I like this boy at school and i've told many different people i trust and i hear all of them say he like me back but...idk because im not that pretty but he seems to like me but idk should i aproach him, like go to his house because he's my friend's younger brother,say it to him at school with no one around,or just wait 'til he says it himself?Please give me some advice.
2007-02-12 14:40:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you need to worry about your self esteem before you worry about some guy. Saying "you're not that pretty" is like saying "I'm not really good enough for him" if you believe that, you're never going to have a happy relationship. Self esteem is an attractive characteristic in a person.
2007-02-12 14:46:11 · answer #1 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could try talking to some of his friends if you are comfortable with it. Ask them if they know of anybody he likes. Get to know them really well and you may also get to know him well. Flirt with him! I wouldn't reccommend going right up to him and telling him you like him. That can scare guys off! It's happened to me before. lol Flirting is a great indirect way to let guys know you are interested...and if he likes you back, trust me, you'll probably know it! One other thing...if he likes you, he likes you for you and he obviously thinks you're pretty! If he's not crushing on you too, then there will be a guy out there for you! And he'll think you are beautiful.
2007-02-12 22:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by carebearnmbr46 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First know the meaning of "pretty". A pretty women is only one who can keep a guy happy in all terms. If you have a good wave length then you are pretty else you are not. And its he to decide whether you are pretty women for him or not as you decided he is perfect man for you.
Aishwarya is pretty for Abhishek but i dont find her pretty at all but on the other hand my girlfriend who is very ordinary looking is the prettiest women for me because i feel relaxed in her arms and i love her company for lifetime.
If you want to approach him.... pls dont delay. Give him clues with cunning smiles or full emotions with a smooth touch.
2007-02-12 23:45:29 · answer #3 · answered by Pankaj B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a good guy to me.. but you know him better. Don't give too much importance to your beauty or lack of it. When someone love you he will love you as you are. We are all loved sooner or later for what we are. Remeber probably in your eyes what you have got is not enough, but if you see yourself through the eyes of others you may have got more than lot of others around you. Be confident of yourself, go and talk to him, good luck and may you be blessed...
2007-02-12 22:47:05 · answer #4 · answered by sha m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don't ever say that you aren't pretty. you have to love yourself befor you can even allow someone to love you back. i say start looking in the mirror every morning being like man, i'm hott who wouldn't want this. when guys see that you have the type of attitude they'll want you.
2007-02-12 22:46:53 · answer #5 · answered by watermelon11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear! please don't tell us that u r not pretty because love never prefer physical beauty it only see heart's beauty. and if u want to back ur love in ur life then make him realize tht u r only the one for him. first make urself famous in ur friends then ur friends will do remain work for u to attract him to u. and this is valentine season don't spoil ur val;entine for anyone tht doesn't love u or care for u..
2007-02-12 23:13:25 · answer #6 · answered by indi-baby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he does like try to get to know him better before making a judgement on your looks. Maybe he thinks you're attractive, you never know
2007-02-12 22:47:07 · answer #7 · answered by Rocky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEAR FRIEND DON,T TELL ME GIRLS ARE ALWAYS PRETTY THEY ARE BORN WITH IT . MY FRIEND LOVES A GIRL WHO IS VERY UGLY,DARK AND HAVE SPECTACLES AND ALSO SHE IS FAT HE JUST LOVES HIS INNER BEAUTY THE WAY OF TAKING, PERSONALITY .WE ONCE LAUGH AT HIM ONE TIME BUT NOW WE HAVE GROWN UP AND KNOW THAT ONLY HE HAS THE MOST RELIABLE GIRL FRIEND IN OUR CIRCLE .
2007-02-12 23:47:53 · answer #8 · answered by AaSHEK 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell the boy that u love him take him to date
2007-02-12 22:53:46 · answer #9 · answered by lucky 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is only skin deep-reveal to him your inner beauty.
2007-02-12 23:10:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋