WHAT THE HECK?
my parents and i got in an argument and i was mad so i went upstairs and slammed the door (i know.. im a little ***** and diserved it..) but now my door is gone.. and showers are with a batheing suit on.. and i have no privacy AT ALL.. and theres 10 people that live in my house!!!!? i dont like it.. please dont tell me i diserved it because i know but...
any ideas on how to get it back? or how to ask for it back?
2007-02-12 15:15:21 · 16 answers · asked by bubbles m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
nort... you are my hero =]
2007-02-12 15:22:44 · update #1
that is so cool......you have to earn it back.....
2007-02-12 15:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by gluckstadt_randy 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋
hahaha, oh my gosh! :) I'm chuckling because that is the exact thing my parents used to say. haha. :) they always threatened it when I'd slam the doors, or lock myself in my room after an arguement. To tell you the truth, it seems you have your head in the right place- you KNOW you were wrong- and as long as they know it--- they will get around to putting doors back up. If you have made it clear to them- realize that they are human-- pridefull sometimes too. So, they're probably letting the punishment sink in for a little while, to make a mark in your memory... then, it will probably never happen again.
-out of the house finally (in college)...with doors!!! :) haha :) sry. I know it sucks. :p cringe and bear through it! !!!!! U CAN DO IT!!!
2007-02-12 15:29:06 · answer #2 · answered by truelovewaits 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think the people that suggest that you be nice to your parents and than they will put the door back are probably right. I have a big issue now about my parents and my boyfriend's mom not trusting me with him to refrain from intimacy but when I get angry and they say something to me I don't yell and scream at them. In fact I know they are right, my struggle to not go too far with him is getting harder and harder. I'm glad they love me enough and his mom loves him to allow us to see each other all the time but make sure that we are never in a place where we are alone for too long of a time. I don't know what is going to help you now but maybe when you grow up and become a mother you should learn a lesson that yelling and screaming at your children is not the way to correct their behavior but if you love them you will correct their behavior in a kind loving way. Two things makes me feel safe and secure; the strong male arms of the boy I LOVE and the strong parental embrace of my mom and dad. I hope you will learn to love and embrace your children in the future and not have to scream and yell at them and take away the door to their room.
2007-02-12 15:56:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop acting like a two year old and perhaps you'll EARN some privacy. (although I would never take my daughter's bedroom door off...I didn't know WHAT was lurking in that mess behind her door) When she slammed her bedroom door I made hr open and shut it for an hour and half. She never slammed another door in our house.
2007-02-12 15:28:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like you are going to have to try to earn your privacy back. I can understand you wanting privacy so if I were you, I would work really hard at trying to show them that you are acting nice and you will probably be rewarded with your privacy soon. Good luck!
2007-02-12 15:22:17 · answer #5 · answered by ricks.girl 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I bet you won't be slamming any more doors! I know, low blow. But they are doing it to teach you a lesson. You have to learn how to control your temper because people are going to always tell you want to do and do things that you don't agree with. Tell them you are sorry and apologize for loosing your temper. I'm not saying this will work but it will show you are mature.
2007-02-12 15:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Nette 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You're learning an important lesson. There are consequences to your actions. Negative behaviour results in negative reactions. Positive behaviour, (clean your room without being told to, take out the trash, do the dishes, do the laundry, etc...) may, (emphasis on "MAY"), result in positive reactions, like earning your door back.
I know it isn't fun, and believe me, your parents aren't enjoying your misery either. They're trying to drive home the message that you have to consider how your actions/behaviour affect others. They're trying to make you a better person.
At least they didn't do to you what I did to my son when he started testing my patience. I shut off his electricity. Law says I have to feed you, clothe you, and provide a roof over your head. Doesn't say anything about powering your gaming systems.
See, your folks aren't as mean as you thought they were.
Chill out, pitch in, and your door will be hanging on its hinges in no time.
Good Luck.
2007-02-12 15:26:22 · answer #7 · answered by RepoMan18 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
ive never even had a door since i was 7 and now im 13 so be glad you had a door to slam to begin with!
2016-05-24 03:53:58 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had eh same problem as a child my step dad took it off after i slamed it and broke there wedding picture.
they had teh desentce to put a curtain up for me though.
its not fair and it is a invasion on your privacy. so the best way to get it back is to show them that you are grown up or pretend that our dont care.
2007-02-12 15:42:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
you will get it back when you deserve it. Ask for some extra chores and mind your manners an extra amount of smiles, helpfulness, and compliments will go a longggggg way.
2007-02-12 15:19:03 · answer #10 · answered by Christina H 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Start behaving yourself and they might allow you some privacy.
2007-02-12 15:18:27 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋