i'm 13 and i've liked this guy thats 3 years older then me for 4 years. we've been friends for 2 years now. but he knows i like him and i know he doesn't like me. (we;ve talked about it.) but resently, i told him the bad things i've done. and i lied to him meny times in one of our fights and later started another fight by comfessing my lies. now he says he doesn't trust me and doesn't want to have anything to do with me anymore. i know i did it and i regret it. so don't just tell me that i did it to myself and that i deserve it. anyway, now i feel like i've been broken up with, even though we wore never togeather. i even super cleaned my room, and i havent cleaned it before that in 7 months. all i do is lay on my bed and listen to music. why do i feel this way, how do i stop felling it, and how do i get him to trust me and be my friend again? i've asked him, but he only says he doesn't care. ( i'm not to young eather!)
2007-02-12 14:32:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
there are ppl called therapists in this world. They help.
2007-02-12 14:35:31 · answer #1 · answered by Produh G 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not to young to have a friend. You are feeling bad because you have lost a good friend and that can hurt worse than being broken up with. You probably feel guilty for lying to a friend. Try to occupy yourself with your other friends and give him a little time to calm down then try to talk to him again. In the mean time do not play any of those stupid games of being mean to him or talking bad about him as that will do a lot more damage. It will take time for him to trust you again so give him that time and smile and be nice when you see him even if he is mean to you for now.After a while if he is still mean to you then write him off. If he can't get over it with time then he is not that good of friend.
2007-02-12 22:43:44 · answer #2 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just as with any relationship.. if you break the trust then there has to be time to heal the hurt. Just don't do it again and be sure to be honest in the future and keep being his friend. Prove to him that you learned from your mistake by moving on and doing the right thing. In time, he will see that and he can finally let go of the anger and trust you again.
2007-02-12 22:40:11 · answer #3 · answered by riptidesareblue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lie, it is hard to gain the trust again, it takes time, and he may not be willing to take the time for you!!
2007-02-12 22:57:11 · answer #4 · answered by rae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apologize and move on.
only time can amend it, you need new friend and never ever repeat the mistake again, after time passes, he thinks of you again, you two will be well.
2007-02-12 23:02:22 · answer #5 · answered by Caring Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋