Please answer and give advice on this crucial, urgent, life and death dating question?

Question

hey guys. i need ur help.. i just met a girl thats one year younger than me. shes 16 and i am 17 in uthaic h.s. she is in my music class.. i like her becasue of her persona.. i make her laugh. just recently i found out that she has a bf for 1 years already. even though it is heartbreaking to knwo this , i feel that i have to at least try. so is there any suggestions for me to do on v-day without being to obvious. i want to play the mysterious one.. is there any chance for me to suceed. by the way, is white rose better than a red rose when giving it to someone thats in my kind of situation. thanxs for all your help

Answer 1

wow that a hard question to answer. being that she has been with her bf for 1 year and they might be in love and very happy with each. so its possible to get your heart broken. which is a chance you would have to take by giving her something on v day. wondering how she is going to take it. but i would give her a white single long stem rose. its more romantic then a red rose everybody gives out red roses on v day do something different. and i would go to the class early and put the rose on her desk with a note.

Answer 2

some mystery is fine but don't be mysterio for long or you won't get far. i think a yellow rose would be more appropriate for friendship, yes there is a chance but you will have to not worry about the boyfriend, which is a semi wrong but it happens everyday, so don't be too harsh on yourself. just talk to her and be charming, don't worry about all the other stuff. if she likes you she will end up breaking up with the other guy. it's not like your destorying a marriage or something. best of wishes

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Well you should do something. ANd follow through with it, or you will regret it. However, I would also be prepared for failure too. I am not sure about the white or red rose. I would recommend the white. Red is too serious I think for your situation. I just dont know what white means. They are nice too. ANyway, be mysterious, but make sure she knows its you. Good luck.

Answer 5

First, you better find out who her boyfriend is. If he is bigger than you, I would highly suggest not giving her a rose for valentines day. You would deserve to get beat up for doing something stupid like that--sorry, but it's the truth. Just because you make her laugh doesn't give you the right to move in.

Answer 6

Choose life. It's healthier for you than death.

Now that that part of your questions taken care of I will answer the dating part.

I can't help you there. Maybe you can off her Bf. Just don't get caught. Or maybe you can get her to hook you up with one of her friends.. Or maybe even two of her friends.... Yeah. That would be cool.

Answer 7

ma advice : dun interfere in the relationship.. its true there might be a 'chance' for u.. but nah, especially if u try to give her sumtin on v-dae, dats a big NO-NO.. i'm sure bfs and gfs are extra protective of our partners on this day coz that's when we noe who admire our partners.. and u may not noe wats her bf's attitude like.. he may not like it and cud try and find trouble wit u..