexy

2007-02-12 14:18:09 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My first best friend, after 6 years of being friends, we don't talk no more. I just didn't like the fact that "Whatever she said was the right thing to do or say but whatever someone else says it's wrong."

My second best friend, I have been friends with her for 7 years. But these days, I don't trust her because in high school, she talked behind my back ones and I never forgot about that.

My third best friend, I just didn't like the fact that she smiled at people and be nice, But behind their back she would talk about them.


Is the reason why I don't have best friend is it because of me?

2007-02-12 14:17:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There are these two guys in my physiology class (I am a junior in college). They keep staring at me in general, and then laughing and whispering. I'm becoming very uncomfortable as I'm wondering what the reasons might be for such funny behavior? I mean, is there something on my face? Everyone I've talked to says that I should ignore them...and I am doing that. What do you guys think?

2007-02-12 14:16:15 · 16 answers · asked by biologyqueen 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

the girl you like sooo much made out with you and told you she liked you..then went out with someone else just 2 weeks later?...that just happened to me..it hurt!if i would have told her how i felt it would have made a big difference... thats what she told me....ugh..after she did that i seriously wanted to get over her cuz i couldnt stand it. but in the end i keep coming back to her cuz i love her to much. i dont know what to do...

2007-02-12 14:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was just curious what i could as a wedding favor without breaking the bank, yet people will still enjoy it..

2007-02-12 14:15:52 · 18 answers · asked by Breanna's Mommy 2 in Weddings

I have this serious problem about approaching boys and talking to them. well but when i'm on aim or something, i can totally talk to them and make friends with them you know? so i talked to this guy to make friends like an year ago and we became pretty close . online i mean. but when we met each other at school i got shy and said hi and walked away. from then on, he would say hi to me when we saw each other but i just got shy and so our relationship just got really weird and awkward! so we no longer even say hi to each other anymore! but i really like him now. what should i do? please help im desperate

2007-02-12 14:15:31 · 5 answers · asked by Lilo 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend or have never been kissed. My friend also is the same way but everybody makes fun of her and calls her a lesbian. Is this true because most people don't have their first bf/gf until they are like 16....right?

2007-02-12 14:14:43 · 28 answers · asked by ~ ♥ ~ 2 in Singles & Dating

Let's say there are 100 young women, aged 18-25, and all of them are single as in "not married" but all 100 have boyfriends.

If all 100 were approached by a reasonably good-looking guy asking for their telephone number, how many of them would give it out? I'm curious to hear how people will answer this question. What do you think?

2007-02-12 14:14:36 · 12 answers · asked by jimmyd 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, i like my ex-bfs cousin but i don't know how to get the attention of him.
-Here are some facts we are the same age but we only text and e-mail each other.
-We know each other for about 1 year i guess.
-Another thing is that one time he told me that he will like me like a friend only.
- He is a skater, kool, nice and cute
- We live like about 10-25 miles away from each other.
-We go to different school
- Yesterday i asked him for an opinion that was what color should i paint my highlights and he told me red and i did that. I don't know what do no more.
-I really like him
-We don't have no one for this Valentine's Day (this will be the first year)

P.S HE IS NOT GOING OUT WITH SOME ONE.

2007-02-12 14:13:54 · 4 answers · asked by clau_kool_lovely 2 in Singles & Dating

I make friends easily and that haas always been a skill of mine. But whenever it comes to keeping them, I suck. I get attached to friends and once we get close I feel uncomfortable and uneasy. This is the same with guys, I dont like emotions and I think lovey dovey stuff is totally unnecessary. Can anyone help me get close to friends without freaking out?

2007-02-12 14:13:43 · 5 answers · asked by Emily C 1 in Friends

That question should really be, "When should I tell her," because it seems that there is always somebody walking with her. I really don't want to ask her out when she has somebody with her. So, how do I tell her that I like her? By the way, I'm a freshman in high school.

2007-02-12 14:13:15 · 5 answers · asked by Darius 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 14:13:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not that I'm jealous cuz I like a guy with blonde and blue eyes. Do they just really stand out in the crowd.. or?

2007-02-12 14:12:43 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey folks, I'm a grad student here in the midwest, and it's my first year. I'm working with another grad student, a guy, in his fourth year, who's almost done with his PhD work. He's pretty much been a colleague and mentor over the past few months since September. He's really cute, and I've developed a crush on him. Here's the thing: I'm a guy too. I know he's gay (for sure -- long story), and I'm just starting to come out. Should I tell him about my crush and ask him out? He doesn't know I'm gay (or that I might be...)

2007-02-12 14:12:37 · 3 answers · asked by euges116 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

It's been about 5 months since I broke up with the woman I thought was the love of my life. But, she has had a long and crazy life, and near the end of our relationship starting doing more and more drugs and I just couldn't handle it any more, since I was struggling myself. As I was leaving she was screaming how much she hated me and hoped she never saw me again. We've stayed in touch to a degree, talking about once every 2 weeks, but today she called me apologizing about what she had said, and basically confessed her undying love for me. She plans to go to rehab within a week. but I can't help but worry that she is trying to get back together with me simply because I'm a stable, simple guy she can be safe with. Am I being too cynical or am I correct in worrying about her motivations?

2007-02-12 14:12:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My life partner want to do something that i have never really agreed about, after anal sex, he wants to feltch the sperm out of my rectum, I have a moral stand point and a very strong conviction that eating sperm is canabalism, can some please help me out with this matter

2007-02-12 14:12:04 · 8 answers · asked by K S 2 in Other - Family & Relationships