the thing is i met my first boyfriend when he saw me somewhere, he fell in love and we became an item.but i get to know my ex boyfriend through the telephone when he keeps calling me eventhough he has never met before at that time. (he is a friend of my elder sister). i have known him for almost 4 years.my boyfriend of 3 years is the one i have always loved no matter how bad he treated me sometimes. the ex boyfriend is the one i would always remember because he likes me because of the inner me and not just about my looks.
now i missed him and the times we use to have when we were friends.once i became his girlfriend, i just argue a lot with him to the point that we stopped talking to each other.
its been 6 months since i broke up with my ex and i kept having dreams about him.
i found out from a friend of mine that he is trying to find my number.
the worse part is i am still dating my current boyfriend and we love each other very much. what would you do?
i think i love both?????
2007-02-12 14:41:19 · 8 answers · asked by simarvld 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not going after anyone.
my sister is married.
this is a God's test to me and i am trying very hard to solve it.
when it comes to the matters of the heart,
you are just torned.
maybe i should just breathe in this situation and just ponder.
sigh
2007-02-12 15:34:45 · update #1
umm i don't think that some of you understand this.
the one who sometimes treated me badly is my current boyfriend, the one who had always treat me nicely is my ex.
my current man is not really mature.
my ex is amazing but we argue a lot because he sometimes hide things from me because he is afraid i will loathe him and i cannot accept that.
deep inside i misses my ex so bad because he love me inside out.
2007-02-12 15:44:11 · update #2
First of all suga it's time to give the situation some deep thought.. Place your self in both situations then make your decision..just follow your heart no what's between ur..um mm yeah u get it..lol..
2007-02-12 14:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can only have one soulmate.
The concepts of soulmates arose from Greek mythology. According to the story, our ancestors once had 2 heads, 4 arms. They did something to offend a god so that god punished them by splitting them down the middle, resulting in the creation of humans. As a punishment, we are condemned to spend our lives searching for the other half, our soulmates.
2007-02-12 22:49:10 · answer #2 · answered by kook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your current boyfriend treats you bad then break up with him!!! It sounds like the other guy is nicer, but if you guys argue all the time, thats a problem...try to rekindle that and work out your differences, and don't waste anymore time on your boyfriend.
2007-02-12 22:45:10 · answer #3 · answered by sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will always remember your 1st love and have a soft spot for him.
But u said he treated you badly, he may say he will change but due to personal situations i have experienced similar. P;ease think about how he treated you.
Do u really want to go through that again. Stick with your new b/f you need to move forward not backwards. GOODLUCK!
2007-02-12 23:12:04 · answer #4 · answered by angela c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well basicall you need to remember what made you break up with the one in the first place you really need to decide though id stick with the that acdtually treats you good
2007-02-12 22:46:22 · answer #5 · answered by vamp_19772001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are going after a friend of your sisters?
U argue with your soul mate?
It will take more then Yahoo to help U with guys
thanks for thinking of the whales.
2007-02-12 23:01:06 · answer #6 · answered by kiss4u 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't have the best of both worlds, honey. Choose one.
2007-02-12 22:48:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just saw a thing on Yahoo's main page about this... it's an article that supposedly tells you which person to choose... here it is:
http://personals.yahoo.com/us/static/relationships_two-valentines-beliefnet;_ylc=X3oDMTJlNTQ5bzNzBF9TAzI3MTYxNDkEX3MDOTU4MTIwNTAEc2VjA2ZwX3RvZGF5BHNsawNkYXRpbmctYWR2aWNlX3R3by12YWxlbnRpbmVzLWJlbGllZm5ldA--
2007-02-12 22:44:34 · answer #8 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋