Well see, I had this situation that caused my mom not to trust me anymore but i dont know why. she said i lied to her for not telling her about how i really get to and from school. and i tried everything to earned her trust back but some of the thing aren't really working. so i kinda in a bind and looking for help. becuase i like begin trusted.
2007-02-12 14:21:43 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Well I had a similar problem with my son but when I accused him I caught him in a lie. Only I don't think he thought he was lying, yet he was, I thought he was riding the bus and found out he wasn't, then when i caught him getting into a car and asked him about it he said he only rode with this person once I told him he was lying but he argued with me about it. Then I asked when he quit riding the bus, I would go ask the driver. He did not want me to do that I knew somthing was up. He finally addmitted to riding with other people. I told him it was a lie of omission He may have only rode with that person once but he was getting into cars with people that I had never met or knew of. As a parent I need to know where my child is and who he is with. I had never told him he couldn't ride with other people just that I wanted to know who he was with. If you are a child of Gods then you know what is expected of you. I have finally started to trust my son again but all it will take is for me to catch him lying again to blow it all over again. Read my sources. I hope it helps I will pray for you and your mom to work it out.
2007-02-14 02:19:11 · answer #1 · answered by Mary B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem once. You have to gain back her trust over time. Prove to her that you are responsible and she will begin to trust you again. Get good grades, have a good attitude around her, etc. But telling the truth is the first step to getting your mom to trust you again. You have to be completely honest with her whenever you're telling her you're going somewhere or doing something. Over time, she'll begin to trust you again.
2007-02-12 14:46:07 · answer #2 · answered by i love love 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It isn't going to happen quickly. It will take time to rebuild trust again. My mom used to say, "Actions speak louder than words.". She wants to watch what you do for awhile...those things that she sees will be the proof that she can trust you again.
2007-02-12 14:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by Gary D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the proof is in the pudding.it takes time to earn trust from someone,especially if its been broken/breached before.it takes only time to re-prove your trust worthiness,again!
2007-02-12 14:32:57 · answer #4 · answered by dicky d 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
u should just tell her how u feel and tell her to give u a chanse
2007-02-12 14:35:11 · answer #5 · answered by sweets 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would have given you a good answer but LOOK AT UR FRICKIN NAME!
2007-02-12 14:29:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
not much you can do sorry
2007-02-12 14:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by uneedhelp20 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋