Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

My best friend (cant say name) is being abused by her father and it makes me cry because she has no mother to protect her. I just found out when I stayed the night with her and her father took her in his room and I heard her scream. I called my mom and went home. It scared me. What do I do? Since she doesnt tell anyone?

2007-02-10 17:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by Kayle 1 in Friends

good answers
There is this girl i liked at the beginning of my freshman high school year (and i am still in my freshman year) and i like her again

the problem is that i messed up the first time, because i wasnt very good at talking to girls, and i kinda creeped her out, cause i never talked to her...but lately ive matured, and its a lot easier, like i dont get nervous and crap, and i automatically talk to girls now, no effort...i think it would take some real hard work and stuff to get this girl i like, and i need ur help

ive tried to forget about her, but i just cant...i moved on for about a month, but went back because i just couldnt stand it, shes so frickekn beautiful!!!!

so i wanted some help...any ideas of how to make her like me even the slightest bit?? list things like strategies (lol) and stuff like that....
PS: no notes

maybe something for valentines day, that wouldnt give it away

AND SHES AN AWESOME PERSON, GREAT ATTITUDE AND LOOKS, and thats y i like her

2007-02-10 17:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by German L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 17:21:20 · 9 answers · asked by Buddy Love 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 17:20:54 · 17 answers · asked by sonu 1 in Friends

Its been almost 8 years since my divorce. Yet I still have yet to have a serious relationship. I seem to have a wall in my mind blocking all attempts at trusting women again. Alot of it is because I'm active military and my wife left me while I was deployed. (quite a common thing for military people) Is there a tactic to balance the job I love with finding a woman to love?

2007-02-10 17:20:39 · 6 answers · asked by RebelSquid 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was searching for people to add to my web page, and I typed in this guy's email address where the box said "search" to see if he too had a web page. Well I've know this guy for awhile, we actually had a casual relationship for over a year until he moved back to his home state. He said he wanted to keep in touch, which he did a few times, but I've initiated more than he has. Anyway, I hadn't heard from him in awhile, so I decided to see if he had a personaly page like I did. Well...the bad part of this is that he doesn't know I know of his yahoo address...when he left he gave me his work email address so I've been using that address to email him. I found that he had a yahoo address through another source. Anyway, I didn't notice that when I typed in that email address it said "invite" instead of search!! And now he probably realizes that I know his yahoo address!! How do I recover from this?!!

2007-02-10 17:18:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and have been waiting for him to be ready for 2 years now. He is in school earning his PhD and I've noticed an increase in our arguments within this past year. I feel that it is because of my unhappiness within our relationship because I so want to start a family. Recently he has told me that one of the reasons he doesnt want one right now is because of our fights. My question is is it possible for a couple to carry on if one party wants something completely different than the other as serious as this. I love my husband and want to have a family with him but I feel that I am running out of time (i am 31yrs).

DD

2007-02-10 17:18:32 · 13 answers · asked by DiseaseDetective 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-10 17:16:56 · 13 answers · asked by Raisa 1 in Singles & Dating

make someone who isnt that attractive....attracitve?

2007-02-10 17:16:09 · 10 answers · asked by CJL18 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so my boyfriend and I have only discussed oral sex, however I don't want to do anything yet becuase I'm worried about STD's. See he is 19 and when he was about 15 he regrets that he had sex with ex girlfriend then, it was his only sexual partner, but she was pretty slutty-she even was the one who pushed him into having sex-and she had a previous partner. They did not use protection sometimes either. It's been almost 5 years and he has never been tested, but I know some STD's never show any signs. He even said he couldn't trust what she told him anyway, but he is worried about his parents finding out if he went to get it done at the doctor. How bad is the risk factor and what exactly could he do?

2007-02-10 17:15:48 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I have had it I am tired of killing my husbands ex with kindness.We have 2 Month old twins she recently requested a raise in her support which the judge denied based on the new evidence my husbands attorney used proving that my husband did not father this child and now out of her being vindictive my husbands attorney has asked that the burden to support a child who he did not father be removed so now we have to go back to court in two Months we love this little boy and we thought about custody but we are at our wits end how can we make this woman go away she is just like C ock Roaches she won't leave now my husband has no problem supporting the child because my husband has said he is his father because hes been there from day one.Now shes upset because she may lose her child support which is a substantial amount and shes calling my home being down right mean and I am still civil please help I had to record her last two calls and play them back to her and threaten to press charges.

2007-02-10 17:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by CaliMa 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I like this celebrity, because I feel that I have so much in common with him, personality wise. Everytime I hear his music, or see him on the television, I instantly feel at ease. But I feel as though I'm losing my mind, because he'll never know that I exist. I talked to a friend about it, and she believes that there is someone in my personal life right now, that is very similar to my favorite celebrity, and that I really like the guy in my life, and not the celebrity. I can understand why she would suggest that, because those two men have some similarities as well. But I don't quite feel that that's all of it. There's something else about this celebrity that makes my mind wonder, and my heart flutter. I hope that its just a useless crush, that i'll eventually get over, cause this is really confusing the heck out of me. Can anyone elaborate my situation for me; maybe by prior experience, or a few words of wisdom. Thanks. (Serious answers please!)

2007-02-10 17:13:52 · 2 answers · asked by sassy_playmate2003 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my fiance' mother is a very difficult woman. She likes to have near complete control over his life, (he lives at home, as do I) and makes very tactless comments to me about him and our relationship. I'm very much in love with him, but she's a near unbearable force between Nick and myself.
For the most part she's a wonderful woman, very kind, but then she says something (for instance about his ex-girlfriend stephanie whom is still crazy for him) that is so COMPLETELY misplaced. she also likes to make events that are more me oriented very difficult to accomplish.

2007-02-10 17:13:39 · 9 answers · asked by Nymph 2 in Singles & Dating

i need a good quote/anecdote about liars, lying, and lies.

2007-02-10 17:12:44 · 6 answers · asked by lizzy loves life. 2 in Friends

Okay, here is the low down on me:
I'm 30... Faithfully married for 10+ years... Stay at home mom of 3... I am 5'7" & a size 4, pretty face, I keep my hair, make-up, nails & toes done... I try to look nice all the time... I cook, bake, sew, write, read, clean my house, tend to the kids, I don't drink or party and I don't have friends other than the PTA moms at the school... I never go out, so I am home all the time.

My husband who is 33 and works in construction. He loves golf and playing the drums and recently quit drinking 1 year ago... It was a case a night for our entire marriage... (And many nights alone)
He works 5 days a week and then golfs sat and sun...

He cheated 5 years ago by moving in with the married secretary at his work, me and his kids lost our place (we rented) and his family helped out...He eventually came back only to be mean & rub every last detail in my face.
Of course, he says I pushed him... Which I guess maybe I should've not asked to go out or for a.

2007-02-10 17:11:31 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So me and my ex have been broken up for about 4 months now. I was doing great. I hardly thought of him anymore. Then a couple of weeks ago I found out he has a new g/f. Now he is all I can think about. I wish I could be with him. Is it really a crush or is it just him looking like a shiney new penny now? I just can't help, but wish I could run into him. He lives a couple of hours away though so that wouldn't be possible unless I went psycho and drove there to purposely run into him. It really feels like a crush. I know our relationship ended for its reasons and he's obviously moved on. I was almost over him and then bam. I'm back at square one. This is a bxtch. I'm actually considering sending him a Valentine's card. It would be so wrong since he has a g/f. I need to stop. Has anyone else gone through this? What was the outcome? Did you get over it? I know everyone says it'll take time. Well yeah. 4 months seems like plenty of time.

2007-02-10 17:11:25 · 23 answers · asked by Tiffany 3 in Singles & Dating

Wow, i was sooooo shocked when i heard that she was dead. I mean it is so weird because her son just died not too long ago and its sorta creepy. What do ya'll think?

2007-02-10 17:11:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-10 17:09:37 · 15 answers · asked by pain 1 in Friends

I've tried everything possible to make frineds and failed! Like, if you can think of it I've tried it several times already. What should I do?

2007-02-10 17:08:34 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I met a guy over the summer and we got really close. He goes to a different school, but we only live 15 minutes away. We got really close and were practically dating. we both ran cross country and got to see eachother at the meets and we hung out a few times a week. I REALLY liked him. But one day we hung out all day and I took him home and he said he'd call the next day and I left. But he didn't call and wouldn't talk to me on the internet the next night. We haven't spoken in person since. November was when this happened. I went to his football game thatweek to talk to him and he barley said anything to me. But a few weeks ago i sent him a message on myspace and asked him why he wouldn't talk to me and he said it was because he was afraid of getting too attached to me or something i've seen him a few times at bball games, and i really want to talk to him but i'm too afraid. i really scared he'll just ignore me. I want to tell him how i feel and try to work it out. what should i do??

2007-02-10 17:08:09 · 3 answers · asked by Its mee!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

I was wondering if anyone could help me. I am 17, and I currentley like this one girl. Unfortunatley there is another guy "Mike". He has a girlfriend, but still calls the girl I like "Jill". "Jill" says we would date if she still didn't like "Mike". "Mike" used to like "Jill" and she didn't realize that she liked him until he got his current girlfriend. "Mike" currently goes to a different school where I have many friends. I have found out and confirmed many times that he is a stoner. "Jill" is very religous and I know she doesn't approve of stuff like that. I don't believe that she knows. I want to know if you think I should tell her what I have found out. I am afraid she will think it is just somthing I'm saying to get me ahead, and it's just I don't want to see her get hurt. Please help, thanks for your input.

2007-02-10 17:07:43 · 10 answers · asked by Nike 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i've got this girl pregnant but i have a girl friend what should i tell her or what should i do because i don't wan't to end up like usher (the condoum poped).

2007-02-10 17:07:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So what if there is a misspelling. This isn't phucking school.

2007-02-10 17:07:29 · 10 answers · asked by Billy Bob D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i only find old man to be attractive , they just look so good ,i am 20 years old and i want to be with someone 70 years older than me . young guy are just ugly to me but i get turn on by the image of a 90 year od mans body.

2007-02-10 17:07:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anastasia 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 17:07:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Looking for a website similar to girldon'tdatehim.com

2007-02-10 17:06:41 · 7 answers · asked by kr2srno 1 in Singles & Dating

she babies her son too much, she wont let him be a man. plus she has 2 faces or (2faced). how do i deal with her?

2007-02-10 17:05:35 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been with him for 2 years now. im a 14 yr old freshman in highschool,and he's a 16 yr old sophomore.He didn't used to be like this.2 weeks ago my 21 yr old cousin came to visit for a day,and i hadn't seen her in 4 yrs,but she's like my sister because we're so close, so i told him that that night she was here,i was going to spend time with her and not get online to talk to him or call him,and he goes "well fine i didn't want to talk to you anyways see if i care.go do whatever i guess" in this really nasty yelling voice,and he thought i was being mean because i wouldn't talk to him for one whole night.He comes over to my house every night,literally,and so at school i like spending time with my friends,and he thinks i should be with him at all times that we can during school,even though i see him everynight, and barely see my friends.He don'twant me to wear makeup, and he tells me what time to go to bed. He gets mean when i can't think of something to talk about with him.

2007-02-10 17:04:05 · 17 answers · asked by JaggedLittlePill 4 in Singles & Dating

I have to make noise complaints about the guy above me all the time and this one particular officer always comes to my door to give me a case number... he's hott. I really want to bone him bad. I noticed that he never lets his partner come to my door, after 20 times he's been the one to do it... He may like me... Either way, I want to ask him out - - please give me some ideas on how to do this. I'm almost embarrassed.

2007-02-10 17:03:04 · 7 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

At my upcoming semi-formal I was just wondering if it would be ok to ask a friend for a dance, even though her bf will be there? That is if I get up the nerve to do it. Also would it be ok to ask a different friend for a dance who doesn't have a date to semi? Like what are the general guidelines with dancing with friends (btw both these friends I've had previous history with) or should I ask someone completely different like someone random on the dance floor? I guess it also doesn't help that I've never actually danced when i've gone to a dance before, though I would like to change that this time around!

2007-02-10 17:01:01 · 9 answers · asked by thee_guy 2 in Friends