its a long distance sort of thing..but we've been together for over a year... and we both love eachother mucho mucho...... but ever since he got the xbox 360..he plays it 24/7. even when he's on the phone with me.. and it irritates the hell out of me.. it would be ok if he could hold a convo & play at the same time..but its not like that.. and he acts differently around his friends.... what do ya'll think about this?
2007-02-12 14:18:47 · 15 answers · asked by lolomgwtf 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok..he's 19 btw
2007-02-12 14:29:32 · update #1
let him know that it upsets you when he plays the game while the two of you are conversing, and let him know that he treats/acts different towards you when he is around his friends. if he still acts the same maybe he doesn't love you as much as he claims. hate to say it that way but any man that can't put down the controller to talk to his girlfriend isn't worth it.
2007-02-12 14:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by Stacey Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeppers.........that xbox 360 is addictive to guys. They do love to play their 'games" 24/7! I would just say to him next time you're on the phone and he's not paying attention......Can you either put the game down pls and devote some time to talking with me since this is long distance ......or say....why don't you call me back when you have some quality time for "me" and not your game. You said he acts differently around his friends......all guys do. What do YOU think about it , should be the question. If you're not liking how things are goin with this long distance relationship...then only YOU can change that*~ you need to seriously think if this is all worth it......or not*~
GOODLUCK*
2007-02-12 22:25:14 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody's a little different when their mind is in a video game, or around friends, don't take it too personally. Just bring it up in everyday conversation and let him know that you want him to pay more attention to you, rather than ignoring you all the time! He's a guy, so he'll understand.
2007-02-12 22:22:44 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♫!♫♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for five years and my husband is still in love with his x-box. It's all men. Just ask him to not play while your on the phone with him.
2007-02-12 22:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by dolphinnut798 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its time to exchange the xbox for a wii. with wii, couples can play together and not be soaked into one game for prolonged hours.
2007-02-12 22:22:36 · answer #5 · answered by Donkey Kong Country 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like the boy has lost interest.
2007-02-12 22:22:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lynn 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him to please not play the xbox on the phone cause it annoys you and most guys act different around their friends but just talk to him about it just dont force him
2007-02-12 22:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Heya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love over many miles doesn't last. He has come to understand this. You haven't.
2007-02-12 22:21:47 · answer #8 · answered by robertspraguejr 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you've come across an addiction of your bf's. Help him. Only people close to him can help him. You'll be glad you did.
2007-02-12 22:21:35 · answer #9 · answered by Produh G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be easier if you mentions the ages involved. Cause he if is is suppose to be an adult it seems no one has advised him of it.
2007-02-12 22:22:35 · answer #10 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋