the girl you like sooo much made out with you and told you she liked you..then went out with someone else just 2 weeks later?...that just happened to me..it hurt!if i would have told her how i felt it would have made a big difference... thats what she told me....ugh..after she did that i seriously wanted to get over her cuz i couldnt stand it. but in the end i keep coming back to her cuz i love her to much. i dont know what to do...
2007-02-12 14:16:06 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im not in luv wit her but i do luv her alot! she told me she really does like me. but she just went out with him and she cant just break up with him cuz he hasnt done anything to her!
2007-02-12 14:29:40 · update #1
Okay...first of all, it is impossible for you to be in love with her just because you made out with her once. Let it go. Learn from the experience. Next time you are dating a girl and realize you are beginning to have feelings for her, be honest. Communicate how you're feeling. If she has any feelings for you, she'll appreciate your honesty.
2007-02-12 14:22:20 · answer #1 · answered by moonsmamma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, man i have been there done that....this isn't going to be an easy road for you if you truely love her that much...your going to have to strong and hang through a lot of crap. First you need to let her know exactly how you feel and tell her that you even had feelings for her too back then but you just didn't know how to come about telling her. Now you need to find out if she still has any feelings for you...She probley does you just got to find the right way to open them up again. Try to just be friends for now...let her know you are there for her always and that you understand why she went out with another guy and that doesn't change anything. So what we all make rash descions in are life. He's just another man...and he should understand whats going on and peacefully leave. Also you show her that you are willing to fight for her...i don't mean to go beat up the dude or anything but let her know that i am not just going to give up on you! i have feelings for you, and that will never change. If she comes back to you, then Kudos my friend for you made a accomplishment that many men have failded to do (myself included). If not, well then you have just learned a very hard lesson that many people have learned in life...You just have to move on with your life and let her go. DON'T forget this!!! let this be your lesson in life that YOU MUST let people know how you feel before its too late. Trust me, i know. You only get one chance at live...Soo make the best of it. I hope this helps and wish you luck. If you need anymore advice, please feel free to email me at anytime. i am always trying to make new friends.
2007-02-12 14:32:33 · answer #2 · answered by scorch572004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the girl just wanted to drive you nuts, that's what. if i would have told her how i felt it would have made a big difference - NO - at least not in the way you want it to be - it will only boost her big ego. she actually wants you where you are right now - crazed, feeling foolish, and wanting more. dont give in bro - it's not worth it. some girls just aren't worth it, and she's one.
and dude.. you love her so much? that's ok bro.. i admire you for being honest.. it makes things harder, but tell me, is it worth it? is she worth crying for? do you really, honestly want to love someone who doesn't give a s**t about how you feel? i don't think so. don't go nuts man, put some logic in what you feel. you'll be alright
2007-02-12 14:26:52 · answer #3 · answered by J.P. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course if i were u i will be hurt. i guess u just love her too much that the reason why u keep coming back to her is due to the fact that u disregarded her mistake. its up to u whether u want to start all over again with her ..try to talk to her to find out her true feelings.
2007-02-12 14:20:33 · answer #4 · answered by bunbananabun 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to straight up tell her that you have feelings for her and that you didn't appreciate her going out with some one else after she told you she liked you! If she really likes you she wouldn't have went out with some one else... unless she was making you jealous but she already told you she liked you so thers no piont of making you jealous. HOPE I HELPED!!!
2007-02-12 14:21:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, Bra, but you just learned a hard life lesson - take what you learned and move on - it's pointless to keep going back to her!
Just don't make the same mistake again!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2007-02-12 14:20:53 · answer #6 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your best to move on. Do you really want to be with someone who makes out with people without feeling? If she really cared for you as a person and boyfriend, she would be with you and ONLY you
2007-02-12 14:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by Duchess20 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just learned a big lesson. When they say "tell me what your thinking", you should. Stop hiding your emotions from them. They really love honesty, just like you.
2007-02-12 14:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by GoodGuy53 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe she didn't feel the same about u and just told u that maybe u should move on or if she is single Agana then go for it because then it could be to late
2007-02-12 14:22:57 · answer #9 · answered by sweets 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she didn't really like the guy she went out with
maybe she was just giving him a chance
2007-02-12 14:19:09 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Selena♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋